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its a good thing i dont have lots of spending money or i would buy a cute inflatable to hump pathetically

you have to talk quietly around micro furrys or you will hurt their tiny ears

tell me something i don't know brother

Reindeer games :)

I forgot i became a marketable plushie :3 drawn by @neonbuck

anyway i just think we should talk more about how pushy subs can get and how we collectively need to be more mindful of doms’ boundaries. personally i’m a switch and i almost always end up domming bc of how thoroughly bottom-y so much of the queer/t4t dating scene is. like once someone finds out i can dom it’s just expected of me and i’m fucking tired of it, i shouldn’t have to work so hard to make room for the concept that i might wanna sub sometimes too (which pretty much never gets followed up on), but that’s not even the part that bothers me the most

it bothers me that people don’t seem to realize it’s not only on the dom to assert their boundaries, it’s also on the sub to check in sometimes, to read body language, to read tone, to make an effort to cognitively empathize with the dom and what they’re going through bc domming can be really intense, psychologically and physically. i know so many people/posts romanticize the idea of being so deep in subspace that you can’t even think or talk and only the dom has to worry about anything and sure, that can happen w a lot of trust and consent and communication and be a good experience for both parties, but it’s so sinister to me that it seems to be the starting expectation so much of the time. it’s good in fantasy but in reality that is way too fucking much responsibility if you don’t already have well negotiated boundaries and deep trust. imo that expectation should never be the starting point

like sex and kink (can be) deeply intimate and intense things to share with other people and you should give a shit if you’re making someone uncomfortable!! subspace does not free you from the responsibility of how you’re treating the people you’re sharing those intimate dynamic/actions with!! subs should care about their doms’ boundaries and consent!! consent to be put in a dom position should never be assumed!! domming, just like subbing, should be something earned through trust!! i am so fucking tired

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Reefslider gal, here to warm things up

PuffyPaws pink husky :3

"surely the nsfw blog i just followed will not block me even though i don't have age in bio and my pinned says i watch minecraft youtubers" well that's where you're wrong buddy

wdym you're pulling out. Do you hate me

some people on here and twitter are constantly saying shit like. "ugh everything is so SEXUALIZED. arent you tired of seeing PORN and SEX. don't you think sex and kink might be a little bit evil?" and their replies are full of people ass kissing and acting like they just said something revolutionary. instead of like...parroting the most common mainstream US Christian anti-sex work rhetoric out there