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Shaun Arroyo && Holly Shiftley
from college craze~
#college craze#and we're doneeeee#for now#thank you all for participating lmao#back to your regularly scheduled reblogs#i just could not funciton till i Created Something for this Game#cc shaun#shaun arroyo#holly x shaun#once again iykyk re: holly lmao
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in the past week or so ive seen a lot of people posting about how there's this oversexualization of trans girls on the site, and I gotta agree, there are way too many people (including other trans women!) who act like we're all dtf 24/7 or always super kinky and horny. I've been tired of that stereotype for ages and i am saying this as a rather sexual trans girl myself...
...but I think people are overcorrecting a bit now, and are starting to veer into "trans women shouldnt be talked about sexually / need to be shielded from it" territory. and, to me, that's really dangerous, because outside of some queer spaces - and even within them- the sexuality of trans girls is heavily scrutinized, as is attraction to us. as much as I dislike certain aspects of the memes and jokes that kickstarted the stereotypes, I'm kinda grateful for them as well. girldick jokes helped with my bottom dysphoria, voice kink shit helped me like my voice, and the whole "tgirl tummy tuesday" thing gave me a lot of confidence in my body where I hated it before. I think this open appreciation of trans sexiness has done a lot for both me and others on tumblr.
again, obviously its got its problems - people end up assuming every trans girl is horny, or only spread positivity if its related to sex with us, and of course the people who do have dysphoria from the things that are being sexualized are left out (like those the "girls without dicks are like angels without wings" memes, ugh, feels icky every time). and on the note of comparing tgirls to angels, we also started getting treated like we're ethereal fertility goddesses and that t4t sex was some inherently sacred ritual. spoiler alert, trans girls are normal-ass people and t4t sex can be holy for the participants but its generally a pretty normal thing to do as well
coming back to the "don't sexualize trans girls" posts now, I think they were initially going in the right direction, but at this point I'm starting to raise an eyebrow at more than a few of them. I'm not gonna whip out the "youre a sex hating puritan if you post about it" accusation because that is obviously wrong but again, I think people are definitely overcorrecting and starting to turn this into a (false) dichotomy when it's not. its a complex topic and each individual trans woman will feel differently about it.
(I feel like the internet just erases any nuance in favor of a two-sided, highly polarized flamewar with unrealistic views on both sides. actually i wouldn't even say this is a super-nuanced discussion because its really not that hard to say "fetishization is bad, but so is suppression of sexuality". will this post just end up being a void scream and people will continue drawing lines between one side and the other? probably. but I am a stubborn bitch and I have hope that we can be reasonable.)
anyways I'll close this off by saying that I wrote this between around 1:30 and 2 AM on terrible sleep the night before, that I hope what I said is coherent enough, and that I will keep being a trans girl who is openly sexual, gets horny over other trans women, and is proud to be transsexy as fuck. I will keep being critical of jokes and trends and memes that stereotype us, even from our own community. I will keep being angry at how poorly us trans folks are treated with regards to our sex lives, bodies, and relationships between the two. I will keep loving and lusting over trans women without fetishizing them. And I will keep doing all of these til the day I die.
#taking a break from the late night funnies to get serious for a change#this is... sorta a vent post? idk.#please dont tag this with 'transmisogyny' i do not like that term#feel free to reblog though. if enough people are shitheads ill turn reblogs off but again i have hope we can be nice.#transmasculine folks please feel free to add anything else you feel is relevant! im writing from the perspective of a transfemme#who mostly spends time in transfem spaces and i obviously dont have the experiences of a transmasc so. yknow. add on if you have something#alright thats all for now back to your regularly scheduled sleepy/funny posting
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//OOC Reminder
//UNFRIENDLY reminder that if you are any sort of transphobe/trans-exclusionist (Radfem, Libfem, Conservative, Right-Wing, ETC.) You are-
NOT
FUCKING
WELCOME
HERE
//Kindly fuck off and don't follow me, because I will not only block but report you too!
//Also read my pinned post please if you're just joining. It's LITERALLY there for a reason and you can see my DNI list is in there. For those who have been here awhile and have never read it, PLEASE READ IT. Literally all I ask.
//This also goes for ALL of my other sideblogs too.
#//ooc post#mun speaks#//literally had a fucking 'trans-exclusionist libfem' follow me#//bitch pls you're a fuckin terf kiss my ass 🖕🖕🖕#//anyway just needed to get that off my chest#//okay to reblog/like/reply#//Nova is done ranting now back to your regularly scheduled blogging
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I've noticed a behaviour that I've been blocking popular bloggers for.
We all have boundaries. Things that we won't accept. Lines where it becomes NOT OK for someone to talk to us anymore. It's incredibly important to enforce those boundaries - even moreso in the deluge of communication online that comes from people we don't know and don't share values/norms with.
I've noticed a particular thing that (sometimes) happens when a person dealing with the maelstrom of a popular social media account hits their "NO" line. It goes something like:
"How DARE you (a person who may never have interacted with me before) violate my boundary (which you should have known by paying careful attention to all of my posts and sharing the exact same sense of online norms as I do.) I am going to use forceful (or hurt/put-upon) language to tell you how terrible you are for doing this."
"If you question, explain, or even apologize, I am going to tell you you have done further harm, because you should know (by reading my blog/mind) that I consider it a boundary for YOU to not interact with me after I scold you. I am going to continue this conversation instead of blocking/disengaging, because for my boundaries to be enforced, I require you to back down."
It's not always quite this obvious, but as time goes on I both have less patience for this attitude and start to recognize the harm that internalizing the "rules" that are broadcast like this has done to my life.
I have a lot of sympathy for the people running these accounts I, too, work with the public. And when you're running a community of any kind, it can be really helpful to slowly teach people the most useful ways to interact with you. It also sucks that no matter what you do, some people are going to be jerks. Wherever possible—easier said than done—you do need to exclude some people from your community!
But the more it looks like someone is repeatedly engaging in these behaviors:
Beating people over the head with the concept of boundaries instead of personally enforcing them
Scolding people for not being personally familiar with them and their blog
Having a large number of sometimes-conflicting rules
Claiming that their cultural norms and expectations for behaviour are universal
Using emotionally-loaded language to ensure the offender is seen as having egregiously violated an agreement
The more I've started realizing, "Ah, this person is not safe for me to be around, and reading some of their posts might be harmful to me. Better block them."
And we're all happier for it.
#yes I'm in therapy how did you know#tumblr old#social media#discourse tw#this is a fandom blog now back to your regularly scheduled shiny big fandom reblogs
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i feel like i’m too old to be sad posting on tumblr so i’m trying to hold off but also the longest relationship i had ever been in ended a few days ago and it fckin hurts
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hi lisia here, i have an ask for everyone actually! trying to help a friend out, is there possibly a background template for the project voltage mikus?? i tried looking in en and jp but couldn't find anything sadly :(
#sorry for the intrusion! your regularly scheduled reblogs will be back soon#bulbalisia#project voltage
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Hello i dont know who needs to hear this but do not post content for notes. This goes for anything, but especially OC content. I see so many people being like "oh tumblr doesn't really like my oc so i guess i shouldn't really post about them... :(" YES THE FUCK YOU SHOULD??? It's made to make y o u happy not randos on the internet! And if the only reason you post anything at all is for notes then while it's your choice and you can do whatever you want, i would advise you to rethink why you even post anything, especially on tumblr of all places, where likes mean nothing more than how many people saw it, and reblogs are a blessing from heaven and happen about 2 times out of 100?? if your creative joy comes solely from the attention of strangers, that isn't the healthiest mindset, and this is the worst possible social media outlet to practice it on. You should create because you want to create, and if low numbers stop you from doing so, take a brake from whatever you need, be it posting, looking at numbers or straight up looking at social media all together.
Anyway, whether you write, draw, animate, edit, compose, whatever, for either a fandom or original content: post for yourself first and foremost, and never, NEVER EVER let notes decide if you want to create more or not. I promise you, you are making some people kind of sad when you say things like "well you didn't give me enough attention so im not gonna post that thing you liked so much anymore." Im sure you dont even realize, but that is basically what it sounds like to the people who did in fact give attention to your unpopular posts.
Im sorry if this sounds mean or like im targeting people who have to beg for a single reblog from the hundreds of people liking their posts, I don't mean it like that at all, its just something ive been seeing a lot more of recently for some odd reason and that i am so physically against that i could tear down a whole building with my bare hands and rage whenever i see it.
#not whump#this goes extra for the whump community also#people tell you noy to write something? you go and pist seven 10000 word drabbles of it#you like lady whump? post it. you like really niche stuff?? drown the tag in it until it isnt so niche#you wanna write that same cute boy in some weirdos basement getting whipped even though everyone has written something like that? DO IT.#I LOVE THAT SHIT#especially post it if you're afraid of shitty anons harassing you. it goes triple extra then.#if you're worried no-ones gonna read it? SHUT UP AND POST IT AND I WILL REBLOG IT RIGHT NOW. ALSO I JUST TOLD YOU NOT TO POST FOR NOTES#okay to reblog if you were wondering#in fact okay to repost as well i dont care#show it to everyone who needs it#alright back to your regularly scheduled pain#if you need this tagged with something pls ask i know this is unlike what i post usually#*not#*post#hecc
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Alright random pet peeve time again, I use the google keyboard on my phone because for most purposes its quite good and I'm used to it, and mostly to type punctuation I use the thing where you hold down a letter instead of swtiching to the punctuation board. HOWEVER, for some reason, someone somewhere at Google decided that a backslash was more important to have as one of the quickly available punctuation than forward slash and like ???? I use backslash too but like only for programming stuff, that can't possibly be a common use case, and now I have to do this annoying extra thing every time I want to type this fairly common piece of punctuation and there's no way to change it. The pipe character is here too! Who thought that having both \ and | was more important than / ???
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I wish there was someway to have like...contextual tag blocking. Because there are people not tagging their TSAMS posts, but if I block post content Earth, I lose out on space related posts and other fandom posts, and if I block post content Eclipse, I will also lose out on more space content and also canon Eclipse content.
Idk, maybe I need to unfollow some folks and try to follow fellow DCA fans that don't follow/like TSAMS, but that's hard to comb through at this point. Feels like most of the DCA niche adores TSAMS.
#i wont tag directly as tsams bc i'm complaining about it and its not nice to flood the tag with indirect stuff#but guys please tag your stuff T-T#or at least put tsams or something in your post so i know it's something i can ignore idk#i love that you're all having fun#but it also looks like you're NOT having fun and i'm staying out of it#rig rambles#sorry folks back to your regularly scheduled personality neutral reblogs
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Thank you to anyone who found humor in... whatever construction of words my brain made while reading the FS manga. I hope I didn't spoiler anyone who didn't wish to be spoilered. If I did... I'm sorry
I will never emotionally recover from the ride that those hyperactive 5 kiddos took me on. Holy shit
Anyway, doubt anyone will read this, but I'm truly sorry if someone got spoilered who didn't wanna.
#now back to your regularly scheduled programming of reblogging others amazing talents#peep talks#peep the four swords
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Saturday Six (Stuff)
The Dude (@super-ultra-mega-kami-guru-blog) comes home Monday night!( ´͈ ॢꇴ `͈ॢ)･*♡
I guess the kittehs have been good company. Leeloo has been a typical kitten aka a terror. (^・ω・^ )
As much as I don't want my parents to interfere in my business I do want my mom to ask her bestie, WTF, because I did an estimate for her and I have heard back and I need money like now. Mom said no, and rightfully so, but still, lol.（’-’*)
Speaking of parents, Mom asked me to come hang out at their old people gratitude dinner today. Umm, yeah no thanks. Once was enough. I'm fine hanging out with myself.٩(•̤̀ᵕ•̤́๑)ᵒᵏᵎᵎᵎᵎ
Seriously the worst part of being a small business person is worrying about money. We hates it.( •̀ω•́ )σ
And even though he's a jerk about it, Dad is helping me get tires on my car. That's one good thing, he'll always keep the car up. Though he still calls it "his" car. s(・｀ヘ´・;)ゞ
Bonus: Happy End of Daylight Saving Time weekend! Tonight most of the USA imitates Cher and turns back time, the Standard clock. WHEEEE. (not fun. We hates the dark) (´～`)
#Saturday Six#About me#Personal#November 4 2023#please do not reblog#Carey rambles about life and stuff and her parents and it's amazing that her mom actually thought that she might be a little lonely which y#But I do not want to hang out with a bunch of old - now sober - drunks - most of whom are jerks anyway and have a pseudo Thanksgiving#I'd rather do accounting - which I actively LOATHE lolololol#And I'm making chili (con carne & frijoles for you sticklers)#so yeah anyway#I'm excited for the dude to come home#I guess - though it's been nice having the house to myself#I hooe their dad has talked to them about working 🙏#Alrighty enough rambles in the tags#I hope you have a great day or night wherever you are#Don't let the current events happening get you down#I hope all your loved ones are safe#Hugssss from mom or just a friend whatever you need right now ٩(๑•◡-๑)۶ⒽⓤⒼ❤💜 💙 💚 💛 ❤️ 💕 💖#I appreciate y'all reading my nonsensical ramblings every time I throw them out! 💗#Now back to your regularly scheduled programming
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#kip sabian#penelope ford#aew#all elite wrestling#wrestling#aewedit#wrestlingedit#night gifs#back on the regularly scheduled programming. i hope youre ready#my beloved#kip in a box#vampire wife#(rp blogs dont reblog; see pinned post on blog for more info)
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I hope I'm not just a lighthearted mutual but also a little fella who's on the verge of losing their mind to you
#i usually dont try to talk about me on this account cause i find i would rather just reblog stuff i like that makes me happy and such#but oh my god. oh my god what the fuck. what on earth why why why why#🤏 I'm this close to snapping.#I'm tired as shit.#anyways. hopefully i dont snap. back to your regularly scheduled twigs#twig speaks
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Thinking very seriously about making a rp blog
#i kinda have a character i made specifically if i actually made a tumblr rp account but it's not fully complete#(it would be an anon for cjrp)#but it would also be cool if it wasn't cjrp related#idk#I'll decide if i wanna make a rp blog... eventually...#k sorry for rambling about rp back to your regularly scheduled reblogging (is that even the right phrase)#woahh ari's not reblogging for once
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like yeah i know my blog is 95% bullshit at this point with occasional oc stuff but im usually just trying to not give up having interests and just become the most bland person ever
#i don't blame ppl for unfollowing me i get interested in a new thing but i don't feel allowed to talk about them#idk. im sad bc i have no energy to draw or write despite wanting to talk abt ocs#but i just feel like i've drifted away from my tesblr friends when i played rdr and now that im thinking abt tes again it's happening again#i just have no life outside of work and really struggle to actually enjoy the little free time i have#ANYWAY SORRY back to your regularly scheduled reblogging
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When I find myself longing,
its not for days gone by.
its not for time ive spent and want returned.
its not for a golden time passed that i want prolonging.
i want things to have already been done. My
dreams to have been finished and my life to be affirmed.
i want food to have already been made,
the plan for my life to have already been laid.
i want to have already lived a good life,
to look back and smile at past strife.
i want the peace that comes with retirement,
but for living and working not to be its requirement
when i find myself longing.
i long for a way to enjoy the process,
a way to achieve what i want without hating the journey.
i long for a way to live that doesn't increase my self wronging.
i long to enjoy my actions, my progress;
i want to feel like i can make it to the end without a gurney.
life moves fast and it is unfair,
i often wish it were simpler.
i find myself loosing hair
and begging god for anything less sinister.
but life goes on and i get myself stuck
wondering what life could be like if it didnt suck.
if every verse ended with a rhyme,
wouldnt that be nice?
its the good things i don't have yet
and what i cant for some time get.
when i find myself longing.
#poetry#so sorry if youve read this lmao#venting#okay now back to your regularly scheduled reblog spam
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