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some of my favorite replies to this tweet. happy lesbian visibility week!
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Master list of all the "our __ experience" lgbtq+ blogs
These are all the active and inclusive/friendly queer blogs I could find. If I listed any that are exclusionist or otherwise bad or are just inactive, please let me know so I can remove them. This list is intended to help queer people find active and inviting communities to participate in and feel safe in. If you know more feel free to add them in the reblogs and/or tell me them so I can add them. Please spread this around, I worked very hard on compiling this list, and this may help people find the community for them here on Tumblr.
🏳️🌈 Overall community
@our-queer-experience
🏳️🌈 Aromantic and/or asexual
@our-arospec-experience
@our-asexual-experience
@our-oriented-aroace-experience
@our-aroace-experience
@unionize-aromantically
@our-demiromantic-experience
@our-demian-experience
🏳️🌈 Gay/lesbian
@our-lesbian-experience
@our-gay-experience
@our-lesboy-experience
@our-gaybian-experience
@our-mlm-experience
@our-sapphic-experience
@our-achillean-experience
🏳️🌈 Transgender
@our-transgender-experiences
@transsexual-experiences
@our-transfeminine-experience
@our-transmasculine-experience
@our-trans-youth-experience
🏳️🌈 Genderfluid (and related)
@our-genderfluid-experience
@the-genderflux-experience
@our-boyflux-experience
@our-genderfawn-experience
@our-genderfae-experience
🏳️🌈 Demigender
@our-demigirl-experience
@our-demiboy-experience
🏳️🌈 Agender
@our-agender-experience
🏳️🌈 Multigender
@our-multigender-experience
@your-bigender-big-brother
🏳️🌈 Nonbinary
@our-nonbinary-experience
@our-genderqueer-experience
@our-androgyne-experience
@our-abinary-experience
🏳️🌈 More sexualities
@our-pansexual-experience
@our-bisexual-experience
@our-mspec-experience
🏳️🌈 Other/random
@our-queerplatonic-experience
@gender-envy-is
@our-unlabelled-experience
@our-xenogender-experience
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It’s my first lesbian visibility week as a lesbian!! Very emotional about it.
woohoo!!! actually now that i think about it it might be mine too-
we will be visible lesbians together :)
happy lesbian visibility week everybody!!
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i have a crush i have a crush i have a crush i have a CRUSH!!! 😖😖😖
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hiya! um, so. for some context i've been really questioning whether or not im a lesbian. and i was wondering if this was comphet or something else? (i mostly just want your opinion)
so, in my last relationship i always noted a feeling of just.. overall "wrongness" in a sense? like the guy was real sweet nd all but i always felt sort of reallt wrong and kind of trapped, and i think also at one point i started kind of wishing it would end in hopes i'd end up with a girl..
i've read the lesbian masterdoc at least once but unfortunatelt my brain will assume only what is listed in the doc is stuff i should consider as a Something
(sorry if this seems nonsensical :,)
i totally understand, and i do think that could be a lesbian thing. i've noticed in myself that the idea of dating a man just felt wrong
overall, don't get caught up in the "criteria" of comphet or lesbianism, comphet is just the effects of a heteronormative society, so anything that is rooted in acting straight despite the very surface level/"fake" intentions (these are the wrong words but i am trying 😭)
don't take common experiences as the only experiences, and try to focus more on what you think could be comphet, and then think about the deeper reasons of why you did those things/if certain feelings felt Different etc.
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happy lesbian visibility week
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For the anon who wishes they liked boys, I also dealt with a form of this in my teens and early twenties. I really wanted to "just be normal" -- because it seemed easier, because I wouldn't have to navigate queerness, because I felt I would be accepted without issue that way, etc. But realizing my fear and my internalized lesbophobia wasn't who I really was did happen. Give yourself time and know it's okay to be nervous about an unknown. Being straight is normalized so much in media that it seems "safer", even if it's not really what you want. You can learn to love who you really are, and when you find the joy and safety of loving women, being in an awkward relationship you don't want with a man will no longer seem like the safe, "easy" option anymore. (This is my experience, at least. I'm now in my 30s and have been married to a woman for almost ten years!) Good luck and lots of hugs to you.
<3
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A good lesbian experience:
It took me a long time to admit I was a lesbian because even though I’d always been attracted to women and have never been attracted to a man, I assumed I could be. On top of that I’m transmasc and I don’t feel that identifying as lesbian invalidates my gender, but some people get very weird about lesbians who are not cis women and about lesbians who are not gender conforming. So identifying as a lesbian is new and I haven’t told a lot of people yet.
I mentioned it casually to a friend I hadn’t spoken to in a while and they responded with “I thought you were a trans guy?” Not in judgemental way at all, or even confused. Just mildly curious, leaving it up to me to explain but not pressing. So I talked a little about my experiences with gender and everything and they were super supportive and we went right back to what we were talking about before.
It’s just really nice because online there always seems to be plenty of discourse around transmasc lesbians and one of the things keeping me from claiming the label was anxiety around how other people would react. And it’s so nice to have positive experiences with people who listen and don’t want to enforce hard boundaries on queerness.
yessssss
sometimes it feels like everybody has rules about the gender you're "allowed" to have, and everyone has different rules so you never know if you're okay to tell people. it's awesome to have people in your life who you don't have to walk on eggshells around.
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I wished I just liked boys so bad rn (even if I have other mixed feelings because. Girls. And now I know I do feel about them). Does that get better? How do I work on…accepting things? Guys actually show interest in me and like I want the social safety of being with one. Dating a girl is what I want, truly, beneath the denial but. It seems so hard to get there.
i can't really help with that, as i realized my sexuality after all of my friends had also realized they were queer and i never really had any wish to be with a guy. Hopefully someone else can tho, i think this is a pretty common experience
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reblog if you’re a lesbian who supports bi girls, a bi girl who supports lesbians, or if you want all wlw to have a nice day
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when I say things like "i'm so happy i could help" i want y'all to know that I mean it
I'm so grateful that i get to be a resource for people who are exploring their identity, and i'm so happy that i'm a useful resource!! Every smiley face, heart, and "thanks for your help" makes me so incredibly happy
so i just wanted to say thank you to all of you for helping me create a space where we can help each other and everyone can profit off that (ignore my strange wording i am bad at words)
<3
#the thing that sparked this post was me saying “screaming crying throwing up” in response to someone rbing me with “:) <3" in the tags#I was not lying about how oddly giddy i get at the most mundane of responses#our-lesbian-experience
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shoutout to my fellow genderqueer lesbians. whether you're trans, nonbinary, just genderqueer, or simply Something Else, you are so cool and so valid
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Being the lesbian blog, I'm sure you've heard this rant before, but I'm saying it and you can't stop me >:)) I like girls. The tall ones, the short ones, the goth ones, the preppy ones, the cis ones, the trans ones, the demigirls, the neogirls, the girlflux gals, the women, all of them. They're all lovely and beautiful and wonderful and deserve the world.
surprisingly i haven't, but this and more are very welcome!! you are so real for that.
simply
girls
of all varieties
#they/we are so <3333333#our-lesbian-experience#asks#ESPECIALLY MY FELLOW GENDERQUEER GIRLIES/LESBIANS#LOVE Y'ALL SO MUCH
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I love love love women! 💕
frr
❤️
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hi hi, im that anon who sent the most recent ask! thank you so much for your reply, i get kinda dysphoric whenever i feel like i can't be "categorized", so your words were really validating!! i've never heard of the terrm comphet before, so thats something new for me. after thinking about it a lil bit, i think my feelings were probably a mix of comphet and queerplatonic, as while i dont think its romantic attraction, its definitely some kind of attraction. thank you for your help, it means a lot to me!! cheers, have a good day! <3
I'm so glad I could help! I hope you have a good day as well :)
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