"Debling you don't deserve what this fandom is going to do to you"

Correct! He deserves worse

people saying prongsfoot makes more sense than wolfstar…. *hands you a pitchfork*

strongly agree | agree | neutral | disagree | strongly disagree

y'all know i am a big big big fan of the prongsfoot friendship. and i even like a little blurry platonic we love each other so much it looks romantic but ISN'T moment, especially where these two are concerned, but come ON. it's always been wolfstar. it's always is wolfstar. it's always going to be wolfstar. controversially, i think that people can have different types of relationships with different people, and that doesn't necessarily make one more important than the other. generally, i hate arguments of who 'means more' to them. can't james and remus both mean equally as much to sirius in different ways? can't sirius and remus or sirius and regulus or whoever mean just as much to each other in different ways?? OR! if sirius DOES 'mean more' to james and vice versa, i don't think that adding romance inherently makes a relationship better or stronger. like, i'm the type of person that has always has and probably always will value my friendships more than romantic relationships, so i'm probably biased in that regard, but it pisses me off when people feel the need to automatically jump to "more than friends" WHY ISN'T FRIENDS ENOUGH! WHY ISN'T FRIENDS MORE THAN LOVERS! so, like, circling back to prongsfoot, they simply don't make more sense than wolfstar to me if we're talking about romance, BECAUSE THEY DON'T NEED TO BE ROMANTIC TO HAVE A VALID RELATIONSHIP!! i don't mind if people want to ship them romantically, do what you want fr, but idk, i'm of the opinion that sirius and james both have the capacity to care about other people as much as they care about each other, and i hate the trend of trying to simplify that. even codependent besties can have other relationships in their life LOL (i'm about to mention yaz, i need you guys to know how strong i am for waiting until now to mention yaz. it was burning inside me all this time.) but like fr yaz and i are crazy codependent and yeah i probably love them more than almost anyone in this world but that doesn't mean we don't also care about and have love for other people and i feel like that's how some people expect sirius and james to act?????

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so I have a really thick skin, which is why this just makes me laugh:

Of all the shit I've done, to get my first actual 👎 (not counting shorts) on THAT ONE is so confusing Like, bruh... I'm sorry you don't like collaborative creative fandom projects 🤷🏻‍♀️ idk lol Maybe they were mad because it wasn't a song or an audio fic? Impatiently waiting for Season 2 of my series? Don't worry. I'll get right on that.

Thinking about people i used to like and 😬 yeah no yikes

comparing leftwing feminists (most of whom are asian) who think that gender is a patriarchal construct that ought to be abolished to NAZIS is insane. in 50 years there'll be a whistleblower who'll reveal the villainisation of radical feminists was a rightwing CIA psyop and you'll all pretend that you weren't part of it.

If you really care about gender equality and/or abolition, go turn your rage on the politicians taking away people's bodily autonomy instead of doing their dirty work obsessing over a minority just trying not to get hate-crime'd.

Me: I am . . . full of rage recently. Just . . . all the time?

Coworker who knows about all the shit going on in my life right now: I would like to point out, y'know, the obvious, but why do I feel like that's incorrect?

Me, snapping my fingers into prime finger gun position: Precisely! Pisces is going into Aquarius or whatever the fuck, and I'm feeling very guillotine about it!

Coworker:

😐 i’m never reaching out again in my life

Me: Oh! It’s like three weeks until 911 is back

My asshole friends: Are you gonna say this is the season those guys are getting together like you did last season?

the thing about me is that i find "don't think about [my idea that i'm sharing with you that i actually want you to think about]" posts extremely annoying. get better soon everyone who writes like that 🙏

HP fandom brainrot victim

Thinking about the claims on here that I keep seeing that criticizing Rory Gilmore in any way is "misogyny" and well, no. I believe that in the OS although she does fucked-up teenage things and makes mistakes, generally she remains aware of her foibles and tries to make up for most of the bad things she does or at least minimize the damage. The narrative during the OS does seek to have Rory aware of the harm that she causes to others and is willing to punish her when she fucks up: for Lorelai, I feel it tries to argue that she's always right and is reluctant to have her apologize for her behavior. This is not to let Rory off the hook when she uses her love interests against each other or cheats or is cruel to her mother, but at least there's enough of a moral underpinning in her story that she's aware that she shouldn't be doing these things.

AYITL Rory is a different story. She's kind of a nightmare most of the time. She's basically living her life like her father did, like we see Logan and his friends do: fumbling around, choosing to be rootless and uncommitted, fumbling the opportunities she is given because she doesn't feel like applying herself to them, and being generally uninterested in improving her life until Jess comes in with his huge biceps and perfect hair and emotional stability and inspires her to get her shit together. Even then, she continues to kind of be awful. She throws a tantrum because Lorelai doesn't want her to write the book the way she wants (by exposing Lorelai's private life) and whines that if Lorelai doesn't let her do this she'll have to GET A JOB SHE DOESN'T WANT (the horror!), she continues to mooch off of Lane even though she can afford to get her own place, and to top it all off she has (unprotected?) sex with her engaged ex-boyfriend who she knows is going ahead with the marriage and is now living with his fiance and gets pregnant (even though Logan gave her a key to her own room and told her he didn't expect anything else from her). Yes, she makes up with her mom and tells her know she won't go ahead with the book if Lorelai doesn't agree to it but I don't think that makes up for so much bad behavior. And yes, she was at odds professionally and we can empathize with her crisis but she does a lot of cruel things and is generally incredibly irresponsible and selfish and I don't think the fact that she couldn't get the job she wanted really excuses the affair with Logan whatsoever or Rory's general indifference to how it affected Logan's fiance or the risks she was running. It takes Rory all of a day to realize her dalliance with Dean is a horrible idea and to remove herself from him and she was immediately apologetic for trying to use Jess to cheat on Logan, but she carries on with Logan in AYITL for months if not years and doesn't seem to really care about Odette (and even lets Mitchum call in favors for her). Any moral compass she had during the OS is more or less nonexistent: she only seems to give up on Logan when she realizes the situation isn't good for HER anymore.

Pointing this out is not misogyny any more than pointing out that her multiple infidelities during the OS were cruel and hurt people who didn't deserve it (except for Dean, because who cares about him). If you respect Rory as a morally autonomous individual, then you also respect that she is responsible for her own actions and the effect they have on other people. That's not hating her: that's respecting that she can and should do better.

The (fictional) world isn't going to end over this. She's not a supervillain. However, it is okay to point out when one of your favorites does stuff that's messed up.

Oh damn why does this random line from Tumblr go so hard-

Because you’re easily impressed 🤷‍♀️

//This feels like an Alexa thing lmfao

i love the dialogue when anders says “i can’t imagine what hawke sees in you” not only bc of fenris getting mad at the end and saying breaking things off w hawke is the hardest thing he’s ever done, but also just like. anders out of nowhere being like “what do they even see in you” is so funny all the characters in this game are SUCH haters

when i said "i dont feel like being nice" and then * came along and now i want to be so fuckinf nice always. always