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sepalistic · 2 years

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leaving the mogai community:

hello, everyone. i’ve been thinking about this situation for about a month now and i’m here to say that i will be leaving this community i joined only a while ago. i’ve disliked most of the flags i’ve made and i’ve been inactive for so long that it just doesn’t feel right to come back at all.

a gigantic thank you for inspiring me to the many, many of the mogai blogs around. i’ve come to appreciate the talent you hold right now: (please ask to be removed) @mogai-sunflowers @gendermerchant @faerielogy @mirroard @fairytale-enby @bun-gender and so, so many more.

i won’t forget my experience here, so thank you, everyone. as a side note, anyone can claim any of my flags if they want them, just please be sure to credit and acknowledge me as the original creator to those terms.

thank you and take care.

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sepalistic · 2 years

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I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

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sepalistic · 2 years

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i’ll miss you. thank you for being such an inspiration for me. take care <3

leaving this blog + the mogai community

obviously this isn’t a very fun post, but it’s one that should be made.

i would never want to disappear on all of you without an explanation. but i also don’t want to make this some sort of weepy sad goodbye so i’ll really just explain why i’m not longer going to be active on this blog and why i will not be active in the mogai community in general. if you don’t want to read all the long stuff under the cut, i’ll make a long story short for you : i’ve stopped having motivation to run this blog and have really stopped having a good time running it. more in depth reasoning under the cut.

i’ve had this blog for over a year. through that year i have had such an amazing time in this community, and i have learned so much and felt so much love. in no way is my absence a disagreement of this community, please do not think that. i will always appreciate and love the tumblr mogai space and all the amazing times i’ve had in it. and i will always support the mogai community and be grateful for what’s it taught me. i’ve come to a point in my life where i genuinely have lost the time to have a blog like this. school is busy and hard and it’s always going to be my first priority. i also just auditioned for a play for the first time and i know that will also take up a lot of time. and, to be honest, i’ve decided to distance myself from the internet in general. i’ve used tumblr and other social medias similar to escape from my issues in real life and i really can’t do that anymore. i want to face my problems head on and i don’t feel i can do that if they don’t have my full attention.

i’ve also just stopped enjoying having this blog, though i hate to say that. coining and helping with pronouns and names has become stressful in a way that i would never want to continue. i would not be proud of running this blog if i did not put all of my effort into it, and that would be the case if i continued to run it. i deeply apologize to anyone who has requests in at the moment, i hope you can find a blog who will do them much better than i could at this time. this in no way means i’ve stop enjoying genders in general, how could i? it’s such a beautiful expression of who someone is and i find so much joy in that. i don’t find joy in the stress of having to keep germs coming and keep updated on all the new terms that are made by other creators. i hope that is understandable.

i hope that you all can understand my reasoning for ending the activity of this blog. i’ve had the best time being with you all and learning so much. i will not be deleting this blog or tumblr, so don’t feel the need to make an archive of any sorts. if you’d like to keep in touch with me outside of tumblr, please dm me and i will give you my discord info. i’ll also check in at times, though i doubt they will ever result in me permanently coming back. if you have any questions or need anything from me in the next couple days, i’ll make sure to answers asks as punctually as possible. again, thank you all so much for being some of the best people i’ve ever met. i love you all and i love this community so so much (/p). thank you.

#sepal speaks #/gen

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sepalistic · 2 years

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a beginner’s guide to mogai request etiquette

i know that many community members, especially newer or younger ones, deal with confusion or anxiety when making their first requests. it can be hard to figured out if you’re doing it ‘right’, even after looking at how others have requested things. i decided that i’d put together a little guide for those who need it!

always check the user’s request status! check their bio, pinned post, and/or carrd to try and find a request status indicator. if one of these states that requests are open, proceed! if it states they are closed, either save your request for later or request from another blog.

check what types of requests the user does! some users may not list what types of requests they do, but others do, and it’s best to check and make sure the user you want to request from can actually do what you’re asking for. you’ll likely find this list close to their request status!

check the user’s request rules! always make sure you’ve looked at any boundaries the user has with regards to coining. this may include triggers or other topics/content they don’t want to make things related to, the number of requests they’re alright receiving per ask, whether they’re comfortable coining things related to mental illnesses they don’t have, etc. you’ll likely find this in their pinned post or carrd if they have one!

gather your thoughts first! before sending your ask, open up a notes app or something similar and make sure you know what you want to say. this not only helps ensure that your request is typo-free and easy to understand, but can help reduce your anxiety about the wording of your ask!

never request the same term from multiple blogs! as coiners, we’re always trying to avoid recoining terms (creating duplicates of already-coined terms). if you’re requesting things like edits (icons, headers, banners, etc.) it’s totally fine to request that from multiple blogs, but requesting the same new term to multiple blogs results in recoins and in wasted time for the coiners. always request term coinings from one blog at a time, and if they aren’t able to do your request for some reason, then you can request it from another!

don’t be afraid to request complex or ‘weird’ terms! you may feel like the thing you’re requesting is too ‘out there’, but if you just take a look through a few mogai blogs, you’ll find that many of us have coined very ‘odd’ or complicated terms! you don’t have to apologize for having a more detailed gender!

figure out which blog is best for your request! if you have multiple mogai blogs that you’re a fan of, it could be a good idea to look at their blog and see which would be best for your current request. for example, one blogger may enjoy coining cutesy genders and another may enjoy coining scary genders, so requesting a cutesy gender from the first and a scary gender from the second would probably result in the best term/flag for you and the most fun for the coiner!

be polite, but don’t worry too much about your tone! some requesters are very anxious that they’ll come across as rude or otherwise negative in their asks. if you’re worried, try just adding a tone tag or a compliment to the end of your ask! it’s a simple way to mitigate some of your anxiety and indicate to the user that you’re a fan with good intentions.

#hi these are pretty accurate for me!#reblog

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sepalistic · 2 years

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congrats!!

THANK YOU SO ALL MUCH !!!!! 1,000 followers is a whole lot of people !!! im super honored to have this many people enjoy my content ty ty ty <3 <3 <3 !!!!

#sepal speaks

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sepalistic · 2 years

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100 followers! thank you guys! :)

#sepal speaks #wow that’s a lot of people #i’m still rather small but hello to all of you #hope all of you are doing well

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sepalistic · 2 years

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willing to join :)

I’d like to bring the coiner Discord server back to everyone’s attention. Are people still interested in it or should we just delete it?

#sepal speaks #reblog

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sepalistic · 2 years

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there’s so many posts that say something along the lines of, “what do you guys think about neopronouns and xenogenders?” or “what do y’all think of he/him lesbians?”

and can i just say… stop. fucking stop.

someone else’s identity is most certainly not up for debate, and by the way, neither neopronouns nor he/him lesbians are new.

also? kinda shitty to say “it’s just something teens are doing, it’s not real, it’s gonna die out.” because how in the world are you going to call yourself progressive and then not be accepting of the way “kids these days” are defining themselves?

and it’s not just kids, anyways. i’m in my 20s and use xenogenders and neopronouns, and i have seen people in their 30s (and even 40s) use neos.

don’t understand it? fine. downright judge it because it’s not you? not fine.

#reblog

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sepalistic · 2 years

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» ⚘ . . .

⇢ colorschade; a gender connected with shades of greens, blues, reds, and orange-yellows. this gender also feels both masculine and neutral, but it doesn’t necessarily have to.

etymology: ‘color’ comes from the colors of course and ‘schade’ comes from the middle english version of the word shade (please correct if i’m wrong!). enjoy!

» ❋ . . . .

pronouns associated with this gender could be:

red/reds

vine/vines

azu/azur

. . . . flag/term was made by me! ✾

#colorschade #mogai #mogai friendly #mogai safe #mogai flag #mogai term #mogai gender #almost 100 followers!#tysm guys :)

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sepalistic · 2 years

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Hey guys! Just felt like making a comic talking about being bigender/ clearing up some misconceptions. Hope it helps!

Bigender ask blog- @talking-bigender

More detailed bigen masterpost I based this comic on-> link

More information on the bigender flag controversy-> link

#reblog #just found out i’m bigender today!#feel pretty good :)

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sepalistic · 2 years

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Picture this, you're stressed out because Covid and climate change finds you out of a job and now you can't pay for dental work so as you listen to the hold music to the dental clinic to cancel your wisdom teeth surgery you log into tumblr to calm your nerves only to be greeted by a Destiel meme informing you that the word flashing is banned and you realise fellow tumblr users can't use a warning for post that could trigger your epilepsy. Imagine this, you're now afraid and there's nothing you can do, no tag to filter out, no warning to safe you.

#reblog #stay safe out there

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sepalistic · 2 years

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coingiftcember gift!

pronoun flag for @forestcoric-mogai-fox for the hel/helia pronouns!

#sorry for posting this sort of late #still december so this counts hopefully #but yea hope you like this!#coingiftcember

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sepalistic · 2 years

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alright besties that time of year again. what was ur favorite book u read in 2021

#reblog #she who became the sun #it’s an awesome book :)

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sepalistic · 2 years

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for the ask thing 4 , 14 , and 24 :D ? dunno what these questions are , just wanted to do all 4's

4. height?

sadly 5’2” or 5’3”, i’m smallest one in my friend group :,)

14. favorite subject in school?

either english (reading) or social studies (history specifically)! love both of em :)

24. describe one thing about your identity.

not exactly what this means so i’m just gonna assume it’s about my personal identity? i feel very guilty for the most minimal things i do and would do mostly anything to make it up to someone ahsvsn,,

#sepal speaks #ask games #thank you for the questions :)

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sepalistic · 2 years

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to be honest i think queer people should care less about other peoples identities and care more about making our community a home again

#reblog

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sepalistic · 2 years

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okay, whoever sent me the eyes in my inbox, i didn’t lie when i said i had a phobia of eyes, alright? don’t make any effort to trigger anyone.

#/srs #/gen /neg #woke up and just saw that today #i blocked them but god

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sepalistic · 2 years

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Get to know me asks

Nickname?

Hair color?

Eye color?

Height?

Any siblings?

Any pets?

Favorite color?

Favorite number?

Favorite animal?

Any phobias?

Favorite game?

Sexuality?

Gender identity?

Favorite subject in school?

Any piercings?

Any tattoos?

Do you like sports?

What are your hobbies?

Favorite music genre?

Favorite book?

Favorite show?

Favorite movie?

Describe one thing about your physical appearance

Describe one thing about your identity

Favorite flower?

Favorite food?

Something you’re good at?

Something you wish you were better at?

Something you spend a lot of time doing?

A hobby you have?

#reblog #ask bait #feel free to ask #i’ll answer anything #..in the morning once i get sleep

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