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shiny-eyed-corvid · 25 days

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Do you ever worry that an item you pick up might be covered or laced with something gross/dangerous?

hey anon! i’m definitely mindful of this, especially in a big city like nyc that has all sorts of gross and hazardous materials around, but that’s why I pick up almost everything with a set of these bad boys that I keep in my bag at all times

they’re called trongs and are meant for handling messy food, but I was looking for a solution that was easier than stopping and putting a glove on and taking it off again all the time and these fit the bill for me!

I also wear waterproof work gloves (and sometimes a mask) when I clean items, so in general I’m not touching them with my bare skin until they have been cleaned/disinfected. And of course I always wash and/or sanitize my hands after handling any items.

Thanks for the ask! stay safe out there ✨🐦‍⬛

#ask #anon #not collection #i was doing things barehanded at first then using hand sanitizer because gloves weren’t practical on the go #but my partner and some of my friends were like 🔪 you need more protection #(especially after one incident i had with a surprise sharp object yeowch)#the trongs have been game changing tbh #also make sure you’re up to date on your tetanus shots besties!!

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furby-organist · 2 years

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👫 ⚔️ 📺 ♦️

My muse in a relationship ?s

Under a cut because I have untreatable Can’t Shut The Fuck Up Disease

👫 Do they display affection in public? What about in private?

Yes and yes! Public is fun for dramatic & grandiose gestures! Some physical PDA! As it is now, he’s fine with tame things like holding hands, fussing over each other, looking at each other all enamored like the brain cells have evacuated the premises (platonic eyefucking for ace dumbass aligned people & morosexuals), that sort of thing.

In private, yes. Also being extra as fuck, even if it’s just between them him & a partner. When brainrot is present and touch aversion is absent, he’s very tactile & stuck like a koala on a tree. TOUCHY. PLS TOUCH. He prefers to keep intimate displays of affection in private, physical or otherwise. Being authentic & candid & vulnerable is something that he rarely feels comfortable with. It’s so hard to go Off Air. The second he feels like there’s a third party witnessing, he’s On Air and he needs to Perform For That Audience. It becomes consumable content! What a terrible thing to do to something that feels sacred.

⚔️ Are they protective of their partner?

Yes! A big part of gentleman-hood (chosen gender) to him is using power & strength to protect.

This doesn’t always manifest as him throwing hands. Like, okay, for example, his kewpie is an alt with (I assume) a similar power level, his mutual arocrush is an alt with (I assume) a similar power level, his tax husband (hi) has NO problem throwing down. If the other person is handling themself fine, he’ll stand back and eat popcorn. Doing otherwise makes him look a beta cuck who’s just looking to prove himself, and also make his partner/friend look like they can’t handle themselves w/o backup. Sometimes ‘protective’ just means standing back and keeping an eye out in case he DOES need to jump in.

Sometimes it just means things like shutting it down if a friend is being shitty to his partner, or throwing his weight around as a pre-emptive “they’re with me, behave” in some situations. Sometimes it looks like, if you’re feeling unsafe, he’s taking you home. He’s not fuckin sending you home in an Uber so he can keep partying. (He wants to kill every dude on AITA who does this.)

📺 Do they share information about their relationships freely with friends and family?

Depends! It’s important for him to feel like his friends and family want to listen. He’s never just partnered with people for the sake of it? His aro ass is only swayed into partnership by some pretty intense brainrot. Very intense feelings are difficult to talk about.

Postmortem, it’s been hard for him. It took him a while to be okay talking about his kewpie-ship because it was so much to deal with emotionally. Overwhelming. Precious & fragile & precarious at first, like if he moved wrong, everything would break. Shit is SCARY! Now that he feels more stable, it’s easier. He’s open to talking about it when he feels like he can.

Premortem, he had more close friends to talk to, he had family, so, sure, re: his relationships with women. Re: relationships with men, not so much, unless they were in the tight circle of friends who knew and didn’t like, stiffen uncomfortably at the topic.

And as much as he likes it when other people are messy, he’s not prone to doing it himself or stirring up his own drama. (His own drama stirs itself up just fine on its own, he doesn’t need to assist it.) So, a balance? Stuff that would be appropriate to share about a friendship, if that makes sense? The really intimate stuff, no, that stuff stays private. He finds it really distasteful when people just talk about their partner’s personal secrets & trauma & neuroses & sex habits like it’s casual conversation. What a vile way to treat someone who gave you access to their heart & body. Die.🔪🔪🔪

♦️ Are they concerned with the social status of their partner?

It’s not a contributing factor wrt catching brainrot. It’s something to be aware of. Partnering with someone who’s not in the public eye will thrust this person into the public eye, unless they keep the relationship under wraps. Partnering with someone who has more power & social capital is beneficial to him, but also comes with more social duties (and more reasons to behave). If his partner’s social status involves them being shunned by all his friends bc they like, eat babies, it’s gonna be tedious to manage. tl;dr a partner’s social status may require his emotional/social/interpersonal labor to make it work, and he needs to be honest about what he’s willing to do. (Honestly, his partner should be worried about HIS social status! infamous ass)

From a different angle, though: partnering with someone whose status is similar to his means that they have a shared experience. Another public figure, or equally infamous & powerful person, is going to Understand things that your average civilian just can’t.

#rp meme answer.#arachn0philia

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lestatlioncunt · 2 years

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❤️💗💢💋🔪 for vesper!

aahh thank you elliot!! let's go with my little purble girl

❤️— How do they most often express their love? Verbally or through actions?

Vesper isn’t the greatest at expressing love in general, but verbally? She’s a disaster, trailing off, embarassment, literally can’t do it. She prefers showing it through actions, acts of service especially. Helping out when she knows a loved ones needs it, cooking (trying) their favourite food. Need to have a talk to figure something out? She’s gonna be there for you, listening for the whole night even.

💗— Do they noticeably change once they’re in love? Is it easy to notice or just something their partner would pick up on?

She’s sneaky. She will try her best to let it go unnoticed. If you know her well enough you can notice the way she seems to smile way more often, crack jokes even, and ESPECIALLY the way she would let out a dramatic sigh when looking at someone she loves. The yearning is so strong with her omg. If she’s in a relationship i think that at first she would look so different from her usual self, trying to be affectionate, holding her loved one hands, bringing little gifts. Everything that would make Daniel go “is that my sister?” and Fenix “god i wish that were me (again)”. They just need to get used to see this side of her.

💢— What are some habits of theirs that would take some getting used to?

OH i have two specific ones in mind: getting used to have clothes getting dirty with blood because she didn’t notice she was bloody (after a boxing fight or literally just after a walk in night city) and she tried to give her loved one a kiss or maybe a pat on the back of a friend. She doesn’t do it on purpose, she swears every time she promises to be more cautious. And then probably getting not so much sleep because she’s playing her bass guitar at 2am and no one can sleep. She just felt the need to play some music :(( OH ALSO she’s gonna prop up her legs and rest them on the table literally...every time she sits, she’s comfy.

💋— What are their kisses like?

I’ll be poetic here so bear with me: it’s like the sea on the shore. The sea advances and withdraws and that’s the way she kisses: she will start the kiss, desire and courage getting to her head, advance, then suddenly she will realize what she’s done and will feel a bit embarassed, shy even, her kiss will turn a bit more uncertain, withdraw. She needs a second to be certain that what she’s doing is okay, any kind of response from her partner that they are okay with it, once she gets her courage back then it’s gonna be such an intimate moment, she would touch her partner’s cheek or neck and try to gain control over the kiss. It’s very sweet honestly, she’s such a sweetheart but she hides it so much.

🔪— How would they react to injury/misfortune befalling their partner? Do they feel at fault?

ABSOLUTELY. She will feel like it’s her fault, that she wasn’t strong/good enough to protect them when they needed it the most, she’s gonna feel so bad about it.

send me an emoji for oc asks!

#ask #ask games #steelport #oc: vesper #THE WAY I LOVE HER GOD #also thank you again elliot mwah <3

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