I’m not really active anymore due to work but this is such a crock of BS. “Deserve a better community that respects their boundaries?” Antis??? RESPECTING BOUNDARIES?? That’s laughable, and I’m sorry you’re the better community but have yet to actually address the rampant racism, literal sex offenders and the towers of sexual assaults in your community but you’re the “better community” kiss my a$$ with that bs
antis care about respecting peoples boundaries?
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Don’t forget the most recent twitter drama with wengwengchim where they told an Asian woman to “learn better English” while having stop asian hate in their bios
Ahh, antis. The people who will call you racist for shipping the wrong thing but then turn around and call nonwhite proshippers "freaks of color".
god every time I’ve started to forget about the freaks of color nonsense I’m reminded of just how racist antis are
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If it’s porn and child porn at that I would like to think a normal well balanced person wouldn’t have reblogged it but reported it to Tumblr and then the FBI or revelant places that protect against such content. Or your ass is sitting at home bored, raking in the engagement your stupidity is getting and as per usual care absolutely nothing about the people you claim to be protecting. I fuckining hate it here
alright I’d like to never see that adam tots dudes art on my dash again he’s a fuckin anti anti who thinks cartoon kids are a-okay to draw p*rn of
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i’ll try to make this quick. this is going to be the first and final time i ever talk about this. i probably won’t answer any questions regarding this, i won’t talk about it publicly outwith this post unless the situation arises, i won’t dwell on this for any longer than i have to – but i don’t want this to go ignored, because it’s something important. i don’t want this to dictate my life upon this site. i don’t want to stay bound to this forever. i want to move on.
everything about this is true. i have no reason to lie about any of this. this is not any of the social experiment bullshit he’s tried to say it is. this is real, this happened to me, and i’m not staying quiet about it. here’s some people who helped out, and also those who might want to see this – @pcindre, @ncfrat, @whitepeoplearehellbeasts, @problematicdirectory.
ollie, who most of you know as iuriis, came back to tumblr under the url rex/al/ban with a fake identity. using another person’s selfies, he pretended to be a 16 year old girl from the uk named “joy”, in order to get close to me and one of my friends. he fooled us all – we defended “joy” against those who suspected she was ollie. whilst a few of us had our suspicions, they were all eventually disregarded.
i was close to “joy”. we talked a lot, mostly about our muses. i was excited to make a new friend, especially with someone who roleplayed a personification of my country. she claimed to have been assaulted by ollie. it wasn’t until monday night (20th november) that we really talked about ourselves, and “joy” told me she had a crush on me. i was, admittedly, smitten. that night, we talked about potentially meeting, something we’d mentioned before, kissing, making out. i EXPLICITLY stated that i was asexual, as well as a csa, cocsa, and grooming/stalking victim. she seemed to respect this, told me she was ‘pretty grey-ace’ herself. it seemed too good to be true. it was.
on tuesday night, “joy” said she had something to tell me. that it wasn’t “too bad”. then this happened. i’m heliogabalus in these screenshots.
this is the main part of the conversation, minus a few messages asking if i was alright, and telling me to get over it. to say i was a wreck would be an understatement. that day had already been particularly terrible, and this revelation was truly the icing on the cake. i was in tears, shaking, in a complete state of shock.
but i didn’t stay quiet about this. i couldn’t. almost immediately after this happened, i went to my friend cheech ( @otempcraomcres ) with this. she was understandably livid. she then told agrippa, her girlfriend laure, ( @overyourhubris ) who in turn told brogen, aka @faultsaints / @errorshe, one of the major blogs during the original sarah incident. whilst i initially wanted to keep this as contained as possible, it got out fairly fast, and part of me is glad that it did. on wednesday, ollie sent me this from his other blog.
when i first got this, i couldn’t read it. i sent it to cheech, to laure, who sent it to brogen. they told me not to read it – that it was disgusting, it wasn’t worth it. this was around the time when ollie kicked off on his blogs and started insulting me, making fun of my weight, saying no one would love me, saying i should’ve come to him to work things out, blaming me for “sexting” him, insinuating that i’d led him on.
i never consented in the first place. i’m asexual. i told him i was asexual. not only that, i’m still a minor in the majority of the world (16). i never sexted him. i made one comment about making out, and that was it. i mentioned i was gay, as in, liking women. i sent him an ask saying “i love u”. i don’t know how he deluded himself into thinking we sexted, but the point remains – HE WAS PLANNING TO RAPE ME. i don’t know for how long he’d been planning this, and quite frankly, i don’t want to know. it’s likely he would’ve gone through with this if he wasn’t about to be called out by brogen again, and the length of time he’d spent on this seems pretty evident, even stating he only wanted to talk to me and a few others.
and even on the first day, he tried to keep up the guise that he still cared about me under the guise of “joy”.
i would not lie about something this horrendous. this is not a social experiment like he tried to pass it off as. this is not me making a big deal about something little. ollie purposefully lied in order to get close to two minors. he catfished our entire group, had all of us convinced that “joy” was innocent. i’m speaking up about this because i don’t want anyone else to get hurt. i don’t believe he’s going to stop targeting people, specifically young girls. he was targeting me from the start, along with agrippa, and who knows who he’ll target next. he acts as if he’s merciful for telling me the truth, when in reality, he’s not. i’ve spent this past week in a dissociated haze, i’ve lost weight because of the stress, i’ve fallen behind in school, i’ve been a shaking, emotional wreck, having nightmares every night. i don’t want someone to go through what i have. i don’t want someone else potentially getting hurt, in any possible way, by this demon.
ollie – if you loved me as much as you claimed to, you wouldn’t have threatened me. you wouldn’t have catfished me, insulted me when i went to people about this, spread lies about me, or blamed me for this whole thing. you wouldn’t have planned to rape me. i rejected you, and like every narcissist, you’re trying to repair your damaged ego by attacking me. i can speak for myself, and that pisses you off. if you were fucking dense enough to believe you could keep me quiet, then you’re even stupider than i initially thought.
you don’t love me, or agrippa. you don’t care, and you said that yourself. but i’m supposedly the one at fault. you claim that me and everyone else have made this seem worse than it is, and that it’s been taken out of context.
it’s pretty hard to take this out of context.
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Actually dangerous catfisher callout (Trigger warning)
So, an anonymous person has alerted me to a situation that’s been going on, and it’s pretty fucking important.
Tl;Dr (written by this anonymous person)
“TL;DR Ollie / Oliver / Richie / George is an abuser who has for a long time catfished many people and especially younger girls in an attempt to get into a relationship with them. He’s admitted to committing sexual offenses such as raping someone both when the person in question was drunk and not (so it’s a repeated offense). He threatens to post his ex girlfriends nudes in public and accused them of abuse when he was the one manipulating and abusing them.” -Anonymous
Here are some sources provided to me by anonymous that explains the situation more deeply with evidence.
Please keep in mind these posts mention rape, so if this triggers you, proceed with caution.
Source 1 - [Post made by byecatfish]
Source 2 - [Post made by therpcisliteralcrap]
Source 3 - [Post made by gutread]
@theassholeantiarchive @anti-anti-survivor @fiction-is-not-reality
(i apologize if this is out of you guys league, but I figured this was important)
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Updated to the latest discourse (involving antis reacting to Josh’s post). We also included the infamous Shalluragate (at the top of all the text since it happened before all the other discourse.)
Archived links, albums of screencaps & stuff on vldflops will be added later.
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Because I'm too hungry for this and I'd rather be eating with friends:
Klancebaiting is a Twitter thing. Some people say it here but it's more Twitter. But you don't have to say it when we know the minute antis found out that Shiro it was a problem. Klantis continued to call it "Queerbaitig" when there was a queer man right there. But since it wasn't Keith or Lance it was bad rep because your twinks weren't confirmed gay. The minute antis said Shiro was bad rep was the minute that no matter what if klance wasn't happening y'all were being baited, which gave birth to the hideous awful baby of Klancebaiting.
At least antis are saying “Klancebaiting” instead of queer baiting so we know where their priorities lay: Not in actual LGBTQ rep, but just Klance
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Women's suicide rates rising have absolutely nothing to do with no fault divorces being implemented, women's suicide rates have been rising for a number of reasons, some of which include depression, highly underdiagnosed in women, stricter abortion laws that leave women feeling helpless, domestic abuse and mental illness (like schizophrenia, bipolar disorder) also highly underdiagnosed in women.
And if you're implying that women getting out of abusive marriages made men more suicidal then oh boy did the bleach cleaner finally eat your brain away? Men's suicide rates have been like that because men aren't seen as "manly" enough when they seek professional help, a societal problem, and while they are more likely to be diagnosed with depression, or mental illness they're least likely to take medication.
Also no fault divorces are good for both parties involved, and getting one IS taking responsibility you stupid cow
Just a thought
Things like the legalization of no-fault divorce and readily available abortions take away from men and women their responsibility and accountability for their own actions.
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I refuse to believe Tradfem blogs are anything but a kink because there's no woman alive who would look at how women were treated in the 40s, 50s, 60s and go "Yeah, being abused and treated like trash is what I want!!!"
y’know I really wouldn’t have such an issue with the trad/fem blogs on here if they would just mind their own fucking business, like you do you! but no instead they have to be all preachy about how the rest of us that aren’t married and submissive and whatever are evil and so fuck them
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