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Aro culture is wondering why people stalk their crushes like yeah it's fine to look at their Instagram or know their birthday but why do you know their schedule and how the hell do you remember the day that you two met like what-

hey that's... not necessarily stalking and as someone who has been stalked, please be careful about using that term incorrectly. it isn't uncommon for people to know the first time they met someone, especially if the event was memorable. it isn't uncommon to know someone's schedule if you know them. there's a difference between stalking and knowing personal details that can be learned by pattern-recognition or by having a good memory.

#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod alexander #sorry but no thanks #these behaviors can be part of stalking but really really don't define it without extreme behavior #and as someone who got stalked by someone who had a crush on me - as in #following me to every part of my schedule he physically could and contriving ways to gain as much access beyond that as possible #'stalking' someone's insta the way it gets used is really really different #and much more likely a person trying to get basic information to flesh out their perception of a person than. y'know.#extreme privacy violations and refusing to leave them alone even when unnanounced

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