I like how non-conforming "lesboy" is. Like, yes, I'm a lesbian man, what about it? There's something so gender affirming about it & I can't explain why it feels so right. (Unfortunately my friends are... not supportive to say the least)

this is also the reason why I love lesboy so much. it's different from the norm but it expresses both parts of myself as though they are equal- being both a trans guy/bigender and a lesbian. I've had so many instances where I hide my lesbian identity in order for my trans one to be validated, or hide my whole trans identity to make people still respect my lesbian one. but lesboy? I don't have to keep one or the other a secret. I can just be both and using lesboy makes me feel i can be proud of it