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I think it’s a hugeeee spoiler or not, but would Valtor tbhtbh marry bloom? Like, propose her, and do the whole thing, even just like they both together, and Darcy doing the ceremony. Or he don’t think that’s it’s necessary? Hope you doing good!

Gonna be honest, memes aside I don’t think marriage is necessarily the cornerstone in their relationship than it is in other fictional — or even real life — pairings.

Big part of that might be that Valtor, for one, lives outside of any official systems. There are villains that do crime but still kind of have a clear position in society (the Darkling is a General and coups his way to tsar-dom, most vampires in any vampire story do pretend to lead a somewhat normal life, villains with a royal title automatically has a rank that comes with a fitting one for their romantic partner etc.)

Valtor does not. His crimes are motivated by pettiness and his hunger for power, he builds up political figures to do his dirty work when it’s practical, but does not have any political ambitions for himself — he doesn’t wanna be king of the cosmos, he just wants to be the most powerful, and that everyone knows it. He's kind of a cryptid that way, because he appears, wrecks shit, and leaves as he pleases. The most official thing in his life was probably his imprisonment on omega, and marriage tends to very much be an official kind of thing in nature, even if it’s held in private and off the record. Official-ity IS kind of the purpose.

The only real power Valtor seems to believe in is, well, power. And they already do have a magical connection, which I think would be more important and meaningful to him than - what he considers to be - a social ritual.

Add to that that Bloom is a guardian fairy, very grounded in day-to-day life, and a princess, where marriage tends to have political implications, and I don’t think she herself would be very interested in putting a legally defined term on their relationship, unless we're talking about a redeemed Valtor maybe.

That being said!

I am not very set in this headcanon! I'm pretty sure pulling a marriage off in a fic would be MORE than doable, and really interesting on top. It's just not very intuitive for me, so I’m gonna stick to the plan and go with my gut. Doesn’t mean it’s not gonna happen in a future fic, or that it’s not a really cool concept.

#his disbelief in social institutions does NOT mean he's not a wifeguy at heart #asks #thanks supremevaltor that was a really good one!#also I am now imagining the chaos if Bloom should ever propose to him #‘what do you mean ‘ID’? I have a prisoner's number’#and they realize he's got no passport or any legal documents #so now they have to go through the lengthy legal process of getting this hardened criminal an ID to show the like. marriage office clerk #valtor gets his picture retaken 182 times because he's not happy with the results #bloom already considers divorce by the time they make it to the altar

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So you have decided on whom you or your wards are going to marry and the wedding date is just 3 months away First of all, congratulations on your upcoming nuptials While the reasons couples decide to move quickly may vary, what you need to do to make your wedding day special doesn't. The first step is for you to establish a vision of your wedding day so that you can get the necessary paperwork and phone calls in motion as soon as possible.

Basic Timing Considerations For First Week

What date have you selected?

If you are selecting a date over a long weekend, be aware that you may have to pay extra for a reception site and staff wages. Additionally, the short notice for a holiday weekend may have an impact on your guest list RSVPs.

Your wedding season:

This will influence the style and color of your dress and wedding party attire, as well as whether or not an outdoor ceremony or reception is possible.

Time of Day:

You may find that other weddings either precede or follow your celebration. You will need to arrange your festivities so that your guests will not arrive during another wedding or linger too long when another wedding follows yours.

Destination Weddings

You must determine immediately whether or not you will be having a destination wedding. A growing number of engaged couples look to combine their wedding with their honeymoon or jet off to an enticing location to elope. It can conceivably cost less to get married in this manner than to hold a full-scale wedding ceremony and reception, and if you have budget concerns, this may be an option worth pursuing.

If you do choose a destination wedding, it is likely that some of your loved ones will be unable to attend on such short notice. Also, you need to be sensitive to their financial situations, since it is costly to attend a destination wedding. However, if you decide to go ahead with this sort of wedding, it is possible to stream video footage of the ceremony live over the Internet.

Legal and Timing Considerations

If you decide on a destination wedding, there may be some legal issues that arise. Often, you will need certain documents e.g. passports, translated documents, and travel permits that may take several weeks to process. Some locations will also require you to obtain temporary residency or blood tests. Once you have decided to go away for your wedding or honeymoon, you will need to make these arrangements as soon as possible.

Budget

As you begin to envision your special day, you will want to consider any budget restrictions you may have. Here are a few major components to keep in mind:

Wedding site Reception site Catering Photography Video Wedding party attire Floral arrangements Music and entertainment Determining What Matters Most

It is important for both the bride and the groom to take the time to write down what matters most to you as you plan your special day. Once you have a clear vision of how you would like your wedding day to unfold, write down your preferences. It's important to prioritize up front in order to avoid wasting time when problems or limitations arise. Additionally, having a strong, clear vision with a set budget and known priorities will carry the couple and the family through every decision they have to make about the wedding day and related events. Let the tone of your wedding and your budget serve as your guide.

If you complete the planning process detailed initially, begin working on the highest priority next: securing venues.

Location & The Organizing Team Week 2

Now that you have decided exactly what you want, it is time to begin the decision-making process. During the second week of planning, you will need to make some quick decisions regarding your wedding so that you may begin to make the necessary phone calls.

Reserving Your Venues You will need to reserve your ceremony and reception sites immediately. If your religious preferences allow it, you may want to find a reception facility where you can have your ceremony on the premises. If you decide to marry in a house of worship, you will need to determine what the requirements are if you and your fiance are of different faiths. You will need to factor in the time that any premarital counseling courses will take, whether you are of the same faith or not. Some of the most traditional and popular sites are:

Places of worship Hotels Wedding chapels and halls Private homes and cottages Private indoor and outdoor spaces As you call and visit venues, keep your budget and your vision in mind. Don't forgo unusual locales; often they make for the most memorable weddings.

Unusual locales include:

Local vineyards/wineries Parks Tourist attractions Art galleries Restaurants Suppliers Your suppliers are the people who provide goods and services for your wedding. They include florists, entertainers, caterers, chauffeurs, and rental companies. It is crucial to choose your suppliers at this stage and book them as soon as possible. The following checklist will help you to cover all your bases.

Wedding Suppliers

Wedding ceremony site Reception site Transportation limousine, shuttle bus, etc. Florist and decorations Rentals chairs, tables, etc. Musicians and or DJs Photographer and radiographer Caterer food and beverages Bakery Hotels guest accommodations, wedding night, etc.

There are nearly endless options for each supplier on your list. Don't be afraid to go off the beaten path to find creative solutions to scheduling and budget problems. Find a venue that also offers supplies such as food, beverages, cake, cake cutting, and decorations to save yourself some time. In this case, having a short schedule can work for you Sought-after locations that have been reserved months in advance can open up as plans change. Don't let the short planning schedule keep you from calling your dream location or suppliers Often, sites work with suppliers regularly and a reception site can offer a list of preferred vendors, including photographers, bakers, and entertainment.

Your suppliers will need information gleaned from your wedding vision, such as the number of guests, style, etc. in order to come on board in such a short time frame.

Photography Memories of the day are enhanced by great photographs. There are many types of photographers to choose from and each has his or her own style from traditional to photo journalistic. Knowing what you want and expressing your expectations to the potential photographer will help to ensure you get the most out of your investment. Be sure to provide your photographer with a shot list so he or she knows exactly what you want at the end of the day. Be sure to let your photographer know if any of your venues have regulations relating to flash photography or photography in general. Above all, find someone you can work with that has a style you admire.

Flowers More than any other visual detail of your wedding, your guests will remember the flowers you select for both your wedding party and to decorate the venues. You will need to decide if you want floral garlands adorning the wedding party table, potted arrangements, vases, loose petals, etc. You will also need to decide if you plan to use real or silk flowers or something else entirely

Ceremony Flowers Flowers will help to make your ceremony bright, colorful, and unforgettable. Many religious establishments require real flowers at their altars. Keep this in mind as you plan your arrangements -- if you are using silk flowers for your venues, you will need to find a florist to provide altar flowers for your ceremony. You will also need to arrange for pew bows or other adornments. Also, be sure to ask if your ceremony venue provides an aisle runner, or if you will need to provide your own.

Ceremony Floral Options Checklist

Potted arrangements Floral vases Floral garlands Topiaries Hanging arrangements Floral archways

Reception Flowers The right flowers will add elegance and vibrancy to your reception. Guests will feel as if they are in a wonderland if they are surrounded by fresh, fragrant blooms and dazzling arrangements. Some reception halls provide their own arrangements for buffet tables and head tables.

Reception Floral Checklist

Potted arrangements Floral archways Vases Topiaries Garlands Floral centerpieces Hanging arrangements Loose petals

Wedding Party Flowers Your wedding party will also be decorated with beautiful floral arrangements. The following checklist will help you to cover all your bases for wedding party florals.

Wedding Party Floral Checklist Bride Bouquet

Floral headpiece

Throwing bouquet

Going away corsage wristlet

Honor attendant bouquet boutonniere

Attendants' bouquets boutonnieres

Flower girl petals Groom

Boutonniere

Best man's boutonniere

Groomsmens ushers' boutonnieres

Ring bearer boutonniere

Corsages and or tussy mussies

mother of bride groom, grandmothers, etc.

Boutonnieres father of bride groom, grandfathers, etc.

Wedding officiant

Legal Documents If you have not done so already, you must apply immediately for any travel documentation you will need for your wedding or honeymoon. You should also contact your town hall to determine what documents are necessary to obtain a marriage license. Some states also require a simple blood test, which you should schedule as soon as possible. You can keep track of these requirements on the License and Legalities worksheet on page 75.

Legal Documents Checklist

Passport and/or travel documents Certificate of death or divorce if previously married Blood test results, if required Social Security card Birth certificate

The Honeymoon Now is also the time to book the honeymoon accommodations. Often, you can book hotel rooms and airline tickets online, which may eliminate a lot of time spent on the phone. Making your reservations online also allows you to compare prices quickly and see photographs of both the exterior and interior of your hotel. Try using a full-service provider such as distinctive honeymoons.com, as they supply advice and experience as well as offer a destination wedding and honeymoon bridal registry as a special gift option for your family and friends. Additionally, don't forget that travel agents have often been to the places they book so take advantage of their expertise; you don't want to risk your honeymoon being spoiled due to a desire to save what may be a small amount of money. Comparison shopping and personal testimonies are always important when making travel arrangements.

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