A true muslim filipino is a family oriented because each member is devoted to his family. They are the one who identify our problems but give us power to have solutions. They are God's gift to us.

Dear ate ayna,

Gusto ko lang po i share yung problema ko. Alam kong awkward para sa atin pero para po to sa pt namin. May problema po kasi ako, napaka torpe kong lalaki hindi ko kasi masabi ano gusto kong masabi sa kanya kasi nahihiya ako. Ano po ba ang dapat kong gawin?

~nuraj

Response,

Alam mo yan kasi mahirap sa inyo napaka torpe niyo pero ito lang masasabi ko wag kang mahiya na sabihin sa kanya anong nararamdaman mo sa kanya kasi ikaw lang kawawa. Di mo alam sa bandang huli may iba na siyang kasama. ~ayna

FAMILY Where life begins, and love never ends.

My kind love is when somebody accept me who I am. With this I can relate my kind of love to the theory of Robert Sternberg which tells about the Passion Commitment and Intimacy. My kind of love also help me to know who really I am. With this I can say that my kind of love is unique. My kind of love is when people around me is kind and friendly. “You deserve the kind of love you would give someone else.”

Emotion Challenge

Every time I have many problems I pray because I know that God/Allah will help me and overcome my problems in life. Sometimes When I also feel sad I didn’t share it to others because I know that they will get worry at me and I don’t want them to feel sad also. “Show no Emotions, Feel no Pain.”

Leadership and Management skills are two qualities that must go hand in hand. To become a leader is to be able to manage tasks as well as people efficiently. A good leader is someone who can communicate the right thoughts in the most effective manner as well as listen to others views and comments patiently. While some people are blessed with great leadership as well as management qualities, there are others who work hard on becoming the perfect boss. Leaders certainly have a never- ending list of responsibilities to take care of and it is definitely not everyone’s cup of tea. So here are a few qualities that make a good leader with management skills.

Integrity Have you ever wondered what it takes to have great management skills? INTEGRITY is the answer. It is one of the most respected qualities of a great leader as it helps the individual in staying calm, composed as well as unbiased during all times. It plays a key role in managing your team as well. A great leader is one who says what he can do and then does exactly the same with the help of his team. Integrity is also the quality that helps leaders in building a trustworthy team.

Character and the ability to speak up Are you one of those individuals who have the guts to speak up when required as well as also stay unbiased no matter what the situation is? If yes, then you certainly have one of the most important qualities that make a great leader with unmatched management skills. A good character helps people in putting their trust in you, which as we know is a very important characteristic in the corporate world today. A leader with character and great commanding power is followed by people of his team as well as also admired by others. Honesty Probably the first and foremost quality in a leader is his honesty. To be able to manage an entire team on your own is a huge responsibility and while it may seem to be falling apart at times, remember that you are responsible for everything that is happening with your team, hence you should always stay honest with your team members as well as your bosses. Your team is a reflection of how good a leader and manager you are.

Communication and sense of humor If you face trouble in expressing the simplest of thoughts, then you are probably lacking what it takes to become a successful leader. As a leader, you are supposed to manage a team as well as also communicate the right thoughts and ideas in the most ethical way possible. To be able to express yourself is a great gift and a quality that every leader must possess. A good leader must also have a great sense of humor and should be able to crack jokes with the teammates, hence creating a light and healthy working environment for everyone. To sum it up, leadership and management are skills that require an individual to be compassionate, a good delegator as well as consistent in his job.

These are some ways on how I cope up with stress. These steps really help me a lot specially to tough times. When im so stressed I tend to look at this and remind myself that “I can really do this or cope up with this”