oh shit yesterday was trans day of visibility and i was too busy vibing. anyway -- rufus is trans, it's not really a secret but it's also not. probably wide knowledge. it's in the category of "yeah you either have connected the dots and know" or "look that's on you for not knowing". it's not blatantly obvious, it's just... you either were there when he came out, or you weren't. you were paying attention to reginald having a daughter to not having a daughter, or you were not.

he keeps most of his feelings to himself, but it's not really any secret that he's not comfortable in his own skin. very fidgety and constantly adjusting his clothing so they fit right. constantly adjusting his binder UNDER those clothes. he gets stressed enough about people he actually gives a shit about perceiving him

brain stopped working, enjoy the briefest of thoughts.