It's Just a Game

I grew up in a household that loved to watch sports. I was always against the grain when it comes to sports because in the past, I was a very antagonistic sports fan. My family tried to raise me on two premises. There are two baseball teams in Chicago, and you should always root for the team from where you were born. I disagreed with that as I was a White Sox fan through and through and despised the Cubs. I wasn't down with the 1985 Bears, but the 85 Dolphins since they beat them. I also loved the Blackhawks, and eventually found a way to root for the Miami Heat (because I was a very antagonistic sports fan.) However my feelings about sports have been starting to change over the years.

At the end of the day, sports is a game. It's where people compete, but unfortunately it has become much more than that over the years. What started as friendly competition between different humans has now become a pissing contest and a money heist.

First let me talk about the sports industry itself. There are billions of dollars at play here. Billions. Sports is a very marketable commodity and the athletes who participate are paid very large sums of money. I understand that this is what it is and it isn't' anyone's fault. As with most things, human begins find a way to take something beautiful and make it crazy. However, the way some of these athletes present themselves is not cool at all. They are role models to very impressionable young men and women who look up to them. Some of these athletes really do their best to maintain a positive image. People speak of hard work and getting your craft right, which i don't have a problem with. However, the drama show sports has become sucks. We should care more about what goes on in the field, than the locker rooms. The NFL has made itself a year round spectacle with the draft, the combine, and ofcourse we have salary caps and things like that which create much debate between fans.

Fueling the fans anger and "passion" about sports is the talking heads of ESPN and FS1. Listening to the ugliness that comes out of the mouths of people like Colin Cowherd, Skip Bayless just to name a few in insane. These people never have played sports, but they talk like they have so much knowledge about the game. They are very dismissive of people and their opinions. They add fuel to the hate machine that sportsmedia has become.

And the fans are taking things way too far. I have seen so many videos of fans fighting each other over silly stuff. I have seen fans dump popcorn on players heads. Anyone remember the malice at the palace? that was a result of a fan throwing a drink on a player.

As I said earlier, I like the Miami Dolphins. Their quarterback Tua Tagovailoa is one of the nicest, humblest, players i have ever seen, and he had led Miami to a couple of winning seasons, something us Finfans haven't seen since the days of Marino (the guy who made ma fan.) Yet all the complaining and personal attacks on Tua are crazy.

My bottom line is I believe the sports world should be looking at ways where they put kindness and sportsmanship first. I respect peoples opinions but some of the sports talkers out there need to go. Sports has become a world of toxicity and I never really became a huge sports fan until I reached my late 20s and early 30s because I felt I couldn't identify with anything. As I have taken a deep dive into my life, I find myself caring less and less about sports, with the exception of football. Sports is quite the commitment. As I said the NFL runs a year long business. But its only 17 weeks and if you are lucky your team plays a few games in the playoffs where they win and go home. Its not the 162 game marathon baseball is or the 88 game season in basketabll and hockey. It goes by fast, easy to keep up with. However, something needs to be said about the sports culture. The innocence of sports is gone.

People need to remember at the end, its only a game. The players don't care whether or not you have negative feelings towards them. The media only wants you to buy the stuff they advertise in between innings, downs, time outs, whatever. People need to stop taking it so seriously. Start looking at why you take it so seriously. What are you missing? What will help you feel happier? What will make you feel joy? It may be the thrill of victory, but that's not guaranteed. What is guaranteed is the impression you leave on the people around you, and I would strongly caution many sports fans to take that in stride. When you make hurtful remarks, they cannot be taken back. When you go after players, you forget they are human too because of the pedestals they have been placed on. Many sports fans will say they're just spitting facts. Facts don't care about feelings, people do. So maybe less facts, and more empathy is what is needed in the athletic world. These athletes leave the game not the same, and they are lucky to make the money they have, but they bleed red like all of us.

I asked for kindness on a Dolphins fan page on Facebook one day, and people told me to shut up. That this is a sports page and this is how people talk. Change is the most beautiful thing in the world. It has to start somewhere. I hope there are others who feel like I do and want to see less anger and sarcasm. I was there. i was the worst, Looking back I am ashamed how I behaved during my Sox vs Cubs days. I have been trying to grow and at the end of the day, I can only do what I can do. I can decide what I allow in my environment and maybe if this continues, I may have to reconsider my fondness for football and choose kindness and grace instead.

Sorry I rambled alot this week, but it just was on my mind so I spoke on it. How do you feel?

M

Lo Scandalo Black Sox

White Sox Black White Crocs Clog

White Sox Black White Crocs Clog for men women, gift for everyone is the perfect gift for any occasion. These stylish clogs are a great way to show your support for the White Sox and show off your sense of style. The classic black and white design will be sure to turn heads, while the comfort and convenience of the Crocs clog make them an ideal gift for anyone. The Crocs clog is made from lightweight Croslite material, which is designed to provide superior cushioning and support. The Croslite material is also odor-resistant, which makes them perfect for everyday wear. The clog features a slip-on design, making them easy to get on and off, and the classic White Sox logo on the side adds a touch of team spirit. The White Sox Black White Crocs Clog for men women, gift for everyone is also incredibly versatile. The clog can be worn with jeans, shorts, or even a dress for a more formal look. The classic black and white design makes them perfect for any occasion, whether it’s a casual outing or a night out on the town. The clog is also incredibly comfortable, making it the perfect gift for anyone who loves to be comfortable. The White Sox Black White Crocs Clog for men women, gift for everyone is the perfect gift for any White Sox fan. The classic design and comfortable fit make them perfect for everyday wear, while the team spirit of the logo will be sure to make them a hit with any fan. The clog is also incredibly versatile, making them the perfect gift for anyone who loves to be comfortable and stylish.

Get it here : White Sox Black White Crocs Clog

Home Page : tshirtslowprice.com

Reports of Frank Thomas’ death were greatly exaggerated by Fox News. The Big Hurt is alive and well.

🧢 Vintage NWT Starter Cap 🌟 Chicago White Sox ⚾️ Score this classic gem now!   

Discover the seismic shift in the Chicago White Sox's leadership as Ken Williams and Rick Hahn step down, leaving fans and players in anticipation of a new era in baseball.

The Angels Elevate Their Game: Acquisition of Giolito and López Revamps Pitching Lineup

Angels' Bold Move in the Trade Market In a fascinating move that is reshaping the Los Angeles Angels' pitching staff, the team has acquired starting pitcher Lucas Giolito and reliever Reynaldo López from the Chicago White Sox. This development comes after speculations that the Angels were looking to add more players to support two-way superstar Shohei Ohtani. Indeed, the Angels' maneuvers signal their intent to maximize the team's performance before the August 1 trade deadline. Giolito and López: A Reunion Under the Los Angeles Sky Notably, Lucas Giolito and Reynaldo López share a history of being traded together. The two right-handed pitchers were part of a 2016 trade package from the Washington Nationals to the White Sox for outfielder Adam Eaton. In this recent trade, both players find themselves once again bundled together, marking an exciting development in their careers. TRADE: The Angels are acquiring Lucas Giolito and Reynaldo Lopez from the White Sox in exchange for Edgar Quero and Ky Bush. pic.twitter.com/73X54wxa51 — FOX Sports: MLB (@MLBONFOX) July 27, 2023 Lucas Giolito: A Stellar Addition Lucas Giolito, a Southern California native, has been making a significant impact in the baseball world, with a 3.79 ERA in 121 innings pitched in 2023 across 21 starts. His upcoming free agency had sparked numerous discussions about his potential departure from the White Sox, a team struggling at 41-62, and out of playoff contention. Read the full article

I won the raffle at @jokerswildshow and won this cool @bighurt #baseballcard and #collectible plaque Come out to the next show. They book very #funny #comedians and you never know what you may win #jokerswild #frankthomas #bighurt #whitesox #chicagowhitesox #baseball #mlb (at Universal Bar & Grill) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoX2xApvR5H/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Personalize MLB Chicago White Sox Max Soul Sneakers Sport Shoes

I'm a fan of Max Soul sneakers. I like the way they look and the fit is perfect. I can wear them out or in. The shoes are good quality and the price is good. I would recommend them to anyone.

Get it here : Personalize MLB Chicago White Sox Max Soul Sneakers Sport Shoes

Home Page : tshirtslowprice.com

MLB Chicago White Sox Comfortable Crocs Crocband Clog

Get it here : MLB Chicago White Sox Comfortable Crocs Crocband Clog

Home Page : tshirtslowprice.com

Happy Birthday (yesterday) @bojackson #bojackson #boknows #mlb #nfl #kcroyals #laraiders #auburntigers #chicagowhitesox #californiaangels #happybirthday #illustration #compositionbookchronicles #cqcomics #conquesopublishing https://www.instagram.com/p/Clo0sySulMm/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Reposted from @allstarpresschicago We had such a fun time making this @sentrock print release happen! It's always a blast when we get to support our local @whitesox team while we're at it. ⚾ Get ready for our Sentrock print release “Southside” tomorrow at 12PM CST Available for purchase at allstarpresschicago.com "Southside" by Sentrock 24” x 18” Edition of 40 7 Color Screen Print 160 lb. Mohawk Superfine Bright White Hand Deckled Edges Signed and numbered Printed by Fugscreens Studios #sentrock #sox #whitesox #chicagowhitesox #sportsart #artprint #screenprint #artforyourhome #whitesoxart #chicagoart #allstarpress #chicagogallery #streetart (at All Star Press Chicago) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cjsa9JNOePg/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Chicago White Sox #whitesoxfan #whitesoxbaseball #chicago #chicagowhitesox #whitesoxs #whitesox #pstvebrand #whitesoxnation #southpaw (at Chicago, Illinois) https://www.instagram.com/p/CiN-pbcILkU/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Did I say ONE NIGHT? Well, I meant TWO Nights Only! (We shall see if this remains to be true.) Come Hangout, have a beer or 3 and grab something delicious to eat before BINGO begins. BINGO STARTS AT 5PM CST 10 Rounds, 10 Chances to Win Fabulous Prizes To top it off, Time Out, does their own COVER ALL Jackpot during Round 9. Feel Free to call ahead to ask any specific questions you may have regarding their jackpot information, their food, and accessibility. 708-482-3222 #fnfbingo #jackpot #timeoutjackpot #prizes #mula #money #fun #barbingo #mistressofceremonies #mc #weirdchicago #AccelerateGoKart #coolerthanfun #countertopcook #skydivemidwest #ziptour #starbucks #kindle #nintendoswitch #chicagowhitesox #timeoutcash #targetgiftcard #countrysideillinois (at Time Out Sports Bar) https://www.instagram.com/p/ChNW1BgrUMc/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=