Was the tamlin and rhys are similar reblog about people who are saying Rhys groomed Feyre (due to their age difference) because then this will apply to Tamlin as well and... age gap in fantasy series shouldn't be made an issue at all because then pretty much everyone is a groomer or a pedophile. Rhys has other shitty traits but I don't like it when people bring the age up coz then Tamlin was older than her by centuries too, took her away from her home by the sole purpose of making her fall in love (although there were other older women who'd killed the wolves), and etc etc. Like yes discuss other toxic aspects of Rhys and feyre's relationship but I feel like age gap discussion can be used against feylin too so it's better to not touch that.

No none of my reblogs were about that but it bears repeating that my opinion here is that I PERSONALLY do not judge book 1 Feylin because they are a retelling of a fairytale that is… iffy at best and my stance on this blog is, if you ARE going to judge Feylin and talk about abuse and domestic violence fine—Because yeah a BATB retelling with fae is not gonna be perfectly healthy in any universe—BUT Feysand should be held to the same standards because they’re no better, especially given Sarah *WAS NOT* trying to promote Feylin as peak relationship healthiness™️ but merely as the fae BATB romance it is while Feysand *IS* promoted as peak relationship healthiness™️ despite not being healthy by any stretch of the imagination.