Ooh I just saw your ābts members iād have to marryā list and I loved it. Imma change up my response a bit and explain (in my opinion) if they would actually have side hoes, friend w benefits, & one night stands type relationship. IM SORRY IF THIS GETS LONG!
Seokjin: NO! -Jin aināt got no time for that sort of relationship/dynamic. HE IS A HUSBAND and wants a family (I will absolutely love to get into this topic for each member if youāre down š) and the idea of friends with benefits is just not for him you know? Plus he aināt got time for side hoes, heās too busy with work & gaming plus why would he put that energy into someone he doesnāt care that much about when he could put that energy into finding his wifey/mother of his future children šš¾ He cannot trust one night stands so heās a definite no and definitely marriage material/long run type of man.
Yoongi: Maybe? -Yoongi is another family man (this can be proven by his astrology and his overall fatherly behavior he demonstrates throughout the years) and I believe when he makes the time for it at some point heās gonna get serious about finding the one and settling down. But right now mans is very busy with work and just enjoying the single life which brings me to the fact that he aināt got NO TIME for side hoes. That time could be spent doing shit that matters and side hoes donāt matter to him š
š¾āāļø. If you a friend youāre not gonna have a sexual relationship unless heās in love with you, in my opinion heās not the type to cross that line, if it were to happen yāall aināt friends no more š¤·š¾āāļø. Now the reason why I said maybe is because I could see him having a one night stand but ITS A ONE NIGHT THING ONLY, iām talking if thats the first time yāall meet I can assure you itāll be the last š¬
Hoseok: Yes! -Hobi is definitely a hopeless romantic and he does idolize and strive to achieve a a stable and everlasting relationship with āthe oneā. But that doesnāt mean he aināt gonna have no fun š. I really donāt think Hobi wouldnāt be the friends with benefits type nah heās acquaintances with benefits lmfaoo. Yāall aināt friends donāt get it twisted but heās too kind to not have at least a friendly dynamic with the other person. DEF WOULD HAVE SIDE HOES mmh no doubt in my mind. But random one night stands donāt really seem like Hobiās thing.
Namjoon: Nope! -Joon wants a serious and stable relationship (he gives me those vibes) i think heād really thrive in a healthy, stable relationship with someone heād truly love. Basically my mans wants a wife šš¾ period. Side hoes aināt for him he doesnāt seem like the type at least at this stage in his life to want that type of arrangement with someone. Friends with benefits is another no, like Yoongi if youāre his friend theres no chance of a sexual relationship unless heās in love with you š
š¾āāļø. And as for one night stands, Joonieās got trust issues that type of risk aināt for him.
Jimin- Absolutely -Jimin is a FLIRT!!!! We been knew ofc but donāt get me wrong Jimin (just like all of them) wants to settle and find āthe oneā but heās gonna have his fun until then! Definitely a friends with benefits type guy, I think heād enjoy the dynamic of having someone heās friends with and can trust to have a sexual relationship with! BUT DO NOT GET IT TWISTED THIS MAN IS NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU AND NEVER WILL BE. The moment you mention a romantic relationship with him (and heās not in love with you) heās dropping you quick, ofc not in a mean way yāall will still be friends but the sexual relationship is over š¬. I think heād consider his friends with benefits side hoes LMFAOO, but one night stands are once in a while (most likely if heās feeling you itāll turn into a friends with benefits š)
Taehyung: Absolutely Not -He is Husband Material, he is looking for a wife and the future mother of his five children! I would say this response would be similar to Jinās but the difference is, Jin aināt got no time for these dynamics while Tae aināt making no time for these dynamics. Side hoes, friends with benefits, and one night stands arenāt for him he can do more productive things than to put effort into those dynamics that mean nothing to him. If he aināt in love you aināt getting nothing from Tae sorry š¤·š¾āāļø
Jungkook- YES! -ANOTHER FLIRT!!! But Jk is a hopeless romantic who definitely daydreams about finding the one but until he finds them heās gonna have his fun. Side hoes galore LMFAOO heās got them on speed dial if heās ever feeling it. Not a friends with benefits man if you his friend itās not gonna get sexual (unless heās in love with you). As for one night stands I can see him have one occasionally if heās up for it (hell youād probably turn into a side hoe). But just like Jimin donāt get it twisted HEāS NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU bring up any type of romance with him as a side hoe and youāll never hear from him again š
Ok iām done now!! But to sum it up
Seokjin, Namjoon, Taehyung: If you aināt wifey donāt look his way
Yoongi: A once in a while arrangement but you aināt mean shit to him if you aināt wifey
Hoseok, Jimin, Junkook: Definitely wants a wifey but as of now just having fun! (Will not fall in love with someone theyāre just having fun with though!)
(also in your tagged post you said youād trap them with a baby for 18 years but in Korea the legal age or the age youāre considered an adult is 20!! So 2 years longer LMFAOOO)
first of all you KNOW iām always down to talk about anything like this like always always LOL
and i agree with you on most of these especially on seokjinās like after seeing him at them movie premieres and meeting up with his chef friends i know he aināt got no hoes heāll have a heart attack before he have a hoš AND JIMINāS HEAVY ON JIMINāS U HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD AND IT MAKES ME SICK TO MY STOMACH like you wouldnāt even be able to get āi like youā out your mouth before he hitting you with the āitās not you itās me i hope we can still be friendsā šššand the worst part is he really would make sure you still be friends like u half heartbroken and he wanna know if you wanna go with him and so and so to see a movie itās diabolical i wanted to disagree about jungkook but youāre so right that i couldnāt šš
the only one that my opinion differs on is tae bc HE IS SO OBVIOUS when he see something he like his eyes get low voice drop an octave and he get that overall laidback expression going itās inane really like i feel like if he see someone he wants heās gonna go after them BUT on the other hand he is an INFP and they got they head in the clouds fr like heavy on the hopeless romantic tryna find someone who understands him and is willing to love him SO MAYBE UR RIGHT HE IS looking for a wife but i raise you the fact that heās probably gonna try to make everyone he gets into it with his wife š
and for yoongi i 100% agree that he not tryna do too much like he just needs his one person so he can be done with it but (forgive me iām a myers briggs ho) his personality type allegedly is ISTP and those ones are described as āthe available loverā and most likely to be able to have sex without any emotions attached and our boy is a self proclaimed rock so i think itād be easier for him to have like one or two fwbās that he can hit up when he have that itch he need scratched as opposed to a one night stand HOWEVER the one night probably how the fwb arrangement started (now i got the urge to talk about how you would end up in a fwb arrangement with each member š)
ALSO SORRY IF IT TAKE ME A WHILE TO ANSWER ASKS SOMETIMES ESPECIALLY IF U SEE ME ACTIVE IT TAKES ME A WHILE TO THINK PROCESS AND THEN FIGURE OUT HOW TO ARTICULATE WHAT I WANNA SAY IN A WAY THAT MAKES SENSE TO THE GENERAL POPULATION
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