literally the only people that advocate for staying in relationships without a MARRIAGE LICENSE for like 4+ years are women who stayed foreverrrrrrrrrrrrrr for a ring and FINALLY got it 😭😭😭😭 like i’m sorry that’s harsh but girl shut the fuck up don’t nobody have time to waste their youth like that ! Btw this is coming from someone who was in a 4 year relationship and I WISH I had ended it two years in it would have saved me so much time and heartache