My opinion : Babs was deaged to be with Dick.
Okay so I've seen so many dickbabs shippers try to deny that Barbara was deaged to fit Dick for the purpose of defending dickbabs or make them look better i guess. They keep saying that wasn't the reason why she was deaged. they always point to the 1st time she got deaged.
like why are they so upset when they see people say that. I wonder if they care more about the ship than barbara as an individual character.
cuz if they truly liked Barbara separately from Dickbabs maybe all the anti-dickbabs comments wouldn't be an issue for them. 🤷♀️
anyway i'm going to explain why it's true.
here's the thing :
Barbara was deaged multiple times
Crisis on Infinite Earths wasn't the only time she was deaged, she got deaged again in other books/continuites.
So The real question is where did they deaged her to be the same age as Dick to make them work not when was she first deaged. (we all know it's always in dickbabs comics where she's written as the same age as dick, i wonder why)
The 1st time she was deaged was in Crisis on Infinite Earths, it was so Jim could be younger but they only decreased her age slightly because she's still written as older than Dick, here is a panel from Secret Origins #20 that was published in 1986 exactly 1 year after she was deaged in Crisis on infinite earths (1985) she said Dick is too young for her and that batman is always the one on her mind. So Dickbabs during this time still has a big age gap so they're still unable to work.
The 2nd or 3rd time she was deaged is in dickbabs comics where she was finally made the same age as Dick so dickbabs can finally work as romantic pairing.
Instead of being older she's now written as a part of Dick's generation.
From a congresswoman to someone who went to highschool prom with Dick.
Even Tom Taylor wrote them as childhood sweethearts so he can portray them as soulmates in his comics. a huge wtf moment for me because Babs wasn't originally this young when she first met Dick 😭
pls She had a PHD, has been working as a librarian and congresswoman when dick was still a young boy in gotham.
Barbara is now written as a part of his generation and his one true love since day 1. (from an independent congresswoman to Dick's childhood sweetheart and girlfriend who revolves around him)
Before Dickbabs couldn't work because of their age gap but now they can work. thanks to dickbabs comics deaging barbara again and this time for the sole purpose of reducing Babs into Dick's love interest.
So Just because she wasn't deaged to be with Dick in her 1st deaging doesn't mean she wasn't deaged to be with Dick in her 2nd or 3rd deaging 🙃
Dickbabs shippers can deny it all they want but at the end of the day dickbabs wouldn't have worked out if she wasn't deaged to be the same age as dick.
and even if they're right, let's say for the sake of their argument they're right that babs wasn't deaged to be with dick, it still doesn't change the fact that dickbabs is weird.
Regardless if Babs was deaged to be with Dick or not, It's still weird to see Dick being put in a relationship with a woman who was originally a congresswoman when he was still in highschool.
It's like deaging Batman into a teenager (like let's say it's because they want to make Bruce appealing to teenagers) but years later they decided to give him a love interest who is also a teenager as part of the new batman stories.
So even though his deaging has nothing to do with women or shipping in the first place, it's still weird to suddenly see Batman in a relationship with women who are a part of dick's generation knowing he was originally much older than them.
Like Bruce/Raven or Bruce/Starfire suddenly becoming a thing 🤢 No amount of deaging would be able to justify those pairings.
The same happened to Barbara she was originally a part of Batman and Superman's generation.
for goodness sake she dated Superman!!!! She was so much older than Dick.
Also remember when Dickbabs was originally a pedo-like ship and it was so controversial and hated the same way Brucebabs was hated today? Because Barbara the adult woman is kissing minor grayson but now she's fully making out and having sex with minor grayson in dickbabs comics.
The reason why Dickbabs fans don't want people talking about this is because they care more about making dickbabs look good than barbara's independence. They don't care that Barbara lost her independence, her phd, her solo careers, her librarian and congresswoman job because of dickbabs shipping.
They don't view Barbara as a character seperate from dick. Barbara is trapped in this relationship because of people like them. They don't fight for Barbara's independence. The only thing they want from her is to be the girlfriend of Dick and nothing else. It is so hard for them to let Barbara Gordon be independent and not just “Nightwings girlfriend."
Barbara's real enemy is the dickbabs ship. Before, she is able to stand on her own, but now she's nothing more than just a love interest who can't live without dick and too dependent on him and his solo books to exist.
DC really needs to get Barbara some actual character building that doesn't involve Nightwing whatsoever but it's hard to do that when she won't even stop chasing Dick nonstop like a dog in his solo books and thinking about him 24/7 because of writers like tom taylor who is always busy making babs' entire personality all about dick than writing solo babs stories.
Dickbabs is unnecessary and disservice to her character, it does nothing for her independence. She is forever demoted to Dick's love interest unless they free her from this ship.
poor babs she deserves better than people who only want to associate her with dick 24/7.
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Dickkory Quotes that make me cry ❤
“Dick Grayson, He was my starcrossed soulmate. He will never be replaced.” - (Injustice 2 )
“Grayson used to gush about you.” “I still miss him everyday. ” “Show me what impressed him so much.”-(Injustice 2)
“No one could ever take your place.” - TT (Sisters)
“Nobody’s taking her away.” TT (Sisters)
“She’ll be fine Robin. Starfire knows how to take care of herself” “That doesn’t mean I can’t worry.” - TT (Snow Blind)
“ As long as were together. We’ll be okay.” - TT (Stranded)
“Starfire” “ Yes Robin?” “ You know you’re my bestfriend right?” “ and you are mine” “ I never want anything to get in the way of that” “ Nothing ever could” - TT (Trouble in Tokyo)
“Starfire! are u okay? ” “ I am now ” “I think I was wrong before. ” “You do?"Maybe a hero isn’t all that I am. Maybe I could be-. Maybe we could be -” “Robin” “Starfire?” “ Stop talking” - TT ( Trouble in tokyo)
“ So I guess you’re not a wanted man anymore ? "Hmm I wouldn’t say that. ” - TT( trouble in tokyo)
“Yeah. You’re right . But it’s not always easy to stop hiding behind the mask, to stop playing hero and just be human. It’s a poor student who blames his teacher. So I won’t. But luckily I have to you to remind me there’s more to life than chasing clues, solving mysteries and beating the bad guys….” - TT (2003 comic #47)
“ Kory.. I.. I’m sorry I hope you can forgive me” “ I was full of despair when I lost you. ” “I know I’m sorry I never meant to hurt you.” - Starfire 2015
“I missed her so much these past few weeks. Hell, I was scared out of my wits that I’d lose her. Before I knew how close we were, I knew how much she meant to me. But I never really believed I needed her. I’ve tried not to need too many others. It took me until we were apart to realize I can’t be an island to myself. But now I know, I need her giggling in my ear. I need her beside me at night. I need her hand in mine. I love her. - New Titans #86
"It’s been weeks dick. I’ve almost forgotten what you feel like.” “I’ll remind you. ” - Batman Bad Blood (2016)
“ Nightwing” “Starfire” “It’s been awhile” “ I know. You looking good.” - JL vs TT (2017)
“ Could you not leave yourself open like that? I worry” “I’m sorry babe.” “I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately” “ About what?” “ I think we should take the next step in our relationship” -Judas Contract 2017
“So what were you saying before we were interrupted? ” Okay I got an apartment in the city I Hope maybe we could share y'know together. “ Judas Contract (2017)
” By the way I should offer congratulation on your cohabitation Grayson. Starfire has proven herself to be a decent leader. I approve. “Thank You” - Judas Contract (2017)
“ Have I told you how glad I am that you’ve chosen to move in with me?” - Judas Contract (2017)
“ Damian of course perfect timing. ” “ Solo?” “ He’s working on something. Have I mentioned He approves of us.” “ So do I” - Judas Contract (2017)
“This is Kory” “and Dick.” “We’re not home now.” “So leeeeeave a message!” -Judas Contract (2017)
“ It’s okay.. You know .. You know I love you.” “I… I do and I love you. More than I’ve ever told you. More than I ever could.” - Teen Titans Games
“Kory I only think I may love you. I mean not just as a friend. I mean in a romantic way. lord I dont know what I mean. I really need time to sort out my emotions.” “ I’ll give you all the time in the world. ” - New Teen Titans #26
“Worried about Kory?” “Of course she’s a good friend.” “That’s all ?” “Vic, Mind your own business.” - New Teen Titans #26
“Haven’t sleep for days , not since Koriand'r has been kidnapped. Didn’t know how much she meant to me.”
“You’re think about Dick and Kory too huh?” I think Dick’s in love with her. I think he knows he loves her. I know she certainly loves him . god I hope they know what they’re doing"- (Wally and Vic about dick and kory ) New Teen Titans #26
“ You are lovely Kory. Not just beautiful . I don’t think I tell you enough how I feel about you. I’m just not as free with my emotions as you are which is probably why you are good for me. I’ve asked for so much … asked you to change when I probably didn’t have the right to and you’ve worked so hard to do it since you escaped from your gordanian slavers. You always accepted me the way I am… I… I think I should have done the same for you. Your homeworld of tamaran had been invaded .. But you fought to save it. You came to earth not knowing what to expect you risked your life trying to get here. and for all your efforts you were put through hell as a slave. Yet you still embrace life without anger. A life filled with such hardships would have reduced others to hopeless despair , but not you . You fought back looking at life as a challenge. You are teaching me a lot Kory. When I first saw you in action I was horrified at the way you fought. I thought you were bloodthirsty . But then without knowing who or even what you were .. I couldnt decide if you were a friend or foe. Hard to belive one little kiss changed everything. I spent my 18 years living with batman learning to contain my feelings. 3 years with Kory is changing all of that.” - New Titans #71
“Kory I missed you Honey. I love you” - New Titans #84
“Kory don’t let him escape! Use your starbolts or something.Damn, I’m sorry honey I forgot how weak you’ve been since the wildeebeest. I should be glad you’re even up. Let alone using your powers. All right let’s call in the other to regroup” - DTT #14
“Back off Pantha. You know I love Kory . I didn’t know how much I cared till I thought I lost her then she was the only thing I could ever think about until it almost drove me crazy.”
“If you love me, If you do understand, then that’s all that’s important to me Dick.” - New Titans #36
“I must be some kind of a complete fool. Any Guy would have had his bags packed by now . god, I love you kory. ”- New Titans #36
“I know that when I’m with you I feel more alive than I ever have before.” - New Titans #34
“I know when we’re together I feel right Kory.” -New Teen Titans #34
“I guess I wanted to feel a little more alive.I’ve always felt alive with you. - Titans #17
” Kory? Kory… Komandr will kill her! Kory!!!! I love you!!!“ - New Teen Titans #17
” You need some loving tender care and we have some catching up to do. We love each other Dick.“ New Teen Titans #31
"Raven thinks it’s easy all I have to do is decide I love Kory . But she doesn’t realize that’s not the problem. I do love her.” - New Teen Titans #34
“Kory if you can hear me. I’m sorry for everything . I do love you. Kory. I do love you You know it is and lord do I wish it weren’t. I’d marry you myself if you’d have me. That’s how much I love you.- New Teen Titans #34
"I don’t understand what’s going on between us right now. but I don’t want us to be apart.” - New Teen Titans #4
“I’ve always held back my emotions afraid to let them show. But she opened me up. I love her.” - New Teen Titans #12
“What?” “Looking at you here makes me realize how much I love you.” - New Teen Titans #10
“Somehow whenever I’m depressed thinking of Kory makes me feel better. I wished she were with me. If only to apologize for being such an ass to her.” - New Teen Titans #38
“Kory you are gorgeous” - Tales of The Teen Titans #50
“You look lovely Koriand'r” - New Teen Titans #2
“I wish Dick were here. I need his arms around me . I never knew how much till now.” - New Teen titans
“Honey let me help.” “ Kory you already have. More than you know. But not more than you will know” - Tales of the Teen Titans #39
“It wasn’t Starfire’s beauty that made me feel in love with her. It was her FREEDOM. I mean the Freedom to feel even at home with even her Strongest emotions. The one kind of freedom that BATMAN wouldn’t allow . That’s what I was longing for and that’s what Kory slowly taught me to embrace.” - Nightwing and Old Friends, New Enemies Action Comics #618
“My god Kory!!!” “Dick chill!! Good news she’s not here!” “But the blast- Kory! Are you hurt?! What have they done to you?” - The Flash ( Mark Waid)
“I almost killed you. Forgive me?” “You have to ask?” - Tales of the Teen Titans #5
“Kory How did you know? My god , Am I happy to see you! Coming home to you was very important to me. Being with someone you love with someone you trust is really all that’s important. Koriand'r I love you . I really do love you. - Nightwing and Old Friends, New Enemies Action Comics #618
"Until recently , she was with the New Titans. As well as with her husband Nightwing. One of My oldest friends.” - The Flash ( Mark Waid)
“I love you Dick.” “ Me too Hon ”- New Titans #57
“Take care Hon. I love you And I you. - New Titans #57
"Kory I’ll summon the others . You rest.” “No I’m fine We got to go” “I’m not taking any chances until Sarah Charles looks over you . Kory I love you. Please. Stay here.” - New Titans #85
“First Time I saw her she struck me as a wimp, now she’s got guts, she always did pantha. Courage, Determination, but most of all compassion for those about her . Dont let Kory’s heritage fool you pantha sure in a fight she’s tough as nails but she’s also a woman , more full of life than any other female I’ve ever known. Just being around koriand'r is fun . You know she does have a mind pantha that’s why I love her.” - New Titans 89
“I love being with you Dick.” - NTT #35
“I don’t know how to say this Kory but I’m worried about you and about us. ” - NTT#15
“How are you Dick ?” “Oh still the same raven. My on going problem is deciding what to do about me and Kory.” - NTT #36
“Kory? What’s the matter hon? Come on talk to– Kory! Get back here! We need to talk D*mnit! Please Kory I’ve been walking in circles working up my nerve we really need to talk..now..- New Titans #86
"Please Kory . I’ve been walking in circles working up my nerve. We really need to talk now.” - Titans #86
“Kory, can we talk? I came all this way just for you.” - New Titans #110
“Kory please speak to me. I love you and need you.” -New Titans 109
“ Honey that isn’t you . Come to me . We can be together. We love each other . Come to me . I love you. I need you.” - New Titans #109
“Honey please come to me. You have no idea how much I love you Kory. Kory please don’t leave me . Kory I need you come back to me. Kory come back. - New Titans #109
"I love you Dick and I don’t care who knows it, and because I love you, there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for you. It’s as simple as that. ” - New Teen Titans #39
“We love each other Dick.” - New Teen Titans #31
“i don’t know if I can but what I do know is that I rather deal with it later because I want to be with you more than anything else.” - New Teen Titans #34
“No matter what you say you still love me. You still want me.” “Never said I didn’t.” - New Teen Titans 32
“You keep surprising me Kory. Everytime I think I know you, you do something that makes me completely revise my opinions. and truth to tell, always for the BETTER. You do surprise me constantly and consistently and very happily. And I do Love you.” - New Teen Titans #39
“ Kory it’s so funny. I spent the better part of my last year fighting to forget what made me . I almost alienated myself . But you stuck by me and I love you for that.” - Tales of the Teen Titans #44
“Kory realized something was wrong with me. Bless her She did try to help. Kory and I talked out our problems and no matter how hard it was, talking made it better.” - New Titans #57
“You know something? I love you.” “ And I love you too more than you will ever know”- New Titans #89
“Dick’s known me longer than anyone else on this planet. Nobody understands me the way he does.” - Titns Volume 2 #21
“I guess…Superman’s death made me realize something too.”
“What?”
“How short life is. How I don’t want to waste it pretending to be anyone but myself when I’m with you." - New Teen Titans 85
"god Kory I didn’t realize how much I love you I can’t lose you now.”- New Teen Titans #37
“I know how I felt when I left Batman. I know I’ll be wrecked if Kory and I ever part. I love her I really do. And do this might sound unhip , I feel strange about living with someone I’m not married to In a way i felt pressured to move in because I didn’t want to loserl her” - New Teen Titans #48
“Miri stop. Kory and I are in love.” - New Titans #93
“She hasn’t said a single word all evening. I’ve joked around, complimented her, kissed her, told her how much I love her. - New Titans #98
"You want to hear something crazy Kory? I still love you . I want you back.” “ D– Nightwing… Pls. not here. Can’t we talk about some other time?” “No! I’m tired of waiting for later. it’s always been later.” - New Titans #99
“ Kory We belong together you know you are mine.” New Titans #99
“My morality makes me a one woman man and you are that woman you will always be. What I’m saying is I love you and I want to be with you forever. Kory, will you marry me ? - New Titans #99
"Kory, I love you. I need you” - New Titans #99
“Nobody’s stoping us from what we’re doing what we’re doing . We are getting married now!” - New Teen Titans #100
“I know I’m sorry but for once I want to be selfish. This Is Kory’s and my day. I don’t want anything bad to happen .”- NTT# 100
“Kory , you have given me love . You have cared for me and made me want to care for another. You have made me laugh. You have changed my life . I love you deeply and completely.”
“Dick, with this ring I ask you to be my partner in life. You have shown me laughter and understanding. When I’m with you I am a better person. I love you completely with all my heart.” - New Titans #100
“Kory! I love you! Fight it! Let me go! Kory needs me!” - New Teen Titans #101
“My god how many times did I hear batman say that while I was growing up do this don’t do that , It was always for my own good I didn’t belive it then and I well don’t believe it now, but one thing I do know. Kory needs me”- New Teen Titans #101
“I’m sorry Hon, I hate gassing you but it’s all i can do. I love you. Please believe me .” - New Titans #101
“Dick? I’m so sorry . I’m so sorry” “It’s okay Honey, just rest go to sleep. I love you.” - New Teen Titans #101
“ Hon , I’ll stay with you for how long as it takes. I’m never going to leave you. You don’t know how much you mean to me” - New Titans #101
“Kory I love you. I’d fight my way through hell for you if I had to” - Titans #105
“ When I first saw you that day you fell into that apartment, you were the most beautiful Woman I’ve ever seen.” - New Titans #113
“Kory’s always been strong, she knew what was right for her even though I didn’t know what was right for me .” - New Titans #113
“Kory stared at me as if I didn’t exist and my heart broke . I loved her . We were almost married. She flew up high into the sky far away from me. I feel stupid now but all I could do was stare as my life seemed to abruptly stop. My stomach sank, my heart raced faster than it ever has and I fekt a pit widen in my chest that scared the living out of me. My call meant nothing to her. What happened to her? What was going to happen to me?” - New Titans 111
“Utterly bombastic and Utterly Unapologetic. Starfire is gentle with her friends and barbaric with her foes. Her closest bond has always been with Dick Grayson. The only Titans accustomed to having a partner that intimidating.” - Starfire Origin
“Koriand'r the alien who calls herself Starfire, Dick says she’s the most honest and optimistic woman he’s ever know. Now they say they’re just friends. Though I know better. Barbara knows better too”. - Teen Titans 2003#20
“Not going to be able to hold out much longer here but are you getting this? I.. I just wanted you to know I’m sorry I couldn’t talk about it more easily. I thought there were no words. But they’re simple really. I just need you to know I love you.” “Losing, you the distant is too far to maintain a link but i wanted to try because I had to let you know.. It’s been difficult lately and I wish it hadn’t been because really the only part of our history that matters is that i’ll always love you” -Titans 2009
“He is my soulmate and I will love him to the end of my days and I believe I will always be in his heart.” - Titans #16
“ Batman doesn’t dance.” “Dick don’t talk like that . Not with me. I’m not some other people. I don’t need to see your face. I can hear your voice. I know your heart. A mask can’t hide that. No matter which one you wear” “It goes both ways Kory” - Titans 2008 #21
“No matter how long I live on this planet, no matter who I meet nobody means more to me than Dick. More than a friend. More than a teammate. More than a lover.” - Titans 2008 #21
“Koriand'r was beautiful on the outside like all princesses are supposed to be but she was also beautiful on the inside, because she believed in justice , in truth and in fairness for everyone. - New Titans #71
"You have a future Kory. And it’s a wonderful life.” “Where?” “Far away from all of this with Nightwing. When you get back,you need to seek him out. You need to be there for him. Don’t forget that. -Titans Tomorrow
"Ah, there you are my love. ” “ Good to be home Kory. She asleep?” “Pretending to be She never really seems to settle down until we’re both home Dick . ” - The Kingdom: Nightstar
“No you dont, Starshine,Mommy’s parents have gone to the embrace of xhal. ” what about daddy’s mommy?“ ” Uhmm. Mari Grampa Bruce never got married .. “ "But what about Grampa Bruce’s parents? "mari, his parents died too. It.. just happen sometimes” “ will it happen to you?” - The Kingdom : Nightstar
“I dont want you and mommy to die! I dont want it to happen to me .” “Die? Baby shh your mommy and I we’re not gonna die on you. I promise you. I promise. ” - The Kingdom : Nightstar
“ Dick you’ve known me for four years. We’ve been married for six months.” - New Teen Titans Convergence
“Dick?” “Kory you didn’t.” “ I couldn’t. I love you.” “ And I … I love you.” - New Teen Titans Convergence
“You might be right. And there might be something wrong but we’ll figure it out together. But the most important thing is we’re together. And with the people we Love.” - New Teen Titans Convergence
“If you can believe it. Mom and Dad were about as love at first sight as you can get. Pretty much literally love at first sight. But you know things change and people and relationships all change. They had their share of ups and downs. Just like any couple. Much less a superhero couple. but time and time again, they worked through things. Because they loved each other. and that was enough.” - New Order #4
“ and she liked him and my mom enough to come to their wedding.” - New Order #4
“Jake? Kory?” “ It’s okay dad we’re a family. We love you. Right mom?” “ Of course we do honey.” “What. What. ..Was ? ” “ The Ring wants to soothe in intense moments it tries to show you what you want more than anything. It wants to give you hope. ” - New Order #4
“Jake?” “Mom? Dad?” “Yes honey I am here now. I have you everything’s going to be okay. - New Order
"So that’s it then? After everything we’ve been through ? Everything we’ve had? No… You gotta Give me more than that Kory. Please.” - New Order #4
“For as long as I’ve known you, you have made me feel strong, respected , empowered. FREE. - New Order #4
"Well amongst us humans even when things go south . It’s normal to miss the person you LOVE.” - New Order #4
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