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#anyway im not tagging this but its fine to rb/interact with.
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this may be controversial but maybe the "astarion and halsin are SO sexually traumatised that you should literally cut your own dick off before thinking abt them romantically you disgusting freaks" goon squad should consider the ramifications of essentially insisting assault survivors be permanently excluded from any kind of sex and romance bc they are too broken and stupid to be trusted to know their own desires and boundaries or have the capacity to want to explore/push them.
you know real survivors (not pixel men but real ppl like me!) can read that shit? do you think pushing the lie that encountering one (1) Genital Wielded With Intent will invariably cause us to crumble to a miserably weepy heap of dust and blow away in the breeze is appreciated or helpful? or implying the people that love or desire us are selfish at best and outright predators at worst?
i'm begging ppl to just be 2% normal about abuse survivors PLEASE. the characters aren't real but the attitude you drag from fandom back into the real world are.
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chaudharis · 2 years
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honestly posting stuff for av has probably been the best "fandom" experience ive had in a very very long time, if not entirely. it has only been a week but its been the best week ive had in a really long time
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taintedcigs · 4 months
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okay so this is probably gonna sound annoying but idc. honestly ive realized that i don't care abt "numbers". like do some of my fics get a lot of likes/rbs? yes! do some of them don't? also yes! some reach a wider audience and some don't, that's totally fine by me! the only thing that really makes me feel so de-motivated is readers who don't interact w my fics in any meaningful way.
bc i swear the only thing that upsets me is ppl not INTERACTING w it. like commenting/sending me asks, reblogging but also saying something in the tags or just like leaving something... i swear that motivates me SO SO much. im grateful that u guys also LIKE my fics and i get some of u don't want to reblog/comment/send an ask but it's just de-motivating to not have anyone interact if that makes sense?? bc thats like the best part of writing!!! to have some readers that connect w your writing and also connect w u? in some way!?! anyway im probably a bit dramatic but i love talking to ppl on here and its upsetting to see just bunch of likes and nothing else >:(
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liquidstar · 2 years
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anyway re: money being tight for me until the rest of the month
its nothing major, ill just have to budget a bit, and even though im too busy nannying to open up commissions one idea i had is to sell some of my old adoptables at a markdown! i figured since they never sold they might have not been worth as much as the ones who did anyway
here’s a link to the tag, please feel free to peruse it lol. usually they were about 15$, but now anything left is 10$ for anyone interested. and you dont have to be to interact with this or any other post, theres no pressure here, im totally fine and no one needs to go out of their way 👍 but still feel free to look or rb either way, and DM me if there are any you want! thank you! ^_^
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wifiwuxians · 3 months
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just a random guy who really loves your art. i noticed you made the cute doodle asking peeps to reblog your art and i just wanted to share why i dont? i really love your art and i absolutely wanna reblog it but im a songxue shipper and lowkey you seem kinda grossed out by that ship. which is totally oki, i know its not everyones cup of tea, but sometimes it seems like you'd be offended if a shipper reblogged your art i guess? and i dont rlly wanna bug you, i love your art and i adore your content. i think your likes and dislikes are valid as hell and you're totally allowed to have them. i just wanted to say that i do want to rb your stuff and i do love your stuff and im sorry im not supporting your art in that way, i just really didnt want to cross your boundaries. thank you for sharing your art and drawing so much of the guys (they're my blorbos, thats why i ship them and you're basically the only person who draws them ic imo). you're a wonderful artist and your art regularly impresses the hell out of me. your sense of humor, expressiveness, color pallet, creativity, and just plain Skill are all so freaking amazing and you deserve accolades. im sorry for being a weirdo who likes one of your squick ships but your art is fabulous. maybe i'll make a sideblog where i hide my ship tendencies and just rb you a lot there, you deserve the support :)
hey now,,, this is very sweet lkdhlkh and i really appreciate it + am glad you enjoy my art so much and think it's in character LOL i know i make things that are completely silly and absurd so it fascinates me (in a good way) that it's still seen as in character
also thank you so much for reaching out, i've been having a really rough time (depression! YAY) and honestly didn't expect anyone to say anything ;; (which is totally fine, people don't need to say anything! but it feels really good to be acknowledged)
i guess i'll take this as an opportunity to address this in general! i don't mind if people ship something i don't like/a notp as long as they're not making me engage with it, i don't track people down at gunpoint like HEY SHIPPER SAW YOU TOUCHED MY ART! no! all i ask is people don't /tag/ my art as whatever if i don't want it tagged as such (and don't ramble on about ship ideas in there either lol please), but i'm making an effort to make that obvious in the body of the post itself :) lots of my friends/followers ship things i don't and we coexist just fine!
but as for your ship, i've made mention to it a few times i think that it doesn't really bother me that much! in fact, the more i draw them together, the more chill i am with people taking away whichever kind of interactions they want from my art of them! they're my blorbos too and i love drawing them together, and although sometimes i am explicit about not wanting them tagged as a ship (so like, if they're drawn as family, xy is a child and sl is not for instance, lol), and sometimes i wish not everything were seen as shippy, it's very unreasonable i think for me to expect people not to see it that way. does that make sense? that's why someone requested i tag it a certain way so they wouldn't have to see it anyway OTL
anyway, you're totally fine! if you want to reblog it go right ahead, and if you wanna slap that tag on it, go ahead too (WITHIN REASON, see above). it's the other ostensibly more popular xue yang ship that i'd rather not get wrapped up in, haha
don't hide who you are! don't try and bottle things up for the sake of making someone else feel better. i've been doing that for too long and regret it immensely. maybe this year i'll finally put that to rest too
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dissolving-mansion · 1 year
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I posted 479 times in 2022
That's 340 more posts than 2021!
153 posts created (32%)
326 posts reblogged (68%)
Blogs I reblogged the most:
@dissolving-mansion
@elias-rights
@sofarraway
@lonelybeuys
@lazy-toad
I tagged 455 of my posts in 2022
Only 5% of my posts had no tags
#08 - 107 posts
#tma - 95 posts
#malevolent podcast - 56 posts
#dissolving chats - 55 posts
#rb 08 - 51 posts
#malevolent - 43 posts
#arthur lester - 33 posts
#strangers from hell - 29 posts
#mjjw - 29 posts
#08 malevolent - 28 posts
Longest Tag: 140 characters
#additionally. im very worried. because i know for a fact arthur will survive and the amount of deaths he's mysteriously survived is getting-
My Top Posts in 2022:
#5
Wouldn't it be romantic? To be destroyed by the very monster you created?
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#4
I love shipping Jon in the TMA fandom because his potential love interests are this:
Guy who was only marginally worse at his Job than Jon was at his own (because he let an animal into the archives). Whenever he sees something he doesn't like he embodies the "I do not see it" meme. Man who is against crime until he personally dislikes the person the crime is being committed against, then it's fine. Bonded with Jon via shared trauma. Thinks Jon is incapable of making his own decisions. Spent most of his life lonely and bitter and without any 0 external or supernatural causes for this. Makes nice tea tho.
Guy who hates Jon because hating Elias would be even more pointless. Was stalked by Jon. Went from expressing fair negative criticisms and Jon not listening to expressing unfair negative criticisms and Jon listening too much. Lost the people he cared about to the thing that eventually destroyed him. More qualified for archival work than the rest of the team and simply because his publishing career gave him the mystical ability to spot errors. Only interaction with cops was sleeping with them for information so he took one look at Jon and Basira and was like "getting a lot of sleeping with cops for information vibes here". Heartbreaking last line before he went on his kayaking trip.
Girl who tried to murder him even after he thought he had tried to talk her out of it. Spent like a year looking at him and thinking "prey". Knife. Was a cop. In the camp of "Jon shouldn't have an opinion, actually, he should shit up." Often held up in comparison to Jon to make him look bad but she just honestly wants to do better. Has traumatic things on common with Jon. Werewolf. Presumably hot tho.
Not-a-guy that has stabbed Jon. Gives good advice in extremely cryptic ways like some kind of fortune teller. Has the skin texture of leather, apparently. A liar but honest about it. Has saved Jon and company on multiple occasions but did so in the creepiest and most villainous ways possible. Wanted to kill Jon. Had revenge fantasies that only involved Jon because he was Alive and There. Also wanted to be Known by Jon, a factor that may have contributed to its death. Died for wanting something clearly and without deceit.
Man who is way more dramatic and evil than he pretends to be. Makes puns that are only funny weeks later when you finally get them. Owns evil contracts. Hired the two people he knew would be most incompetent at archival work for archival work. Gave Jon a bed?? When Jon is stressed he concludes that the solution is More Work. Thinks being human is overrated. So terrified of being a victim that he victimized literally everybody else. "Grinning freak". Lying liar man. Same sense of humor and communication style as Jon tho.
Goth who comes across like a protagonist. Burns cursed books. Could have esaily been a bad person but chose to be good instead. Loathes saving people but begrudgingly does it anyway. Spent his entire life following the orders of old women who scare people. A book appraiser who would be shocked and upset by Jonathan "I only ever read a book once" Sims. Deserves a nap. Unfortunately, he died before Jon could meet him.
Jon is suffering.
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#3
Things to compare your eldritch horror love to:
Static in your ears and at the back of your eyes
Ice-cream pain, a pain digging inside you and spreading out
A mouth that tastes like blood
Seeing something move out of the corner of your eye but it's gone by the time you check
Deja vu, the feeling that this is a memory on repeat
A bruise you don't remember how you got
A live wire
The smell of ozone
The dreamy isolation of being at a gas station at night, where the rest of the world seems to fall away, as if swallowed by the darkness
That lurch in your whole body when you lose your footing
Machines that behave like vital organs; pump fluid like a heart; pull in air like a diaphragm and a set of lungs.
The smell of sulphur
Walking into a room that is far too hot and wondering where the heat is coming from
The way the sky lingers on your skin after it has rained
Dust motes floating in the sun spots
The feeling of being in a large underground pool, all alone
407 notes - Posted August 28, 2022
#2
Melanie: why are girls so hot?
Martin: why are boys so hot?
Tim: why is everybody so hot?
[tape recorder clicks on]
Archivist: global warming
460 notes - Posted August 13, 2022
My #1 post of 2022
I love how the cosmic horror genre contains works like 'The King in Yellow' and 'Uzumaki'... And then we have things like 'The Lego Movie' and 'Horton Hears a Who'.
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coolxnxblue · 4 years
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de rules:
1. Themes might very with this blog. It’ll typically be SFW, but there will likely be dark themes, violence and swearing.
Things will be tagged! I’ll try my best, anyways. If you want something in particular tagged, please let me know through ask / anon / im. The format I use for tagging is, for example, tw: swearing.
I don’t have any triggers but I do ask you tag all of your NSFW content.
That said, I won’t do anything NSFW - gore is okay, though.
I’m of age.
2. I’m private, meaning I only really roleplay with people I follow. This is so things don’t get too overwhelming and for me and to cement who I want to interact with. I generally follow most people if our writing clicks, though.
If I don’t follow you and you’d like me to check out your blog, lurk in my notifs. I’ll definitely see you and make note to check you out. Same with promos, or you can just rb them to a sideblog / send an ask with its url. I can’t gurantee I’ll follow, but I’ll certainly check it out!
If it’s a crossover, I have to know the fandom and be at least a little bit confident with it. This is so I’m able to work with you, our thread and have muse for it. You’re free to ask if I know of a fandom or not! I’ll have a list at some point.
I follow the tag #coolxnxblue. If there’s anything you want me to see, like dash commentary, just tag that and x-kit will alert me of your post! I may respond to ic stuff ic stuff if I’m feeling it. 
In that sense, I’m chill with dash shenanigans with most folk, not just mutuals!
Absolutely no godmodding. It ain’t fun, fam. If you’re not sure what this term means, do look it up. This includes powerplaying, metagaming, and other things of that nature. This applies especially in fights if they happen (I’m chance-based and hope that you are too).
I can be picky with OCs. But rest assured, if you’ve followed me/interacted with my promo, I’ll always give your pages a read.
Please don’t be offended if I don’t want to interact with you (and please don’t try to guilt me into doing so!).
As for following back, I usually take a week tops to do so - but if you’ve hit up my promo, I go through that eventually.
I DON’T CARE ABOUT AESTHETICS. I just think they’re pretty. If you don’t use formatting or anything like that, or heck - even wanna’ just do iconless rp - I have no problem with it whatsoever! It’s you, your writing and your muse I care about!
3. Please don’t rush me for starters or responses.
PLEASE understand that I have blogs galore and my muse tends to fluctuate; this can mean I’m everywhere at once and can end up neglecting a blog or two. It’s nothing personal; you know how muses are! Additionally, life happens to be a thing.
Please note the mun deals with anxiety and depression, and has part time jobs which are honestly tiring - this might affect how frequently she roleplays.
Chances are, I’ve probably has seen that bit of interactivity and just haven’t gotten around to responding yet.
My roleplaying style being para/multi-para, I may take a while to respond. I hoard drafts like a dragon - it’s really just the motivation to write and ship those out.
I hoard asks, but sometimes can’t find muse or interest for all of them. If it’s been a month or two, generally assume I’m not interested / can’t find muse for it. You’re free to send another though!
I answer asks from anyone - personals, rp blogs and anons. I’ll answer non-mutual asks occaisonally but I won’t be making threads out of them
4. Shippings? Heck yeah, I ship lots with my blue son! Just make sure they’re of similar age pls.
If I don’t happen to be interested, don’t force anything on my character.
I do not ship incestuous ships. Do NOT follow/interact if you do.
The ship has to have chemistry; I’m generally shipping trash, but if they don’t click, they don’t click, sorry.
This is a multi-ship blog, meaning there will be more than one ship without them conflicting with eachother.
If you want to ship and I already have a ship of your choosing going with a duplicate, please don’t hesitate to hmu! My ships aren’t exclusive and each character/relationship portrayal is unique to me!
Relationships are eternal until you deem otherwise. If you’re not interested in a ship anymore, just let me know!
Sonic X Tails won’t be happening on this blog, sorry.
5. Whilst I am of age, I’m not aiming for sexual content on this blog (and will not be dealing with fetishes). That stuff makes me uncomfortable, and I typically don’t recommend pulling it with my character if you’re interacting with me. Nonetheless, should it arise, I will tag it appropriately as nsfw //.
6. About reblogs…
I am not a meme source, and reblogs clog up my activity. Please reblog any ask / starter memes you find on this blog from their SOURCE. The exception to this rule is if there is no source; go ahead.
I don’t feel comfortable with Personals reblogging my IC or OOC posts, so please don’t do that. If I put something in the fandom tags for whatever reason (bar promos), you’re free to, though.
This goes for my art too unless it has the tag ok to rb, but otherwise only the person I drew it for can reblog it. If you wanna’ reblog something, I DO put it on my art blog eventually!
A few times is fine, as it happens, but repeatedly breaking these rules will result in me soft blocking you.
I try to participate in reblog karma as much as I can, but always reblog from the source/a meme source.
If a post or ask is for you, you’re free to reblog it to save it though - but only if you’re an rp blog!
7. I’m a para / multi-para blog, novella if I’m adventurous and have time. Whilst I may roleplay crack threads with shorter responses, this does not apply to all threads I write. This means:
I write my replies as detailed as I can muster, and length can range from 1 paragraph to 6.
Short responses (such as one-liners) in more serious threads where I’ve written a decent deal can instantly kill my muse for that thread.
Whilst I’d prefer for partners to at least somewhat match my length, it’s entirely up to you - just try your best and make sure you give me enough to work with. ♡
If my muse happen to go nuts out of nowhere - like, overboard - don’t stress too much about matching him.
8. Threads! You can yeet asks, memes, and even starters at me if I’ve liked a call! I’ll obviously have my own you can like.
You’re free to like starter calls even if we’re not mutuals; I can check out your blog that way. I still only write starters for mutuals though.
I know pretty much most if not all Sonic media, bar Fleetway which I haven’t gotten around to reading yet. Since that’s unfamiliar territory, I’m unlikely to tread in it yet.
Starter memes are the BEST way to interact me because they just yeet a prompt at my face and really help me write starters. If you see me reblog one, send one!
If you want a certain verse, lemme’ know! Otherwise, I’ll either resort to game verse or whatever continuity your muse applies to (i.e, Sally (archie), Starline (idw), and so forth).
If you want to turn an ask into a thread, go ahead!
In that sense, I don’t recommend writing starters for me unless we’ve discussed something. I don’t like to leave anyone hanging.
Please don’t assume things about my muse. If you’re uncertain about things, ASK.
IMs are open to mutuals, if you want to do any in-depth plotting. I also have Discord if that’s more convenient for you!
9. Guidelines on mains and relationships:
If we’re mutuals and we interact a lot, you’re welcome to ask me if I’d like to be your main!
Please don’t be offended if I deny, though; I typically want to pick those I trust to be my mains as well as people I can comfortably write with.
Not limited to them! I roleplay with duplicates galore so don’t be afraid to hit me up if you want to interact!
Pre-established relationships are a-okay in my book; if you have an idea for a relationship between our muses we can work towards, hit me up! I reblog those pre-established relationship memes every so often too. Romantic relationships link back to the shipping guidelines.
Also, friendship/family/rivalry relationships are EXTREMELY valid to me - so don’t feel scared about asking for them!
10. If you have any issues, please let me know and hopefully we can resolve it!
Mun is actually super nice, so don’t be afraid to hit her up!
I am absolutely terrible with IMs and Discord. I either respond quickly or days later, depends on my mood. Social anxiety tends to interfere with this (and more recently exhaustion from work) - but honestly, if you’ve sent something, I’ve likely read it and just haven’t gotten around to it yet! It’s nothing personal; trust me!
Please leave me out of drama; I’m here to have a good time, as is everyone else, and it pains me to see people arguing.
This is a little different with callouts - if I see anything on dash pertaining to any problematic users, I will take it into consideration and rb it if I believe them to be harmful.
11. To retierate, I tend to follow those that:
Write para and whom I feel my muse would click with.
Seem chill? Tone can really intimidate me honestly.
Have rules and about pages! Knowing the boudaries of my rp partners is super important as well as their lovely muses! Sometimes rules are enough, though, if you’re going to write the about eventually.
Tag their nsfw.
Don’t have massive icons - ie, have rp icons that take up an entire text post like 500x500 or something. I don’t want to clog the dash and it’s tiring to resize them.
...also, if I follow your hub blog (provided it doesn’t double as a personal), it generally means I’m cool with any blogs that are attached to it.
12. On threads…
If you’re not interested in a thread anymore, and would like to drop it, please let me know! I’d feel terrible if we’re both not having fun with it or if partners feel overwhelmed with the amount of threads we have.
Honestly, unless I let you know, our threads have no expiry date - so no need to worry about me dropping them without telling you. I can just be quite slow sometimes.
13. Mun does not equal muse! Anything my muse might say does not reflect on how I think unless I explicitly say so.
14. Know that if I follow you, I WANT to interact with you.
I literally couldn’t care less about follower counts. I care about YOU guys and our interactions.
15. Rules may be subject to change.
Please like this post if you’ve read the rules! You don’t have to, but it’s of personal reassurance to me if you have.
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helioshellion · 5 years
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@ rh ack anon: filtering the tag works fine for me, though if you wanna not interact with anyone who draws the ship idk what to tell you XD I have a bad memory so I kinda just rb any Rhys content that’s not rh ack otl. Unfortunately it’s like 95 percent of the tag
one time i unblocked the r/ hack tag bc i needed material to spam to my friends bc im a horrible friend and i was like. JESUS CHRIST. ITS ONLY R/ HACK IN THE RHYS TAG!!!! anyways my friends hate me bc i keep spamming r/ hack egg gif at them
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theday · 6 years
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!!!! 🎄 and i can't find the present emoji for some reason omg dhsksh but that too LOOL
itsceline ! henlo and dont worry i got u i probably wouldnt be able to find it either tbh astro’s 2 brain cells transfered to us arohas
mutuals send me ‘🎁’ for a compliment or send me ‘🎄’ for why i followed you / what i like most about you!
compliment: for some reason i rarely see u on my dash idk why ;-/ timezones maybe?? anyway please... ur so nice .... u always like posts of groups that u dont even stan ;-/ its always so nice 2 see u in my activity feed ive already said this but truly...... if i dont see itschims at least once a day something must b up ! o worm but dont feel pressured to like/rb anything ur not interested in though ill love u no matter what :D now back to the question bc im terrible at actually . answerig shit ,, i feel like ive been syaing this for everyone D-: but youre really nice and ??? despite not having talked much u were already joking arnd with me and i love that!!! i think ur good with people !!!!!!!! this sounds so stupid but i dont wanna say everyhting bc im saving that for the next portion ;-/ so im moving on !
why i followed you: bc i kept seeing a certain itschims in my activity feed nd i was like whomst ? so i clicked on ur blog and say the astro blog part and smashed the follow button for smileyrocky ! i still ... for some reason i still cant believe ur itschims and smileyrocky??? like huh....... huh...... idk why also i keep thinking ur younger than u actually are so imagine my shock finding out ur 20 djdskjj its not bc of how u look tho??? idk why i think ive started generalizing astro stans as young D-: which is obviously not true djdkjs idk why anyway i followed u back bc i needed more astro mutuals/stans to follow ! so thank u for following me first :-o
what i like most about you: mmMMMmmmm............,,,,,, ur friendliness ! and how open u r !! also how u interact with ur mutuals!!!! i remember when i said that i couldnt believe it was 12/12 or smth and u were like hAHha yesterday was 11/12 idk somrhtign like that that was nice !! bc it shows how open u r ?? to friendships idk this is hard 2 explain but u... ur not afraid to talk to ur mutuals?? and its nice! ofc if ppl dont talk to their mutuals its understandable its hard for me 2 so i think its cool of u to want to find more about ur mutuals!! u also tagged ppl in that tag game earlier so that was nice to see too!!!!! tldr; i like how you want to be friends with ur mutuals ;-0 this doesnt mean you have to though its just a nice trait to see! and also its completely fine if we dont talk much tagging me in tag games/other stuff is already good enough!!!! idk how 2 word this but basicallly no pressure my dude ! 
thank you for sending one in this is a mess as usual but i hope you have a good day/new years eve and that 2018 will be a good year for you !!!!! i love u :D
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