can we study the klance to byler shipping pipeline

1/2Ok so I kind of have a little problem? Idk if this is like... idek know what it’s called just let me explain. I love klance fluff. Reading it and looking at fan art. It’s adorable. I love all my ships fluff it doesn’t mater which one. But a while ago ( when I had a boyfriend) he was talking about all this stuff, and it made me uncomfortable? It was sweet stuff, like ‘cute’ dates that we could go on. They were way too much for me. It made me really uncomfortable and I didn’t like it all.

2/2 now me and my boyfriend never WENT on any dates or got anything to do with being physical, not even holding hands because my dad works at my school and he’s strictly against me dating. So I would’ve been dead if he saw me. He used to talk about holding my hand and stuff, and kissing me and I just didn’t want to do it. I still don’t. I’ve never really thought about that stuff with anyone. So Idk what it is, because I’ve never done anything. oops three parts sorry 2/3

So idk if it’s gross because I haven’t done it, maybe I need to do it to like it? Idk it just doesn’t seem right for me to do that type of stuff. I can lay with my parents and hold hands with my family, but It grossed me out to do any of that with anyone else. Any advice? Idk if that’s just me or if there’s like a term for that? Idk sorry I’m just confused -🐙 3/3

Hon, I wish I could provide some comfort for you, but unfortunately, I have the same feelings–and I’ve actually been physical with people before!

I love fluff, but whenever stuff like that happened to me in real life, it felt so…….fake? I guess?

I think that’s when I took a step back and looked at my feelings in past relationships, and that’s how I discovered I was asexual (that doesn’t mean you’re asexual, I’m just talking about my case :3)

One thing’s for sure though; if you feel uncomfortable doing these things, then don’t force yourself to do them! Only do them when you feel you’re ready. They’re supposed to be enjoyable experiences, you know?