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PSA: Please teach your partner how to choke properly if you’re into that kind of thing.
The point of choking is not to crush the oesophagus, but rather to put light pressure on the carotid arteries to stop oxygen circulation to the brain. So tops, please create a V shape with your hands, which allows the fleshy part of the palm to rest against the oesophagus without causing any obstruction to the windpipe, and press down on the arteries. It’s not about stopping your bottom from breathing completely, but making them lightheaded.
This is very, very important!
Also, please don’t attempt any choking whilst under the influence because your better judgement may be impaired and you can cause some serious damage.
Choking is serious business, if you’re going to engage in it, please be sure to practise it properly and in a safe manner!
- Find her tolerance limit: First hit her softly and then gradually increase the force of each slap if you see she can take it.
- Always make her close her mouth before the slap to avoid her teeth cutting inside her mouth during the slap.
- Always hit her in the jaw. Never close to the ear (audition loss hazard), nose (bleeding nose harzard) or eyes. Any hit above the cheekbone (around the eye) will give her a black eye.
- If you wanna slap her hard in one cheek, then is useful to support her other cheek with your other hand. This is done to avoid a strong “whiplash effect” on her head.
-Avoid slapping her as a punishment/discipline. She has a fatty butt and some sensitive thighs that can be used for that purpose. Those are much safer to hit than her face. Use them.
- Never slap her with anger.
A good slap puts a naughty girl immediately in her place. It makes her shut up immediately so it’s really effective against a back-talking girl. Normally it brings instant tears of submission. But it can be a severe tool, so it must be used with care.
Remember: Women are delicate beings and they are easy to break. Better play with your toys without breaking them… so you can keep on playing!
The NC part of CNC is almost always what's focused on in every CNC concept, literature, video etc. And yeah, it's cool and all. But the consent in CNC? It's the main event. The foundation. It's everything.
non-consent is often emphasised cause it's the alluring part, the risky part, it feels like it's the thing that makes CNC what it is. But it pales in comparison to the consent aspect.
Like, here you've got a sub who is so devoted to you, so longing and needy that they want to give you full, raw control. They trust you to look after them with their whole being; they want to give you everything. They feel so safe around you that they're willing to fully submit to the idea of giving you what you want when you want it. There's just something so great about the fact that a sub is consenting to—asking; begging to—be completely beneath you, to being nothing, defiled, cause they want you. They love you. They know that you will keep them safe above all else.
And don't forget the aftercare!! The soothing cuddles and warm baths. The "you did so well, baby, I'm so proud of you," The reassuring that your sub is important and safe, making sure they're okay, ugh. It's just all so wholesome.
Don't agree with me? then get out of here. Consent is important and the hottest thing; it trumps every kink, soft or hard.
If you and your partner practice frequent, non-sexual consent, your relationship will be healthier and easier.
“Are you comfortable with me ranting about my day for a few minutes?”
“Oh, this is your poetry? Would it be okay if I read it?”
“Do you mind if I use your phone for a few minutes?”
“Wow, your meal looks awesome. Could I try some?”
It will save a lot of grief, especially in a developing relationship. Eventually, with consistent “yes’s” and “no’s” you can figure out more permanent boundaries and guidelines.
“I need to ask before ranting about my day or taking their food, but my partner is okay with me using their phone whenever. However, my partner does not like me reading their poetry unless they offer first.”