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lopships · 5 years

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about and byf/byi (update as of 5/28/19)

i’m bambi,

welcome to jackass.

my full chosen name is bambi maxine amber.

im 18 years old.

that means blacklist my not safe for minors tags (nsfm and nsfm; ment) or don’t follow at all

that also means im a fuckin adult and i can post whatever the hell i want on my own blog without policing.

im hella white.

which means all of my viewpoints are coming from a white person who has always been privileged because of that fact. i can’t speak on some shit and i own that.

my pronouns are it/its.

im a nonbinary demigirl. that means i don’t associate with the standard gender binary, but i present as a girl and don’t mind feminine nicknames or associations. but don’t be fooled, im just as much a girl as a porcelain doll is. :)

i will not tolerate being misgendered. i don’t have any alt pronouns. if you struggle with them for any reason, im sincerely sorry, but i won’t be comfortable interacting. i hope you understand.

im bisexual and polyamorous.

in my book, bisexual and pansexual are basically interchangable terms. pansexual isn’t More Inclusive Bisexual. it doesn’t “also include nb people”. it isn’t “hearts not parts”. all of those things are rooted in transphobia. if you sincerely and stubbornly believe any of those things and refuse to talk about it respectfully? don’t bother following.

i’m in a relationship with a wonderful boy who has a wonderful system who i am dating multiple members of irl.

i am mentally ill

i have borderline personality disorder, autism, adhd, dissocative identity disorder, and post traumatic stress.

i am also hypersexual. more on that later.

before you interact

if we share an f/o, don’t do it. just don’t do it. my borderline personality disorder makes it very hard to tolerate sharing f/o’s of any kind, and it will probably give me incredible anxiety. im not gonna argue with you about this, and you aren’t owed an explanation. if you need to, send me a pm saying that we share one and you’d like me to block you/you to block me for that reason. that’s the only exception for this rule.

are you personally offended or angry at something i said? planning on reblogging a post with a very passive aggressive comment, either in the reblog itself or the tags? are you considering sending an ask? maybe a pm? do you want to vaguepost about me? know that i will be blocking you immediately, taking screenshots of your bullshit, and me and my friends will laugh at you while you pout in anger. block and move on, it’s that simple.

are you uncomfortable with d. d. l. g. or c. g. l. r. e. interaction? don’t even look at me. go ahead and block me, in fact.

are you comfortable with transmed/truscum/maps/nomaps interacting with you? would you rather have an inclusive, “peaceful” community than a selectively exclusive but safe one? go ahead and block me.

before you follow

does any of the above apply to you? don’t follow me.

are you a minor or uncomfortable with not safe for work or not safe for minors content? don’t follow me.

are you interested in one of my f/os, and are following just to like my content of them and reblog it from op, or, heaven forbid, directly from me? don’t follow me.

do you value a quiet, inclusive space that defines inclusion with pedophiles, necrophiliacs, and actual terfs over the safety of minors and lgbt people? don’t follow me.

are you one of those annoying ass mutuals who don’t actually give a shit about original content, have never and have no intention of reading this post, and just like to reblog ask games from me without sending any? go ahead and unfollow me, if you ever get some sense in your fuckin’ head to read your mutuals links.

other

i condone d.d. l.g. and yandere content that doesn’t non-consensually involve the public. if you don’t like that shit, you don’t have to follow. but i think victims of abuse and trauma should be able to cope with their trauma in however way they see fit without having their morals policed by people who don’t know anything about their lifestyle. any asks sent my way about this will get deleted.

i don’t condone nor excuse the actions of my f/os. i know a few of them have done entirely inexcusable things, but as a victim of trauma, csa, rape, abuse, manipulation, etc, and a fucking adult, i get to choose who i daydream about kissing. not you.

i do not ship with real people. i do not condone shipping with real people if you’re an actual adult who knows better. i have gotten way too many asks about this.

i will post suggestive and not safe for minors content on my fucking blog because im a hypersexual person and ive earned the right to. if you have an issue with it? block me and keep scrolling.

90% of my anon hate gets deleted. 10% gets responded to if i can think of a funny joke to respond with, or i can answer a legitimate concern. 100% of it gets screenshotted and laughed at with friends.

contact

i follow and interact from @heartfulsong

my discord is #bambi7843

if you’re 18 or over, consider asking me about my private discord server for self shippers who partake in suggestive content with their F/Os

you can always pm me with anything. don’t be shy.

if you have a legitimate concern or question about my about, feel free to send it in an ask or pm.

like this post if you read. reply with your self ship url if your ss is a sideblog. <3

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