sometimes u just have to write a letter to ur mildly homophobic new friend bc cringe culture is dead and i think im allowed to be silly n sappy w/ my friends

Ok so I'm in the closet, right? (And I don't know if you support gay rights becaus you mentioned once you were religious so... sorry if I'm offending you) And my parents are homophobic and have told me repeatedly that if I'm gay then they would beat me and disown me and... I kinda like my house? Do you have any advise? I know you're not gay but I always saw your blog as a sort of safe place so thank you if you have any advice, sorry if I'm bothering you.

Dbkwwnnw. Oh my gosh sweetie I love you❤️❤️💖💓💗💗💓💖. Yes I am religious and my views about the LGBTQ+ is very conflicted. I love them but then I read the Bible and I’m just sjwnbw. Confused. But this isn’t about me this is about you. And I’m sorry if I’m not the best advice or if I fuck up somewhere and if I make jokes it’s bc I just whenever I’m nervous or scared and get second hand anxiety, I make jokes. But I probably won’t make jokes in this because it’s very serious. And yh I would be worried too bc my parents are just like yours they’re very um...anti-gay and stuff. And I’m so so sorry if this advice isn’t the best and is literally the worst advice dkwnwn.

I feel like maybe you should take it slow? Like don’t confess to both of them at the same time? And if you’re a child or like a teen (idk how old you are but I’m...a teen) just wait awhile I guess because then you may be more comfortable? Maybe they’ll be more accepting when you’re older and they won’t use the excuse, “oh it’s just a phase. You’re just confused,” like many parents do when you’re a teen and you’re going through something. And if you feel like you’re really comfortable with it now and feel like they won’t use that excuse bc they believe you’re old enough, maybe tell them but one at a time. See the others reaction and just tell them that you love with all of your heart.

If I was gay I would tell my mom first and then tell my dad. My dad is very mean when he’s angry. My mom can get angry in a hot second but she talks it through. Idk exactly what to do fkwnwnw. I would just tell them that you love them and respect their opinions (even if they’re very different from yours) and say that you hope they’ll still love you and tell them. But one at a time. Like take it slow and hope for the best? And if they do yell at you I feel like they won’t disown you (I’m not meaning as to say you’re wrong or stupid for thinking what you were thinking I’m sorry idk fwnneb) and do that because parents are supposed to love their child. I think about what a parent SHOULD do. They should love you for what you are. It doesn’t matter. I have conflicted emotions about the LGBTQ but Ik if my child was gay or anything I would be kind of weirded out about it bc of my religion but I would NEVER disown them or tell them that they’re stupid and horrible or beat them for that.

I feel like they may be angry, they may scream, but I feel like they wouldn’t let you leave. All parents love their children deep down and would do anything for them so maybe they wouldn’t do everything they said dkwnwn. I just feel like yeah you may need to take it slow and tell one at a time and just say that you love them and hope they’ll accept you for you.

I’m so so sorry that I don’t know what to do in this situation. It’s making me scared bc I don’t want you to be upset with me bc I have bad advice or like make them be mad at you and make you do something you’re not comfortable with or something djwnwb. But I hope this gave you a little comfort or help idk if it did and if it did I’m glad.

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Now...I’m going to give you the support you need. This is probably not needed idk. But you are amazing and beautiful. Ik a lot of gay people and LGBTQ get killed, hurt, bullied, disowned and it’s terrible. But you are beautiful and amazing. I hope that things work out and you get to live life the way you want. Bc living life free is the best thing and I hope you can do that. I hope you can be the biggest rainbow you can ever FuCKING BEEE. I bet you’re amazing and I’m glad you find me as a safe place and it makes me feel rlly happy when I get these things saying that my shitty blog where I fangirl over fictional men is a safe place for someone. It makes me so happy and I’m glad you came to me. I love you and you are amazing and I’m happy, again, that you came to me and I’m sorry if my advice wasn’t the best but I love you and you’re amazing and you fucking do your life YOUR way. Idk if you’re male or female but it doesn’t matter you’re AMAZING. And none of you (my followers) are a bother if you come into my ask box. I love helping y’all and it doesn’t matter what it is it could literally be like a personal thing like this and I’ll still help and love y’all asses so much.

Btw I do kinda support gays bc I’m in a gay fandom of Sora x Riku from KH so...if I ever say I don’t support gays then I’m lying y’all.