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pyxsysboxes · 2 years

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Some system struggle related userboxes, based on ones we personally experience

(P.S. As a reminder, all systems will have unique experiences overall, and some of the individual things you may experience that make you nervous may actually be more common than you think. It's normal to worry about these things as well. At the end of the day, we are all different, and we don't need to fight to justify our validity in existing, or the validity of our experiences. We are here because of trauma, we don't need to justify our existence to anybody. <3)

[Text 1: This system struggles with worrying that they need to justify splits and alters existing]

[Text 2: This user gets anxious when the rest of the system goes quiet while fronting]

[Text 3: This system has many alters without clear or active roles and is afraid that it makes them less valid]

[Text 4: This system's alters worry about not being able to fulfill a clear role]

[Text 5: This system gets anxious about unusual and/or frequent splits]

[Text 6: This system is afraid that their experiences aren't normal and that others will judge them]

[Text 7: This system is still working on learning self-acceptance no matter their experiences or how their system functions]

[Text 8: This system struggles with worrying about faking but is getting better at avoiding those thoughts and worries]

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#Btw our ''unusual splits'' we worry about are when we get more than 1 at once or canonmate splits ✌#Both of which! By the way! Are not actually as obscure or odd or uncommon as we have feared!#It's actually not that uncommon to have canonmate splits as we've found #Plus we're fairly isolated and don't indulge in much media and sometimes emotional problems can easily be helped by people from our canons #So it makes sense for us #Also gaining more than one alter at a time from splits is I'm pretty sure actually pretty common #mod hels [♦️]#userboxes #userbox #did #osdd #didosdd #system stuff #actually traumagenic #endos dni #Especially on this cause guess what endos are a huge cause of actual systems worrying about their validity lol

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