T4T love is holy whether its sexual or romantic or platonic or monogamous or polyamorous or gay or lesbian or straight or any combination of any of those things or even something more deeply personal and undefineable
the same webisite also has a free pdf of kate bornstein’s “gender outlaw” which i consider essential reading on trans theory + trans history and is, like i said, free. transreads.org is a fantastic fucking source if you don’t have money for these things or an accessible public library