I could fix him. I could make him worse. Good for you. I could gently take the weapon out of his shaking, blood-soaked hand and hold him until he finally believes that he doesn't have to be defined by all the ways the world has hurt him. Then we could ruin the lives of everyone who has ever treated him like he's a monster who doesn't deserve love.

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No in between. Reblog if you vote pleas

there are some internet friends where eventually you start calling them by their real name and then there’s times where its like nah son your name is crispy forever

It isn't shameful to be a trans woman and dudes aren't going to explode being compared to them. Egg jokes are not a big deal and a trans woman saying some shit like "hey, I used to do that before I realized I was trans" is not a big deal, infact most trans women wish someone had helped them realize sooner. If it turns out the person is just a cis dude, big deal! Being upset that your actions can be seen as a thing trans women do is suspect as hell! Being a trans woman is not a bad thing to be!

Working at a physical therapy office is insanely funny cuz I get to hear shit like "You're really stiff, so we'll get hands on and stretch you out." and "Are you finished? Okay, great, let me go and get the strap, go ahead and lay on the table." and they're always said in this bland-but-cheery kinda voice that you only get when saying that stuff is a regular part of your job.

Unmute !

I really can’t stress enough how important it is to talk to your friends, family members, and partners regularly about their right to set boundaries, even ones that inconvenience you.

We absolutely live in a hierarchial abuse culture where people can and do impose their will on each other in a million tiny ways. A lot of people just expect it - they’ll make choices according to the assumption that you, too, are invested in controlling them to whatever degree - because unless you consciously make a point not to be, it’s possible that you are.

In a healthy relationship people ask for consent often - “Do you want to do this? Are you comfortable with this? Is there anything you think we should change about this plan?” And then, they clarify that negative answers are totally normal and okay.

Checking in can sound like, “Hey, you know I love doing X but if you ever don’t want to you know that’s okay, right?” It’s paying attention to nonverbal cues that someone is uncomfortable and giving them an out - “You don’t seem excited about this party, I want you to know it totally won’t be a big deal if you’d rather not.”

In a healthy relationship there’s a huge difference between “no” and “you shouldn’t have asked”. “No” is normal and expected and it’s assumed that sometimes it will be the response. There’s an intentional effort not to punish each other for not always giving each other what you want.

Normalize “no” in all your relationships. Seek it out! Give people extra opportunities to say no! And accept it. Recognise that it’s a good sign when your loved ones feel safe enough to not agree to things they don’t want out of fear of your reaction.

Just - check in. I don’t care what kind of relationship it is, don’t assume people know it’s safe to say no to you unless you remind them and show them regularly. Making space for healthy boundaries is one of the most important things to communicate with the people that you care about.

I'm like half asleep so idk if my thing is gonna make sense but I'm thinking about my autistic girlfriend and seeing posts about autism and seeing how autism is treated as this bad thing that needs to be corrected weirds me out cuz like those moments where my girlfriend is just herself and I get to see her be her autistic self, her ticks her movements her words her lack of them, I find them so utterly beautiful and precious and I would not change her for the world her autism is apart of her and I love her so much her autism isnt a detriment it's simply her and I love her

It’s funny when American authors come up with a new European nation so their main character can be a secret royal without the pain of researching a real nation. We should all start doing that with North America, just make up a new state. My protagonist lives in New Utahioshington which is the 51st state and located between Delaware and Maryland

Insane seeing people telling British trans people to "just move" like that's a good attitude to have or even viable for most people. Like. Do you not have any concept of things like community, or money? Even if I could afford to, I wouldn't want to drop my community to leave.

If you're trans in the UK, now is the time to find that community, fight against this shit, have each other's backs.

And learn to DIY, now, before they take away our healthcare completely and we're left with nothing

all video games should be dressup games. if you can't put your guy in a little outfit what's the point

Trans Confidence

Daily Mini-Comics of things that happens. Today, why I dont wear cool/cute things

plurality is a spectrum. no one's plurality is going to look exactly the same because by nature of plurality, we are all different. some plurals have headspaces, some don't, some have inconsistent headspaces. some plurals have easy communication, some have none, some have difficult communication. some have strong amnesia, some have none, some have weak amnesia. some have really diverse headmates, some have really similar headmates, some have a lot of headmates, some have few headmates. some are disordered, some are not, some lie in an inbetween. some are adaptive, some are spontaneous, some are created. and some of these things can vary from day to day or as systems change over time. plurality is a spectrum, not just a black and white experience

Lmao how is this real, "the ambient sounds of the world were wrong, sir"

Zero Escape is a game about love