Learn All About Climacophilia

Falling Down The Stairway to Heaven

The world is vast and full of sexual kinks. Some of those kinks are so well known that they border on mundane - no one bats an eye at spanking or handcuffs. Other kinks are very well known but still extreme - most people's attention will get caught by piss drinking. Yet, there are still kinks that are so unknown that the research regarding them is nearly nonexistent. Those are the kinks that might only make one person orgasm, but they still get into a textbook. Climacophilia is closer to that classification.

Meet the Stair Fetish

Fetishes are subjects that are endlessly fascinating. They are part of what make people interesting. It makes those people more fascinating when their fetishes are dangerous. Would you risk a broken neck for an orgasm? There's at least one person that will. Climacophilia is a fetish for falling down stairs. The people that have Climacophilia can cum without stairs, but their most intense orgasms will happen while falling down stairs(1). One of the interesting things about Climacophilia is that it's the direct opposite of a phobia. Climacophobia is a fear of falling down stairs. That makes sense as a phobia because one could die from falling down stairs(2). The human instinct for survival is a part of phobias, especially one that could so obviously lead to death or injury. Climacophilia is fascinating because it doesn't make any sense and is so rare.

The Rarity of Climacophilia

Climacophilia is astonishingly rare and the rarity of this fetish makes quite a bit of sense. When you throw yourself down stairs for an orgasm you will most definitely get hurt. You're courting serious injury - including broken bones, head injuries, damage to your spinal cord, and possibly death. Falling down stairs doesn't have any biological incentive, therefore it's probably neurological reasons that lead to Climacophilia. Try and research Climacophilia, there doesn't seem to be any case studies on it. There are mostly articles and book chapters about it. Climacophilia does exist, but it might be one person. It's important to keep in mind that as you move into the more exotic fetishes less and less people are going to take part in them. Climacophilia doesn't appear in Dr. Brenda Love's Love's Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices, however it did gain prominence in 2013 after a mention in Dr. Jesse Bering's book Perv(2). It captivated people with it's danger and unfamiliarity.

The Pain of Climacophilia

Just take a moment and put yourself in the mind of a Climacophiliac. The biggest sexual thrill that you get is not from sex itself, but from hurling yourself from the top of a staircase. That is the height of ecstasy. Now, in other fetishes increasing the intensity increases the sexual gratification. Take spanking for example, the harder you spank someone who's into it the more they enjoy it. By that token, Climacophiliacs would get intensified orgasms by intensifying their fall down the stairs. This could be done by controlling certain parameters of that fall. The most obvious one being the amount of pain felt while falling. One could control this by increasing the velocity that they fell at or increasing the number of times impact was made with the steps. Another way to increase the intensity of this kind of fall would be by increasing the number of steps you're falling down. By leaping down bigger flights of stairs you would be adding to the experience, in a way similar to how size queens seek out bigger and bigger cocks to ride. Whichever way you increase the intensity of falling down stairs you will certainly increase your likelihood of getting injured. As you increase the likelihood of injury the likelihood of death also increases. As both of these dangerous factors increase the orgasms of the Climacophiliac should also intensify. This danger must be part of the attraction. Leaping down stairs would give you an adrenaline rush, you would feel the effect of endorphins, and those feelings could get intoxicating. It is certainly possible that part of Climacophilia is an attraction to pain and danger, similar to how adrenaline junkies pursue dangerous activities or how BDSM fetishists seek out pain. It is impossible to remove the elements of pain and danger from this fetish, therefore those factors have to be a part of the attraction. You also have to take into account the location that is demanded by this fetish.

The Humiliation of Climacophilia

The fetish of Climacophilia absolutely requires you to fall down stairs. An incredible amount of stair cases are public places, especially the biggest ones. That being the case, it's rather likely that you will be caught participating in this fetish. Being caught engaging in your favorite sex act invites humiliation. Even if the person who catches you doesn't know you just had an orgasm, you know that you did. Just being caught engaging in behavior that we have always been taught is private, cumming, will invoke humiliation. It isn't just the connection to sex that can be humiliating. When you fall down stairs you are failing at a basic motor skill that the majority of people have no problem with. Most people walk down stairs all the time without even a little problem. This perceived failure in walking can lead to a feeling of humiliation and shame. Due to the somewhat public nature of this fetish you are inviting humiliation onto yourself. Much like pain, because humiliation is so tied to Climacophilia it has to be part of the attraction. Climacophilia seems to be related to other fetishes like sadomasochism and domination. Climacophilia will hurt you and you will probably be humiliated. The fetishist then takes that pain and humiliation and makes them erotic, in the same way that those in BDSM do.

Conclusion

The sexual world is a never ending maze of fascination. Just when you think you've learned everything it contains, you hear about Climacophilia. This incredibly rare fetish is sexual gratification that comes from falling down stairs. It's difficult to find any cases of this fetish. You are more likely to find intellectual musings on it, like this blog. However, the general consensus is that it does exist, so it has made it's way into literature. Like other fetishes, Climacophilia must have ways to increase the orgasms. Such as by intensifying your fall down the stairs. No matter how you attempt to control this fall it will always be dangerous. You will most likely get hurt in some way. This danger and pain must be related to the sexual attraction. Perhaps, it's the intoxication of the adrenaline and endorphins that contribute to the orgasm. Climacophilia is one fetish that seems counter intuitive to sex. However, other fetishes involve danger, pain, and humiliation such as sadomasochism. Climacophilia is just far more specific and involves a public space – stairs. Climacophilia appears to be related to sadomasochism, humiliation, and adrenaline seeking. The oddest part about it is it's specificity in location.

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Learn All About Kinsey's Sex Research

Kinsey and His Institute

The sexual revolution was kicked off by scientific research into human sexuality. This research was the beginning of normalizing sexual needs. This normalization began unraveling the tapestry of sexual repression, which is still being pulled apart one thread at a time. The man who is credited with spearheading the scientific research into human sexuality was Alfred Kinsey. Alfred Kinsey published landmark studies concerning human sexuality and worked to redefine sexual behavior in biological terms. Kinsey went onto found the Kinsey Institute, who's sole purpose was to continue research into human sexual behavior. Many people believe that Kinsey's major motivation was being reared in a incredibly religious and repressive household. As is the case with so many people, it's very possible that Kinsey was fueled by his childhood.

Kinsey's Childhood

Alfred Kinsey grew up in a household ruled by an oppressive father. His father was very religious and enforced the sexual repression that is taught by Christianity. Kinsey's father was also a teacher at Stevens Institute of Technology. As a result of that he spent an enormous amount of time pushing young Alfred towards the field of engineering, regardless of Alfred's interest in biology. Kinsey and his father eventually had a falling out, which was never repaired, over Kinsey's decision to study biology. It turned out to be lucky for society that Kinsey was preoccupied with biology rather than engineering. It was due to this preoccupation that led Kinsey to conduct landmark studies on sexual behavior. It was because of these studies, which applied the scientific method to sex, that fueled the sexual revolution(1). However, Kinsey had a long time of rigorous study before the plans for these studies entered his mind.

Kinsey's Education

It was probably due to Kinsey's strict upbringing that he had so much dedication to his studies. After the rift formed between Kinsey and his father, Kinsey completely dedicated himself to the field of biology. When it was time to enter college Kinsey was accepted into Harvard as a biology student. After showing himself to be an exemplary student Kinsey gained a powerful mentor in William Morton Wheeler. With Wheeler's guidance Kinsey was put onto the track of a doctorate. In fact, he fulfilled that goal in 1919 when he attained his Doctor of Science Degree. After which he went on to teach at Indiana University. In 1924 Kinsey married Clara Bracken McMillen, who was a chemistry student at Indiana University. Five years after his marriage, Kinsey's research regarding insects earned him a full professorship at Indiana University. In fact, it wasn't until 1938 that Kinsey began to research human sexuality. In 1938 Kinsey began teaching a course on marriage and the family. In this course Kinsey began to use illustrated biological lectures on sexual stimulation, the mechanics of intercourse, and techniques for contraception. It was also during his teaching of this course that Kinsey began his efforts to try and normalize sexual behavior by putting it in biological terms. By the time that 1940 rolled around Kinsey had shifted his entire focus to sexual behavior. As Kinsey realigned his focus the enrollment grew to 400 students. As his interest in sexual behavior got piqued Kinsey began his studies into sexual behavior. In 1948 Kinsey published 'Sexual Behavior in the Human Male', which was followed up, in 1953, with 'Sexual Behavior in the Human Female'. Three years after 'Sexual Behavior in the Human Female' was published Kinsey died of a combination of heart failure and pneumonia(1). Luckily before his death, Dr. Alfred Kinsey had already founded the Kinsey Institute to continue his research on sexual behavior.

Kinsey's Institute

Nine years before his death Kinsey created the Institute for Sex Research with his research team. This institute was essential for continuing the research on sexual behavior long after Kinsey's death. On April 8th of 1947 the Institute for Sex Research was incorporated in order for Dr. Kinsey to continue his research. In 1957 the Institute for Sex Research won a court case, US v. 31 Photographs, which granted exceptions in porn bans when it comes to academic research. In 1970 the Institute for Sex Research made an Information Services Department in order to provide reference material for research studies. To commemorate the 25th anniversary of Kinsey's death his institute was renamed the Kinsey Institute for Sex Research in 1981. In the time period between 1984 and 1993 the Kinsey Institute published the 'The Kinsey Report', a newspaper column that dealt with sex research. During 1995, as the internet began to grow in power, the Kinsey Institute created their online public access catalog - KICAT. The Kinsey Institute started publishing 'Kinsey Confidential' as a weekly column in the Indiana Weekly Student as of 2001. The Kinsey Institute's latest endeavor into educating the public was a smart phone app called the Kinsey Reporter App. As the Kinsey Institute has made great strides in sexual behavior research it has had six directors since Alfred Kinsey's death. During the tenure of each director the Institute has never stopped publishing research papers on sex and sexual behavior(2). The Institute has been Kinsey's long and successful legacy in the field of sexual research.

Conclusion

An important part of the sexual revolution was the normalization of sexual behavior that Kinsey began. By forcing biological terms onto sex Kinsey made sexual behavior more accessible to academics. Those academics then pushed that same normalization into the mainstream public. A large part of why Kinsey pursued his research was probably his strict upbringing. His very religious father tried to force sexual repression onto Kinsey, who proceeded to rebel as hard as he could. In his rebellion Kinsey followed a path toward sexual research which would enable the sexual revolution of the 1960s. After his death the Kinsey Institute continued his research on sexual behavior. Leading to a better understanding of our natural state.

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Learn Why People Love Milfs

The Milf's Rise to Power

When it comes to sexual interest it is obvious that men have a preoccupation with the age of their partner, it's part of what turns them on. However, in recent years it has become increasingly obvious that this preoccupation does not always point in the direction of youth. There are plenty of men infatuated with the idea of confident older women, aka Milfs. We can use the porn industry to measure this infatuation and in the last seventeen years there has been a steady explosion in popularity of Milf porn. With that in mind, another question bubbles to the surface. Why are Milfs so popular? It appears that there are a variety of reasons. It could come down to unresolved mommy issues or simply a desire for a dominant, confident woman. Whatever the cause of it, a significant portion of the population love them some Milfs.

Milf Popularity

However you get your supply of porn you must have noticed what a popular genre Milf porn has become. The only explanation for this great supply is that there is an equally great demand. If you're still buying porn DVDs then you can go to any porn studio website and see how many Milf titles they offer. Two incredibly popular porn studios are Elegant Angel and Adam & Eve. Both of these very popular studios have an impressive collection of Milf porn titles. Elegant Angel has 88 titles that are Milf porn(1) and Adam & Eve have 225 movies that are centered around Milfs(2). Now, if your porn consumption is focused on the internet then you must have heard the names Naughty America and Brazzers. These are two very popular internet porn networks. Naughty America has created 47 different porn sites, 7 of which are Milf sites. That amounts to 14.894% of their porn sites being exclusively Milf oriented(3). Naughty America also allows you to search out scenes based on your favorite porn star. Out of their 25 top rated porn stars 12 of them are Milfs(4). Brazzers has a similar situation. 9.09% of all the sites on the Brazzers network are Milf sites(5). While 12 out of their 25 most popular porn stars are Milfs(6). Using the supply of Milf porn as proof of the demand is fairly easy, however there are other ways to determine the popularity of Milfs. We can always take a look at web searches.

Looking at the targets of sexual web searches is an effective way to study human sexuality. In 2009 this was done by the researchers Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam. By combing through anonymous web searches they were able to compile a study on human sexuality that used 100 million subjects from all around the world. This sexual study had the largest scale since the Kinsey reports in 1948 and 1953. It also shined a light on the Milf phenomenon. Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam discovered that there are more searches for 50 year old women than for 19 year old women. There are a significant number of sexual searches for 60 and 70 year old women. They also found that there are more erotic searches for grannies than there are for common fetishes such as spanking. Apparently, on the search engine Dogpile, the third and fourth most popular sexual search terms are respectively mom and Milf(7). With this evidence in mind the question then becomes: is the interest in Milfs recent? If so, when did it start? To answer that question we need to delve into the history of Milf porn.

History of the Modern Milf

The Milf porn boom began in the early 2000s. Before then there were porn scenes with older women, but they were no where near as popular or common as they became in the 2000s. Looking back into the history of porn, before 2000 it was very uncommon for porn stars to work past their 30s. The first porn site to start pumping out tremendous amounts of Milf videos was Reality Kings, they began this in the year 2000. Once they started making these videos their competitors began to follow suit. Before long the Milf phenomenon started to take shape. Performers, such as Lisa Ann, have pinpointed the first spike in popularity for the genre in 2005. The popularity of Milfs seems to have spiked across all porn sites in 2011 and still remains one of the top search terms for porn sites. In today's porn, the most popular Milf performers are between 30 and 40. Some performers find work as Milfs outside of this age range, but it's less common. Although, the meaning of Milf seems to have morphed since 2000. Milf has become more of an aesthetic than an actual age range. Some porn stars in their twenties wind up starring in Milf videos just because of how they look. The term Milf has come to describe a women's sexual confidence, her dominance, and commonly her curvaceous figure(8). While the Milf porn boom has a start date it is most likely that this sexual fantasy has always existed in the desires of men. When porn became easier to get anonymously, thanks to the internet, the pornographers had to cater to a wider audience. Thereby having to make videos that satisfy a wider range of specific fantasies. That is when Milfs rose to prominence. Now that our curiosity is sated with this knowledge yet another question arises: why are Milfs so popular? To answer that we are going to have to tread into the realm of psychology.

The Psychological Allure of Milfs

The fantasy of an older woman guiding a young man through sexuality has always existed. We see evidence of this in the movies that Hollywood has made. In 1967 a movie called 'The Graduate' captured everyone's attention. An older woman took on the role of a sexual teacher to a younger man. The term we have for it is more recent. Milf became popularized by the 1999 movie 'American Pie'. The term was used to refer to the character of Stiffler's Mom, a dominant and sexy older woman. This fantasy has always been in the minds of men, therefore the reason must lie in their psychology. The most obvious thing would be to blame Freud's theory of the Oedipus Complex. Freud theorized that every boy went through a phase when he hated his father and was sexually attracted to his mother. According to Freud's theory it is only a matter of time before young boys grow out of this phase. Taking things at face value, unresolved Oedipal issues would make sense when regarding the attraction to Milfs. However, there are a couple things wrong with that assumption. First of all, no population can be completely uniform. Milf porn is one of the most popular porn genres, it is highly unlikely that all the men attracted to this fantasy have an unresolved Oedipus Complex. Second of all, most Milf performers don't actually fit the age range to be as old as their fans' mothers. A performer in her 30s most likely wouldn't be old enough to be a mother to a 18 year old man(9). That being the case, projecting Oedipal issues onto the Milf porn star probably wouldn't work very well. There are other theories that do a better job of explaining the Milf phenomenon.

The Allure of Sexual Hunger

While looking at the possible reasons for the popularity of Milfs we must not lose sight of what a Milf is. A Milf is a confident, sexually hungry, and beautiful woman. It just so happens that most of these traits accompany age. It has long been thought by men that older women have a more voracious sexual appetite. With that in mind it makes sense that young men, with hormones pumping through their veins, would be attracted to older women. In fact there is science to support that the sexual appetite of older women and young men could be a good match. In the world famous Kinsey report it was shown that women in their thirties have the most orgasms when compared to other age groups. There was also a recent study published in Personality and Individual Differences that reinforced the data from the Kinsey report. This recent study explains that women between 27 and 45 have the most daily thoughts regarding sex. Some people have tried to explain this sexual overdrive in women by using biology. It is thought that as a women's fertility comes to its end they have evolved a larger sexual appetite to take advantage of their waning child bearing years. There is also a simpler explanation. It is entirely possible that this increased sexual appetite is due to women becoming more confident and assertive as they become more sexually experienced(9). It is entirely possible that some of the viewers of Milf porn are attracted to these sexually voracious sirens because of their sexual hunger. However, that can't account for the entire audience. There has to be more reasons than that for the rise of the Milfs.

The Allure of Dominance

There is yet another reason why Milf porn is so popular. Milfs are powerful women and plenty of men are turned on by powerful, dominant women. A study published in the Journal of Sex Research compared 50 videos of Milf porn with 50 videos of teen porn. This study found significant differences between the two genres that go beyond age. It was found that, in the porn videos, Milfs were 2.5 times more likely to be the sexual aggressors. It was also found that Milfs were 9 times more likely to set the pace and direction of the sex scene. The study uncovered that in the 50 Milf videos that were studied 83% of the women had more authority than the men. These would be videos where the women played bosses, teachers, judges, etc. It is incredibly likely that the fans of Milf porn get turned on by powerful women taking charge of a sexual situation. It is fairly common for men to have a desire to be dominated. This desire would easily be fulfilled by Milfs(9). The fact that Milf porn depicts strong, confident, and beautiful women who seduce men using those traits cannot be ignored. Due to the fact it is shown so much in one of the most popular porn genres, the power of Milfs must be part of the attraction. Yet, the hypotheses don't end here.

The Allure of the Familiar

Another theory, regarding Milf porn, states that its popularity might be due to the fact that Milfs seem more attainable than 20 year old porn stars. When you're watching porn you project yourself into the scene. That being the case Milf porn, for many guys, might seem more like a scenario that could actually happen. The Milf on the screen is more likely to look like a teacher, a coworker, or a neighbor than younger porn stars are. The principle of projection applies to older men who watch porn too. They might enjoy Milf porn because older men tend to have sex with older women, so Milf porn is something that would ring true for them. It is also true that older women enjoy watching Milf porn. This is because it's easier for them to project themselves onto a Milf than a 20 year old woman(10). Whether its because it's enacting long held fantasies or because it's familiar Milf porn is dominating the market of filth. People are rabid for Milfs.

Conclusion

When we peer through the door into the world sex we certainly see that there's a fascination with age. It was long assumed that this fascination only went in the direction of youth. However, in the last seventeen years it has become apparent that hoards of people are drawn in the opposite direction. By looking at the market of porn it is obvious that a huge population of people love Milfs. It's absolutely one of the dominant porn genres. Once you start digging a little deeper into the Milf phenomenon you find legitimate reasons for peoples' attraction. It might satisfy a long standing sexual fantasy of powerful women with authority. Perhaps Milfs reflect your actual life better than the young starlet ever could. Milfs might symbolize a woman with an unquenchable sexual thirst which attracts you. Perhaps Milf porn fulfills psychological issues left over from childhood. Or it could be as simple as you appreciate the aesthetics of an older women more than that a younger one. Whatever combination of causes are at the root of the Milf boom one thing is for sure... it isn't going anywhere.

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Learn All About Cuckolds

What A Cucked Up World

In the last seventeen years the world has seen an explosion in fetishes of all kinds. One of those fetishes we've seen blow up, in both porn and people's lives, is the phenomenon of cuckolding. The origins of cuckolding is nothing new, it began in the time of Shakespeare and has morphed into something entirely different. Cuckolding has many different facets, there are the physical requirements. There's also all of the psychological drama taking place. That's not all, cuckolding appears to be growing in popularity and it is bleeding into other cultures in our society. It is clear to all those watching that cuckolding will only grow bigger and most likely keep morphing.

History

You may have heard Donald Trump supporters latch onto an abbreviation of cuckold: cuck. However, they are far from the originators. In the middle of the thirteenth century there was a word in Old French, kukewald. Kukewald is the Old French word for the Cuckoo bird. Over time this word morphed into the familiar cuckold. This is in reference to the way that the cuckoo bird will lay its eggs in the nests of other birds for them to raise. The original meaning for cuckold was just the husband of an adulterous wife (no hidden eroticism there)(1). This meaning fits better with the metaphor of the cuckoo bird. Think about it, if the wife of the cuckold were to get pregnant then the husband would be stuck raising a child that was not his offspring. Very similar to the eggs of the cuckoo bird. Unfortunately cuckolds have changed over the years and they no longer fit within the metaphor of the cuckoo bird.

Details

Cuckolding has transformed since the days of Chaucer and Shakespeare from being an insult to being a full blown fetish. In more recent years cuckolding has exploded in popularity. The modern day cuckold is driven mad with lust at the fantasy, sometimes the reality, of their wife/girlfriend having sex with another man. In the cuckolding scenario the wife/girlfriend is known as the hot-wife. This third man is usually more virile and more well endowed in order to further shame the cuckold, he is known as the bull. The cuckold is very involved in this process, sometimes to the point of going out and finding the bull for his hot-wife. The typical scenario is the the hot-wife having sex with the bull while the cuckold watches, usually in the same room. Quite often the hot-wife will tell the cuckold how much bigger and better the bull makes her feel. While this would drive the average person mad with jealousy it only arouses the cuckold(2). This scenario is one of the typical ways the cuckolding scenario plays out, but it can sometimes move into more extreme territory.

In many cuckolding scenarios the cuckold is shamed and humiliated by being “forced” to watch the bull satisfy the hot-wife. The cuckold will be in the corner usually masturbating, while the hot-wife is moaning in ecstasy and the bull plows into her in ways that the cuckold just cannot. However, this scenario can escalate. Sometimes the cuckold will wind up servicing the bull with the hot-wife. The cuckold might offer the alpha-male bull his warm mouth or ass to add to the shaming. In another scenario the cuckold will be “forced” to clean up the mess the bull made inside the hot-wife. The bull might creampie the hot-wife leaving his jizz to be lapped up by the cuckold. Slurping up another man's cum out of his wife only feeds the cuckold's need for humiliation. In most real life cuckold scenarios the cuckold will have passionate sex with the hot-wife, vigor renewed, after the bull leaves because their fetish has been satisfied. Like many fetishes, this scenario will probably seem odd to the average person. However, there might be a biological explanation for cuckolding. Robin Baker proposed a theory that has been dubbed the Sperm Wars Theory. It simply states that the biological urge to breed creates greater sexual arousal when men are presented with sexual competition. In fact it could be said that the most basic porn scenario, boy meets girl, plays into the cuckold sensibilities(2). Watching people have sex arouses the bestial response to sexual competition. It becomes more of a fetish when it is paired with the need for humiliation and shame.

Psychology

It has been suggested that cuckolding might have a psychological relative in the BDSM world. This is due to the fact that cuckolds relish the humiliation and shame that comes from their hot-wife getting ravaged by the bull. All cuckolds are voluntarily walking into a realm of mental anguish... and they love that anguish. They slurp up that anguish like so many creampies. Those involved in the cuckolding life have recently begun to celebrate cuckolding as an intellectual pursuit. Precisely because they are able to side step that mental anguish and jealousy. Cuckolds are, in fact, fine with the hot-wife having sex with the bull. What they're afraid of is the possibility of the hot-wife forming an intellectual or emotional bond with the bull. Cuckolds aren't polygamists, they just get off on their partner having sex with others. There's no room for extra relationships in the cuckolding game(3). This fetish has a tendency to get complicated because of the introduction of a third person. Yet, despite its complications cuckolding is growing across cultures.

Gay Cuckolding

In the past cuckolding has been a straight fetish, for the most part. However, it is beginning to move onto the gay sex-world. Three-ways were never unheard of in the gay culture, however cuckolding has one major difference from a three-way. In any cuckolding scenario the cuckold is kept from participating in the sex, unless to service the bull or clean up, and is often ridiculed by the bull or hot-wife. As of 2016 a survey of the LGBT community was being done in regards to cuckolding. This survey was being done by Dan Savage, David Ley (PhD), and Justin J. Lehmiller (PhD). The trio discovered that cuckolding is gaining popularity within the gay community. It has been theorized that this might be because of gay marriage being legalized, specifically in the world's major superpower. This train of thought states that gay marriage getting legalized is a part of gay culture becoming normalized and therefore adopting some of the sexual practices of the majority, i.e. straight people. Another possible explanation is that different cultures just naturally feed into each other and gay cuckolding is just an example of the straight culture feeding into the gay culture. However, I think it is more likely that the psychological profile of a cuckold is much more common than we used to think. There are obviously a lot of people, regardless of their sexual orientation, that like to be sexually shamed(4). The evidence being the growing popularity of cuckolding.

Conclusion

Once you take a peek into the world of cuckolding you begin to think that Trump Boosters don't quite know what they're talking about when they use the word cuck. Cuckold was an insult in the thirteenth century and was used as such by writers of that era. However, language evolves with society. Cuckold is no longer an insult but a fetish. Whether or not the cuckold is cleaning up after the bull or just masturbating while watching the hot-wife riding the bull, he receives the shame that he craves. The ability that a cuckold needs to compartmentalize this shame, and any jealousy, appears to put this fetish in the hands of intellectuals. More and more smarty-pants are jumping in line to be cuckolded by a rock hard, virile bull – and they love it. This fetish has even begun to bleed over to the LGBT community and is being embraced by gay men. Perhaps the Trump Boosters' use of the word cuck is a mere sign of how pervasive cuckolding really is. Perhaps we're living in a cucked up world.

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Learn All About the Pregnancy Fetish

Pregnancy has been considered many things throughout human history. Some people consider it majestic, beautiful, or powerful. However, there is another group that finds it erotic. This group is made up of fetishists that worship at the altar of maieusiophilia, also known as the pregnancy fetish. This group has been steadily growing in recent years, they are making themselves known throughout the internet. Maieusiophilia is not a uniform fetish, different people find it enticing for different reasons. Swedish researchers theorize that this fetish has quite a bit to do with sexual imprinting at a young age. Whatever the cause, maieusiophilia is an ever growing group of fetishists with a strong internet presence.

Maieusiophilia, the pregnancy fetish, is a sexual attraction to women who are or appear to be pregnant. This fetish has gained prominence in recent years, the expansion seems to be linked to the growth of the internet. It is unclear what came first in this scenario; the fetish or the web. We can't be sure if the internet has helped spread maieusiophilia or if the fetishists were just closeted until they found online communities in which to express their desires. It is also possible that there is a combination of the two. A major growth point for this fetish in western culture appears to be when Demi Moore posed naked while pregnant in a 1991 issue of Vanity Fair. Since then there have been several celebrities posing naked during their pregnancy. These types of photo shoots not only normalize pregnancy in mainstream culture, but it also gives ignition to any dormant pregnancy fetish that might be lingering in the readers(1). Events such as these combined with access to free pregnant porn on tube sites are most likely connected to the growth of maieusiophilia in the internet era. It should also be mentioned that the people in this fetish group often find different points of pregnancy hot. There isn't necessarily consensus in this group.

Quite often different pregnancy fetishists will see different aspects of pregnancy as erotic. This attraction will usually start in the teenage years before the fetishist has a chance to realize that what they find attractive strays away from normal. Over time this attraction will become more involved and detailed. Plenty of pregnancy fetishists are merely attracted to the shape of a pregnant woman. Others will credit their attraction to things like the pregnancy being a result of a loving relationship, the biological urge to procreate, an increased libido during pregnancy, or the gradual transformation of the mother's body. Sometimes these fetishist will find more abstract parts of pregnancy the most alluring. They might claim that the reason they love pregnant woman is due to the concept of creating life(1). It does seem that the more individual fetishists that you talk to the more details you will get.

A recent article in Jezebel actually interviewed two of these fetishists in order to find out what they found to be the hottest part of pregnancy. In this article they interviewed a man and a lesbian that were both maieusiophiliacs. While both of the interviewees gave the reasons stated above, they also branched off into the obscure. The male fetishist claimed, quite simply, that he found a pregnant woman being sexual to be dirty and therefore sexy. He also claimed that the mere fact that a woman is pregnant means that other men find her sexy, which further turned him on. The lesbian fetishist got somewhat original in her explanation. Her pregnancy fetish seemed to be intimately tied to her love of women. The lesbian fetishist gave the reasons that being pregnant made women seem powerful and god-like because they were creating life(2). She seemed to be inherently attracted to this power that all women share. Granted that any explanation of a fetish is quite possibly intellectualizing or justifying subconscious mechanisms.

In 2010 a Swedish research team decided that the pregnancy fetish needed to be dug into. This team was led by Emmanuele Jannini and Magnus Enquist. The team conducted a survey among 2,200 men that they found on internet fetish communities. Most of the men that they questioned reported having a pregnancy fetish or a lactation fetish. The sample of participants were given questionnaires to answer and the researchers then analyzed the answers that they received. It was discovered that if the participant was exposed to their pregnant mother, between the tender ages of 1.5 and 5 years old, then they were significantly more likely to wind up with a pregnancy fetish. The key to that would be, you guessed it, a younger sibling. The questionnaires revealed that among the subjects 66% of them had a little brother or sister that fit this age range. This is leads to sexual imprinting. The process of sexual imprinting is when a little kid decides what is normal during a sensitive phase of development. Interestingly enough, it has to be their genetic mother for the sexual imprinting to take place. Stepmothers appear to be unrelated to the subjects future sexual preferences. Once that information is imprinted from the parents the child will seek out mates that fit into their learned framework of normalcy(3). This phenomena exists across the animal kingdom, but it is a rather convincing explanation for the pregnancy fetish in humans.

The world's fetishes are growing daily. One of those fetishes is maieusiophilia, an attraction to pregnant women. This fetish very well could be reduced to how the inner workings of your mind was set up in childhood, but it could also be rephrased in romantic terms. Whether you find the shape of pregnant women alluring or you see them as an avatar of a goddess from on high, the fact remains that you are part of a growing movement. This surging wave of a fetish is influenced by both pop culture and the internet. The youth are being recruited, all be it without design, for this swelling fetish by watching their mother suckle siblings and by stumbling onto tube sites. Once the subconscious framework is built maieusiophilia no doubt gets reinforced by celebrity photo shoots and pregnancy porn. As long as the internet exists maieusiophiliacs will not dwindle in number, they'll only increase given time and reinforcement. They are surrounding you and you will never know until you get pregnant and the fetishists pounce.

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“Who Thinks Pregnant Women Are Sexy?” accessed on March 5, 2017, https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-sex-and-babies/201109/who-thinks-pregnant-women-are-sexy

How To Get A Healthier Heart Via Orgasms

There are two organs within your body that are essential for you to live: the brain and the heart. Both of these organs need to be taken care of and there are entire medical disciplines to make sure that happens. When it comes to the heart, an essential tool in making sure that you have a healthy one is aerobic exercise. A very important form of aerobic exercise is, of course, the all mighty orgasm. By achieving orgasms, on a regular basis, you will be well on your way to dodging heart disease. Achieving orgasms, as a form of aerobic exercise, strengthens your heart on multiple levels. When you combine all of these factors you receive a healthier heart via cumming.

There are a few different ways that having an orgasm will boost your heart health. It has been shown that those who have sex twice a week are 45% less likely to suffer a heart attack. Let us take a more in depth look as to why this might be. The effort it takes to cum amounts to aerobic exercise, therefore the heart gets quite the work out when you rub one out. In addition, if you are having sex (rather than just masturbation) on a regular basis then you are most likely in a committed relationship. Simply by being in a stable relationship the levels of your stress will drop causing the health of your heart to improve(1). There is so much evidence that frequent orgasms are good for your heart, however that evidence has not prevented misconceptions from popping up. Plenty of people think that busting nuts can lead to a heart attack.

Unfortunately, there are many people that think that having an orgasm will deliver you into the grip of a heart attack. They are denying themselves one of life's great pleasures because of a misconception. This misconception has been largely fueled by television shows. Older characters will have sex and then wind up in the hospital for a heart attack. This is an interesting technique for story telling, although not representative of reality. The risk for a gentleman, at the ripe old age of fifty, to keel over due to a heart attack is one in a million per hour. After sex this number is tripled, however it is still only three in a million per hour. Sex falls into the classification of mild to moderate aerobic exercise, the same classification as walking on flat ground. Shoveling snow is three times as hard of work and is more likely to give you a heart attack than enjoying an orgasm is. Interestingly enough, researchers have found that when people engage in regular mild to moderate exercise – a la sex or masturbation – they are five times less likely to have a heart attack while doing it(2). In fact, the American Heart Association put out a statement in 2012 alerting the public to the fact that less than 1% of acute heart attacks are related to sexual activity(3). An orgasm is no more likely to give you a heart attack than regular exercise is. After all, that is what sex and masturbation are.

In the world of physical health and fitness there are many groups of exercise, both broad and specific. Working yourself up to climax falls into the group of aerobic exercise, as previously stated. Aerobic exercise is when you move your large muscle groups in a continuous rhythm in order to get your heart pumping. This form of exercise both reduces your blood pressure and reduces the effects of stress hormones. When your body is flooded with stress hormones your blood vessels get constricted and your heart beat speeds up. Engaging in aerobic exercise – such as cumming – calms these effects(3). This type of exercise will also just make your heart generally stronger. As your heart becomes increasingly strong it will take less beating to get the same amount of blood throughout your body. Therefore improving your body's overall circulation. The levels of cholesterol in your body will also be impacted. After you begin doing aerobic exercise, eventually, the amount of good cholesterol (high-density lipoprotein) will increase and the amount of bad cholesterol (low-density lipoprotein) will decrease. Once you've achieved this balance you will have less plaque build up in your arteries(4). All of these reasons are why cumming on a regular basis gives you a healthy ticker. But these aren't the only ways that your heart health will improve.

Over the years doctors have discovered that inflammation in your heart is a precursor to heart disease. In 2007 there was a study done at the Columbia University Medical Center by Richard P. Sloan, Ph. D. This study observed 46 adults, between the ages of twenty and forty-five, over the course of twelve weeks. Blood samples were taken from all of these participants and stimulated with lipopolysaccharide, an infectious agent. After the blood samples were stimulated they were tested for tumor necrosis factor, which precedes inflammation. Much lower amounts of tumor necrosis factor were found in the groups that had just completed aerobic exercise; both moderate and high intensity exercise groups. This study gives us the insight that moderate to high intensity aerobic exercise is able to cut off heart disease at the pass. Bringing yourself to climax, strenuously enough of course, will calm the inflammation of your heart(5). Apparently, both metaphorically and literally.

Scientific evidence has made it apparent that a healthy heart requires exercise, aerobic exercise seems to be particularly good for that. Enough aerobic exercise will grace you with a stronger heart, improved circulation, and a decrease in inflammation of your heart. Thereby making the chances of heart disease/heart attacks far less likely. Luckily for us sex and masturbation fall into the category of aerobic exercise. Despite the misconception that flinging out jizz increases the likelihood of a heart attack – that chance is statistically minuscule. By increasing the awareness that cumming is good for your heart the world will become a much healthier place. Go forth my fellow spunk monks and spread the word that your heart needs to cum.

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Learn All About The Urine Fetish

The sexuality of humans has many branches that reach out into the realm of fetishes. In the last few decades the 'golden shower' has become woven into pop culture. The golden shower is an aspect of the well known urine fetish, aka Urophilia. Although it is far from the main focus of this fetish. There are many ways that Urophiles are able to enjoy piss. It's common for people learning about Urophilia to get squeamish. This is most likely in part to the health risks related to playing around in the urine of other people, perceived or real. There are a few different theories related to how this fetish comes about. It is possible that Urophilia has roots in childhood or in your neural circuitry. Whatever the cause is... people sure are having fun with piss.

Details of Urophilia

There are a few different names for Urophilia: water sports, the golden arts, piss play, etc. Regardless of what you call it, Urophilia is when an individual gets sexual pleasure from engaging with urine. Urophiles relish in the smell of urine, the warmth of urine, the taste of urine, being urinated on, or urinating on other people. These fetishists can be aroused by the actual urine or they might connect water sports with intimacy and closeness. Still others are turned on by the humiliation that they feel when they're pissed on. Some women have reported their orgasms being more intense with a full bladder. This preference often leads to an emptying of the bladder during an orgasm(1). While Urophilia is one branch of sexuality, it has many branches itself.

When you're breaking down Urophilia into generalities there are three main facets of it. Firstly, the object of urine will act as the focus of the fetish. Secondly, urine is used to humiliate the person getting pissed on. Thirdly, the urine gets used for ceremonial purposes that arouse the Urophile. Beyond these three classifications there are many different kinds of acts that are used to satisfy Urophilia. Urolagnia is a subset of Urophilia, this is a desire to either pee your pants or watch people pee their pants. These Urophiles love to feel the warmth of piss to soak throughout their pants and underwear, followed by the chilly cold that results from the cooling piss - unless they love watching this happen to others. There is another subset of of Urophilia that matured in Japan, it is called Omoashi. Omoashi is when you force someone to hold their bladder until they are in dire need to unleash their pee. Aficionados of Omoashi get turned on by either doing this or watching those in bladder-distress. Yet another subset of Urophilia is Urophagia, this is the drinking of urine. Beyond these subsets with fancy, latin names, Urophiles also do things like bathe in urine or sniff piss soaked clothes(1). While this fetish, with all of its subsets, have wiggled into pop culture there are serious questions as to how wide spread it actually is.

Research on the Fetish

Golden showers have become a go-to sex joke in movies, T.V., and many other facets of pop culture. The number of times that we have heard about drinking piss or showering in pee, throughout entertainment, you might be tempted to think that every fifth or sixth person is a Urophile. While there is limited research on the frequency of Urophilia, the little we do have suggests it is rather infrequent when it comes to sexual habits. Jennifer Eve Rehor is a researcher that conducted a survey over the course of 2010 and 2011. She surveyed 1,764 people and got 1,580 valid responses on that survey. Rehor came to find that Urophilia was not a common occurrence. Rehor's survey reported that 36.52% of the participants reported engaging in piss play. Compared to the 93.99% of the subjects that reported getting spanked during sex or the 61.96% of the subjects that reported using feathers during sex. Rehor did state that she thought Urophilia goes under reported in our society because the fetishists don't seek help for it, they have very little reason to(1). The main reason they would have to reach out for help regarding their piss love is the minimal health concerns of ingesting urine.

Health Risks

Generally speaking, splashing urine around will leave you no worse for wear. However, it is important to note that urine is only guaranteed to be sterile if it comes from a healthy person. There are plenty of infections and viruses that could be transferred by ingesting urine or getting the infected pee in open wounds. Bacterial, fungal, and viral infections can live comfortably within urine. Therefore, if that infected piss gets into a cut it's likely that you'll be the proud new owner of a nasty infection. Hepatitis B can get bequeathed unto you through urine. Genital herpes can be granted to you as a bothersome gift by engaging in piss play with a sick partner. You can also pick up a brand new culture of Chlamydia or Gonorrhea in your throat after drinking sick piss. It is also possible to acquire the Cytomegalovirus, which gives its host a flu-like feeling, via drinking pee(1). These health risks do require responsible Urophiles to be careful and ensure that the metaphorical piss-cow they milk is a superb specimen. It would require a fair amount of effort. Yet, despite that effort and these health risks there is an entire population of fetishists that crave piss play. Many sexual researchers make the claim that this sexual craving begins in childhood.

Root Causes of Urophilia

Like many fetishes, it is entirely possible that Urophilia is due to behavioral conditioning in childhood. There are many cases of children being forced to hold in bodily waste, usually during school. Some of these children wind up using masturbation as a way to soothe the pain of a full bladder. If the children employ masturbation often enough in these circumstances they will eventually form an erotic connection to a full bladder. Once they have that erotic connection their fetish can grow from that point on(2). It isn't surprising that an erotic connection occur, even without using the analgesic effect of masturbation. The sex organs and urethra/bladder are so close to one another that it's inevitable that a certain percentage of kinksters would fetishize piss. There are also cases of children developing a conditioned response of sexual arousal to bladder tension or simply wetting themselves. However, it is important to note that holding in the urine and creating bladder tension has its own health risks. There is a point of no return when it comes to retaining piss where serious damage can occur. By holding your urine for too long you can develop a urinary tract infection, damage can be done to your kidneys, or over-extension of the bladder can occur. The signals between the brain, bladder, and bowels can also weaken by retaining bodily waste for too long(3). While behavioral conditioning in childhood is a popular theory for Urophilia there is another involving your neural activity.

In the 1980s there was a theory put forward by a sex researcher, named John Money, that one cause of Urophilia resides within the way our brains work. Chimpanzees, and other primates, clean their babies genitals of urine and feces using their snouts. Chimps slurp their baby's dick clean. Now, it isn't unthinkable that humans have the same neural pathways of other primates. We do share a common ancestor after all. John Money proposed that humans have that lingering neural pathway for infant hygiene within our brains. In other words, we might have areas of the brain that would lead some people to drink piss and eat shit. Those would be the brain regions that would get stimulated when engaging in Urophilia(4). Fetishes in general remain rather mysterious, so we can't say for certain the exact cause of Urophilia in any given person. However, it is curious if for no other reason than the disregard of the normal revulsion of bodily waste.

Conclusion

Everyone's sexuality is going to vary slightly. However, it's when that sexuality veers off into the unknown thicket of a fetish that it becomes intriguing. Particularly when that fetish focuses on an object that most people find disgusting, that is when we enter the world of Urophilia. Urophilia is a worshiping of piss that leads to sexual ecstasy. This fetish includes many different ways to involve urine with the act of fucking. You can feel it, taste it, smell it, or use it to humiliate. It is likely that Urophilia goes largely unreported. Most likely because playing around with piss doesn't pose a high health risk, there are some but urine is mostly sterile. Regardless of the root cause of a piss fetish, it is one of the more entertaining fetishes to watch.

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How To Use Orgasms As Sleep Aids

Sleep is an integral part of your body's maintenance. If you don't get enough of it you aren't going to function as well throughout the day. Sleep is also intimately connected to sex, one always effects the other. Having a healthy sex life will help you sleep more and sleeping more will give your sex drive a boost. Much of this is related to the chemicals that are released during sex. As well as the way that sleep rejuvenates the body. Also, the ways that both sex and sleep impact stress show how both activities benefit each other. Regardless of the reason that you zero in on, having an orgasm will send you off to meet the Sandman in Dreamland.

Relationship of Sleep & Sex

Sleep is a massive contributor to the strength of your sex drive. Without enough sleep your sex drive will nosedive. Unfortunately, a lack of sleep is burdening too many people in our busy world. Due to the fact that our world is so busy, stress is a common cause for lack of sleep. Luckily, there is a rather easy, and fun way, to reduce that stress. Having an orgasm. Whether through sex or masturbation an orgasm will lead a full frontal assault on the bundle of stress attacking your sanity. Orgasms are a very effective way of reducing stress and therefore a very effective way of getting some shut-eye. Some of the stress reduction is done by the chemicals released in your brain during an orgasm, but there are other factors involved. If you are in a relationship, and the orgasm is because of sex with your significant other, the strengthened sense of intimacy can reduce stress. The act of sex will lead to a stronger feeling of intimacy with your partner which leads to you being happier with the relationship. This then leads to a decrease in stress because of the increase in happiness(1). However, this is only one factor in the stress release caused by an orgasm. There is also the surge of brain chemistry to contend with.

Brain Chemistry of Sex

When you have an orgasm, regardless of whether it's through sex or masturbation, you will ride a wave of chemicals released into your brain. These chemicals are the ones responsible for the feeling of relaxation and ecstasy. The same chemicals can also lull you into a deep slumber. Two of those chemicals are the endorphins and vasporessin, both of which aid in sleep. Endorphins act like natural pain killers. They give you a very pleasant feeling while mildly sedating you. That mild sedation will help you pass through the gates of Dreamland much faster than usual. Vasporessin will also help you in your journey into the land of dreams. Vasporessin directly counteracts cortisol, the stress hormone. This counteraction leads to a drop in stress. Combine that drop in stress with the relaxation brought about by the endorphins and you will feel a lower heart rate. This lowering of your heart rate will bring about sleep(2). The ways that cumming will aid your sleep doesn't stop here. Your body chemistry is altered just enough during an orgasm to give you a good night's sleep.

Women v. Men

Plenty of hormones are released into your body during an orgasm. These chemicals relax your body thereby assisting you into a deep state of slumber. Of course these chemicals are slightly different for men and women, none the less both sexes receive the same result. Women receive a significant spike in estrogen during an orgasm. This surge in estrogen enhances their REM cycle while asleep, making for a deeper sleep. Men experience a boost of prolactin when they have an orgasm. Prolactin leads them to feel fatigued. In addition to these chemical reactions, both sexes experience the physical exertion it takes to reach an orgasm. This only leads to better sleeping experience. If that orgasm is reached during sex the participants will also have their glycogen depleted. Glycogen produces energy for the body to use, that being the case when it is depleted you will feel a sudden drop in energy(3). Combine all of these factors together and you will have a recipe for night after night of deep sleep.

Conclusion

The change in brain chemistry, the slight psychological shift, and physical exertion due to an orgasm all compound into deep sleep. It's because of all these factors that rubbing one out will send you drifting into the arms of the Sandman. By arming yourself with this knowledge you will be able to waltz into a healthier, happier, and more relaxed life. In order to guarantee that you will get these results quickly and easily you can employ the use of sex toys. Use a vibrator or masturbation sleeve to get a quick orgasm, without foreplay, and leap through the gates of Dreamland. A butt plug will become your key to the deepest of sleep, you will be able to sink down into a refreshing dreamscape. Arm yourself with this orgasmic knowledge and storm the walls of slumber.

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Learn All About The Lactation Fetish

Human sexuality is an incredibly wide spectrum and it seems like we keep adding to. If you can imagine a subject then there's probably a fetish related for it. Sexuality fascinates me to no end. The more I entertain this fascination the more I discover, which keeps fueling the fascination. It's a never ending loop of information. I recently went on another foray into this loop while reading up on the lactation fetish. I had never realized that there were so many dedicated Lactophiles in the world. Until I started learning about this fetish I hadn't realized that the sight of milk dripping from a full breast into the mouth of a lucky man could drive people wild. My eyes have been opened to a brave new world.

Lactophilia

There are people, across the globe (mostly on the internet), hypnotized by the sight of lactating breasts. These people are known as Lactophiles and they have a lactation fetish. Just as human sexuality is a wide spectrum, each fetish has a kind of spectrum. Lactophilia can involve many activities revolving around lactating women. Lactophiles will get sexual pleasure by watching women lactate, suckling milk from a lactating woman, or having sex with a lactating woman. The lady's lactation can be enhanced, though not always, by pregnancy. While Lactophilia is often a stand alone fetish, it can be an extension of other fetishes. It might branch off from something like infantilism(1). When this fetish is solitary within the fetishist it is rather common for them to form relationships that include breastfeeding.

Adult Nursing Relationship

Like every other fetishist, a Lactophile will often build a relationship that includes their sexual interest. The more hardcore of the lactation fetishists will enter into a Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR). This is a relationship where the man will routinely breastfeed from the lactating lady. In order for the relationship to be considered an ANR, the breastfeeding has to be a regular occurrence. If it isn't then the woman will stop lactating. Sometimes the breastfeeding will even get to the point of replacing ordinary sex. Suckling milk from your loved one's breast is an unexpectedly intimate act. By satisfying the sexual desires, with an act that is usually dedicated to the nourishment of a life, a stabilizing effect is provided to the relationship. A similar effect is given through traditional sex with non-fetishists. In certain cases the lactating woman will get sexual pleasure from the nipple stimulation, she might even be able to reach orgasm from it. Thereby giving sexual satisfaction to both parties in an ANR. It has even been reported that some women feel more feminine while they're breast feeding. It's because of that feeling that some women would find the idea of an ANR appealing(1). While many Lactophiles would find the idea of an ANR intriguing, they first need a sexual partner that is lactating.

Lactation

Lactation is the process by which women produce milk from their breasts. This process typically occurs in order to feed an infant. However, it can be used to satiate the sexual cravings of adults as well. Lactation will occur during the fourth month of pregnancy. This process of milk production can be extended beyond pregnancy simply by suckling the milk out. Hence, how so many women found work as wet nurses in years gone by. While pregnancy will kick start lactation, it isn't the only method. It's possible for a woman to induce lactation herself. What actually causes a woman to enter into the cycle of milk production is a build up of the hormone prolactin. Prolactin is the actual trigger for lactation, it just so happens to get produced during pregnancy (for obvious reasons). Once prolactin begins production regular suckling will maintain that production, this suckling can be done by a sexual partner. If breastfeeding is brought into a sexual context it becomes incredibly intimate. This intimacy is due to how vulnerable the woman is while breastfeeding. Breastfeeding a sex partner requires a deep bond of trust and affection. Most people will become uncomfortable while undergoing this act either because of the incredible intimacy or the connection breastfeeding has to nursing babies(2). However, if you want to take part in sexual breastfeeding it can be done without pregnancy.

Starting Lactation

In the context of a lactation fetish, some people have been able to induce lactation. There are several tutorials online that outline how to do this. Theoretically speaking, all a woman would need to do is induce the production of prolactin in her body. According to kinky.com this process can be forced into being by putting psychological support into place along with a physical breast feeding schedule. When a woman wants to jump-start lactation, without pregnancy, she should imitate the nursing of a baby on a regular basis. She needs to increase the sensitivity of her nipples for the majority of the day, without treading into the land of pain. However, before starting the physical process the woman seeking lactation needs to set up the right frame of mind. The main part of that frame of mind is that she needs to want to be lactating. Another part of setting up the right head space is for her to wear a breast feeding bra; this bra leaves the nipple exposed for easy access. This woman, who's chasing lactation, also needs to pay extra attention to her nipples. Such as washing her nipples on a regular basis(3). Once the right state of mind has been setup you begin performing the physical regiment.

Once a woman, who wants to lactate, has set up the right frame of mind her sexual partner has a part to play. This woman's nipples need to be stimulated in the same way that they would be during breastfeeding. Her nipples need to be suckled and pulled on a regular schedule. The most efficient way might be to use a breast pump as well as the sex partners mouth. The tutorial on kinky.com suggests that the couple desiring lactation should setup a routine in which the woman's nipples are attached to the pump for five-ten minutes a day. Followed by five-ten minutes of suckling on that breast. Eventually, perhaps weeks or months of this schedule, the nipple will produce milk(3). Thereby satisfying the Lactation fetish that the couple shares. This couple will also be entering into the incredibly intimate ANR without any pregnancy.

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Sex In Old Age

Whether it's from old jokes, or stereotypes, many people think that their sex life will go down the drain as they grow old. However, due to recent reports it's becoming apparent that that's not the case. More and more senior citizens are having fulfilling sex. This could be because of people's desires changing as they age or modern medicine maintaining their virility. Generally healthier living also plays a huge role in extending your sex life. More and more senior citizens are living in a way that not only extends their life, but their sex life as well. These things will affect men and women differently, but the results are the same. Sex lives are getting extended well into old age.

Once upon a time, it was true that your sex drive would fizzle as your hair grew white. That has been getting reversed since the 1970s, the number of sexually satisfied senior citizens has been growing since that era. It may be true that the sexual frequency of older folks might slow down but that doesn't necessarily have an impact on their satisfaction. There was a survey conducted in 2012 where half of women interviewed, over eighty years old, were cumming at similar rates of younger women. This could be due to a few factors. For one, older people have more time and privacy as they move into retirement. There are also more elderly people that have grown up in an age where sex is less taboo. This leads to those elderly folk being more sexually confident. It is also the case that as the world has moved into the modern era treatments have developed for conditions that would otherwise kill sex lives. Conditions such as erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness(1). The physical aging process might change sex, but it will not kill it.

The process of aging knocks everyone for a loop, the body drastically changes. As men grow old there are plenty of factors that change which can effect how they have sex. Including a drop in testosterone and a loss of muscle tension. Once men reach adulthood their bodies start to produce less testosterone. However, when men are closer to death there is a significant drop in testosterone. This dip in testosterone is one of the factors that made it harder to get, and keep, erections. Even when older men are able to keep their hard dick it will be softer, that's because of a general loss in muscle tension. These are not the only changes that men will face in old age. It's going to take longer to reach orgasm and those orgasms will not be intense, but they will still be glorious. There's also going to be a decline in the volume and pressure of the cum that gets shot across the bed sheets. Older gentlemen will also take longer to recover from their orgasms(2). This all leads to a less frequent, but very satisfying, aged sex life. Changes like these also occur in women.

Many of the ways that aging changes men are similar for women. When women move towards being an older lady their genitals change, kind of like men's do. Older women have less swelling, because of arousal, in their vagina. This is due to less blood flowing into their vaginas. Women also lose the natural lubrication that they had as a young lady. This often means that women of a certain age will need more stimulation (ie. longer foreplay) accompanied by lube. Unfortunately, in their old age women also have weaker muscle contractions, this leads to less intense orgasms. However, the muscle contractions can be strengthened with kegel exercises. All of these factors generally add up to less frequent orgasms. While there are ways, such as the kegel exercises and lubricants, to combat the effects of aging on sex. An essential way is to live a generally healthy lifestyle. This benefits both genders. By eating a healthy diet and regularly exercising men and women will be able to stave off the perils of aging(2). There is evidence that a women's sexual desires also change as they age, along with their bodies.

There is research that suggests that women's sexual desires change more than men's do. The research states that older women derive more satisfaction from the physical and emotional closeness they have with their sex partner. A study published in The American Journal of Medicine showed evidence that women of an advanced age could actually get sexual satisfaction from simply caressing a long term partner. Also, research conducted by Dr. Elizabeth Barrett-Connor suggests that half of the women over eighty years old still report orgasms and arousal most of the times that they have sex. However, these women don't report desiring sex nearly as often as younger women do. These findings suggest that, for eighty year old women, sex becomes a kind of maintenance for their relationship. They get their emotional needs met by having sex, more so than their physical needs. It would seem that strengthening an emotional bond is more important than an orgasm beyond the age of eighty(3). The general consensus is that men care more about sex than women. This extends into old age. Your grandpa has a higher sexual desire than your grandma; they both cum but grandpa wants it more. There's something called the Sexually Active Life Expectancy (SALE), this predicts when an individual will lose their sexual desire. Men's SALE ends ten years before their life expectancy. Women's SALE ends twenty years before their life expectancy(4).

Judging by all of this evidence, the human sex life is much longer than it used to be. Thanks to modern medicine and healthy living men and women are having sex into their eighties. Health conditions aren't as limiting against sex. You have the ability to adapt to the human aging process and keep humping. It will be less intense, but just as rewarding. While the reasons for sex might change, depending on your gender, you don't stop having orgasms until your at the brink of death. Your sex life will not die, it'll just change.

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How Sex Leads to a Better Brain

Stimulating your brain is of the utmost importance when you want to keep your brain healthy. It's most common to use exercise and brain teasers for brain stimulation. Brain teasers will engage your problem solving skills and exercise will increase blood flow within you brain. That increase in blood flow will aid the brain in operating at a higher level. However exercise isn't the only option for increasing your brain's blood flow... cumming works too. The orgasm's effects on the brain have been tracked by a few different studies. All of the studies have come to the conclusion that cumming will stimulate your brain.

One of these studies was done by a Professor named Barry Komisaruk at Rutgers University. Professor Komisaruk put women through an fMRI while they were masturbating. Professor Komisaruk noted that 30 different regions of the brain were stimulated during masturbation. Komisaruk also had these women imagine touching their vaginas and clitorises to compare to the actual stimulation. He found that even when the women were merely thinking about masturbating the corresponding regions of their brains would still light up. Except, there was a higher level of stimulation in the prefrontal cortex when masturbation was imagined. Also, the blood flow was less when the masturbation was imagined(1). A researcher in the Netherlands did a similar experiment from a different angle.

A researcher at the University of Groningen, in the Netherlands, put women through a brain scan while their partners were pleasuring them. This researcher was Janniko Georgiadis. Unlike Komisaruk, Georgiadis found that there was significantly less activity in the prefrontal cortex when the women were being stimulated by others. Meaning that different parts of the brain will be stimulated by sex rather by masturbation. Regardless of the sex act, both researchers found that orgasms increase brain activity and blood flow into the brain(1). Both experiments found that the increase in blood flow to the brain, when cumming, affects the entire brain. Where as the increase in blood flow is more localized to specific regions when doing exercise. Since the increased blood flow is brain-wide during an orgasm more nutrients and oxygen is delivered to the entire brain when compared to exercise(2). Leading to better brain performance due to cumming.

There have been several studies done that confirm that an increase in blood flow actually improves how your brain performs. Studies done on rats and monkeys show that the additional blood flow from aerobic exercise improved the performance of the brains of these monkeys and rats. After the exercise the rats and monkeys became faster at learning, were able to remember more, and healed form brain injuries at a faster rate. The monkeys, specifically, performed much better at the first test after the exercise. Based on other tests it is logical to think that humans would get similar results to monkeys(3). The results of these tests show us that improved blood flow, of any kind, leads to a better performing brain.

The results of improved blood flow in the brain are rather drastic. Such results are not only seen in the behavior of test subjects. We can also see results in the physiology of the subjects. By simply increasing the blood flow into your brain you are delivering more nutrients and oxygen to your brain than it would normally get. That extra oxygen and nutrients lead to your brain operating better. The medical community has even taken note of how increasing blood flow in your brain affects you. Increased blood flow has been seen to prevent shrinking of the Hippocampus, which normally occurs as you age. By stopping the shrinking that takes place in the Hippocampus, in adulthood, you will improve your memory. This is also shown in students. Students who get more blood flowing into their brain, via exercise, get better grades on tests(4). Now, let us remember that the increased blood flow from exercise is more localized whereas the increased blood flow from an orgasm is brain-wide(2). By combining this knowledge together you can see that regular orgasms are extremely important in keeping your brain in tip-top shape.

It cannot be argued that regular orgasms are an important part of your health. From these studies we have been shown that in order to keep your brain activity at a premium level you need some way to increase the level of blood flow in your brain. While, the exercise might be a common way to do it, it does have limitations. That blood flow is not brain-wide, whereas the extra blood flow created with an orgasm is. In addition to the blood flow, different brain regions are activated during sex acts. Further engaging your brain by forcing it to work. Logic dictates that the most effective way to increase your brain's performance would be by combining regular exercise with cumming as often as possible. The more blood flow your brain gets the better.

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Toy Review: Anal Glide Lube

Hello everyone, this is Will Addams again. I am here to write about my experience with Anal Glide Lube. This lube is fairly distinct among the array of other lubes. It has a particular look and feel to it. Anal Glide also has an interesting lack of qualities when it comes to smell and taste. I went a little bit further than usual in this report and began to experiment with Anal Glide in regards to its tackiness, washability, and heat resistance. For these tests I used the 4.74 ounce pump container of Anal Glide Lube. I have come to the conclusion that Anal Glide Lube is a specialty lube, it should only be used for a few activities, but works incredibly well for those purposes.

Sight, Smell & Taste of the Lube

Anal Glide Lube is an oil based lube and it demonstrates the characteristics of that formula. Anal Glide's appearance is similar to Vaseline. It is thick, has an opaque white color, and has a solid state unlike water or silicone based lubes. Although, Anal Glide has some advantages over Vaseline. It does not have any smell, or taste, to it. I unscrewed the top and brought my nose a inch from the lube. Even though it was that close to my nose I could not detect any smell. I then dabbed a bit of Anal Glide on my finger and placed that dab on my tongue. There was no taste to it, just an oily residue left on my tongue. I then moved on to the next phase of experimentation.

Washability, Tackiness, & Heat Resistance

I approached this report as if it were a science experiment and I wanted to see how the Anal Glide Lube would hold up against different stages of washing and heat. I also wanted to see how tacky the lube was. I squirted a dollop of lube onto my hand and mashed between my fingers and on my palm. I wanted to make sure that it was spread across my entire hand. This was meant to mimic the aftermath of masturbation or sexual activity. I then went to wash it off with just water. I placed my hand under warm water. Warm water knocked some if the lube off, but the majority of it remained on my hand. Plain water will not remove this lube. I proceeded to rub my wet hands with soap and placed them back under warm water. This removed most of the Anal Glide Lube. Although, there was still an oily residue after washing with soap and rinsing with water. This residue was removed when I toweled my hands dry. The next phase of my check list was the tackiness of the lube.

When I was spreading Anal Glide Lube across my hand and mashing it between my fingers I could feel that it was not tacky in terms of stickiness. It gives a very smooth gliding feeling. I then placed a squirt of lube on my finger tip, held it upside down and started my stopwatch. The Anal Glide Lube stayed in place, while upside down, for eight minutes. It did not slide, droop, or lose its initial form. Therefore, I would say that it is tacky in the sense that it will remain on the surface that is placed onto. The next phase of evaluation was how heat resistant Anal Glide is.

I was rather interested to see how well Anal Glide Lube would stand up to heat. I placed a quarter sized dollop into a microwavable dish and then placed that dish into the microwave. The lube lasts until the forty-five second mark when the microwave is on high power. Once the lube has undergone forty-five seconds of heat it begins to liquefy. This means that when Anal Glide is exposed to body heat, during masturbation or sex, it will become a liquid. Therefore, leading to a more velvety smooth sensation.

Formula of the Lube

The very oil based formula of Anal Glide Lube restricts it from certain uses. Oil based lubes should not be used for sex with condoms, used with sex toys, or used for vaginal sex. Oil based lubes can deteriorate the integrity of condoms and sex toys. You should avoid pairing oil based lubes with condoms and toys, unless the condom/toy explicitly says it is resistant to oil based lubes. Oil based lubes should also be avoided in vaginal sex as it is much harder for the vagina to clean out oils. This could lead to painful vaginal irritation. The activities that Anal Glide Lube is best suited for are masturbation, handjobs, and unprotected anal sex. Anal Glide Lube works incredibly well for these activities because it does not dry out, does not need to be reapplied, and resists moisture. This is why I called Anal Glide a specialty lube earlier. It is designed for specialized purposes. I decided to approach one of these purposes from a first hand point of view.

My Conclusion of the Lube

As part of this report I decided to use Anal Glide Lube for masturbation. From the pump container I got one pump of lube, this should be more than enough for any activity. That gave me a quarter sized dollop of lube. I mashed this up in my hand and began stroking my penis. Anal Glide lube gives you a sensation of zero friction when there is skin on skin. There is no resistance to speak of between your hand and penis. Your body heat will also warm up the lube to the point of liquefication. This causes the lube to heat up slightly, giving you a mild warming effect during masturbation. Now, the true test would be if Anal Glide Lube would be effective on the calluses on my hands. To my surprise, I couldn't feel any hint of a callus. My hand glided over my penis with zero friction and a slight warming effect. This all lead to a fantastic masturbatory experience. I would recommend Anal Glide Lube to anyone. While this lube is not suitable for every act, it performs amazingly well in the handful of activities that it is meant for.

-Will Addams, Quality Control Officer.

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A Big O = Small Pain

People have always known that sex is a tremendous source of pleasure. We all use sex as a way to emotionally bond with partners, to entertain ourselves, to kill time, allay sadness, and to feel ecstatic. However, an orgasm has another benefit – it will alleviate pain. By having an orgasm you will feel less physical pain. The more intense the orgasm the greater relief that you will get. This pain relief could happen due to a few reasons such as the hormones released during sex and the regions of the brain that are activated. A simple orgasm is a potent, easy, and free therapeutic tool that everyone on the planet has access to. Relief is in the palm of your hand.

Over the generations sitcoms have popularized having a headache as a way to get out of sex. However, there's a lot of evidence suggesting that an orgasm would relieve the pain of a headache. A study was published in Cephalalgia: An International Journal of Headache that investigated how effective orgasms were at alleviating this pain. This study was done with anonymous questionnaires in 2013. The subjects were from two groups, migraines and cluster headaches. There were 306 people in the migraine group and 96 people in the cluster headache group, 402 in total. The sex ratio in the two groups was inverted, but other than that there were no significant differences. These two groups of patients tend to behave differently, migraine patients retreat for rest and cluster headache patients get restless. However, orgasms seem to treat both maladies(1).

For those suffering from cluster headaches or migraines an orgasm will most likely give you some relief. According to this study, published in Cephalalgia, the orgasm is the important part of the equation. The type of intercourse which produces the orgasm is completely irrelevant. It could be any sexual position or masturbation. You will still get the pain relief, this relief isn't uniform though. Of the subjects in this study the majority of them reported getting pain relief from cumming. Out of those that reported relief 43% reported feeling relief shortly after climax. 17.7% of those subjects reported feeling relief at the precise moment of orgasm. 20.3% felt relief at the beginning of their sexual experience. While another 20.3% got the relief 30 minutes after their orgasms; the cluster headache group had similar results. Cumming is an effective enough method of pain relief that 36.4% of the men in the migraine group regularly use it therapeutically, while 13.7% of the women did the same thing. In the cluster headache group 30% of the men orgasm for relief, but none of the women in that group did(1). The potency of orgasmic-pain-relief is not relegated to just headaches, but all pain.

Thanks to cheesy sitcoms, headaches and sex have been permanently linked. Even though an orgasm will soothe a cornucopia of maladies. Such as muscle cramps, including PMS cramps. For many years it has been known that frequent orgasms will soothe your cramps during menstruation. This is most likely due to the hormones that are released during your orgasm. Combined with an increase in blood flow and the muscle contractions that take place during your orgasm. It's also important to note that the more intense your orgasm is the more pain relief you will feel(2). This amazing medicine, created within your body, is the result of many factors. These factors include brain activity and hormones.

Plenty of the hormones that are released during an orgasm benefit us. Whether it's seratonin, dopamine, or oxytocin. We benefit from all of these hormones in one way or another. Oxytocin, in particular, has an incredible analgesic effect. Oxytocin has been used as a salve for chronic pain among patients suffering from fibromyalgia, PTSD, and even something as banal as a headache. It is thought that oxytocin relieves pain because it fits into the same brain receptors that are active during pain. Oxytocin also plugs into opiate receptors in your brain, which may play a part in this pain relief. One of the more renowned researchers that have looked into this is Beverly Whipple, a professor at Rutgers University. Professor Whipple has found that during masturbation women's pain threshold increases by 74.6% and their pain tolerance increases by 106.7%(3). By combining these findings with the way your brain is engaged during an orgasm it becomes clear how an orgasm dampens pain.

Brain activity combines with the hormone activity of an orgasm to provide you with a very pleasant feeling of pain relief. An experiment was conducted at Rutgers University by Barry Komisaruk to discover more about this brain activity. Barry Komisaruk found nine women that wanted to get connected to an fMRI while masturbating. He found that during the female orgasm 30 areas of the brain get activated, including regions that activate during pain. Komisaruk found that two of the areas that activate are the cingulate cortex and the insula. Both of these areas activate during pain and intense pleasure, this most likely has something to do with the pain relief of orgasms(4). This knowledge will allow you to make your life more comfortable and less painful, you'll also have so much fun doing it.

The knowledge that orgasms can alleviate your pain is incredibly valuable to anyone and everyone. When you begin to implement this nugget of wisdom in your life you will become more comfortable, feel more pleasant and life will be easier. Also, you will have a lot of fun putting this factoid into practice. Who doesn't love to cum? It also pays to keep in mind that the more intense the orgasm you have the more pain relief you will feel(2). This is where we can begin to view sex toys as therapeutic devices. The entire purpose of sex toys is to bring you to orgasm faster, with more ease, and to intensify that orgasm. When you combine that fact with the fact that orgasms provide relief from pain you will come to one crucial conclusion. Sex toys will provide you with pain relief faster, with more ease, and intensify that pain relief. The choice of which toy to use will entirely depend on what works for your body. If you get better orgasms from vaginal stimulation then perhaps the Ripple Rabbit or the Sultry would soothe your wounds better. If you prefer clitoral stimulation then you should look at trying the Sweetie Rabbit or the Wanachi Mini-Multi to ease your aches. If you're a man then the Vivid Pussy Fuck or the Palm Pal: Ass should be just what the doctor ordered. Perhaps anal stimulation gives you a better orgasm. If you are in pain an orgasm a day would, very likely, make life easier and more pleasant. Why not give it a try?

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Toy Review: Enter the Aquarious Frog

Hi guys and gals. My name is Megan Christian and I am one of the Quality Control Officers at Manic Love Co. I believe I got introduced in my friend's, Will Addams, post last week. I am reporting on a clitoral vibrator that we have at Manic Love Co., the Aquarious Frog Vibrator. This cute little guy quickly became a favorite of mine. This amazing vibrator is sure to light up your day and improve your orgasms.

The Design of The Toy

The Aquarious Frog Vibrator is a massage wand style of vibrator with a unique twist. It's modeled after a fun cartoon frog. The massage wand's head is the head of an adorable frog, a la Kermit. The Aquarious Frog Vibrator is mostly lime green silicone with a silver plastic control panel. On that control panel you have a power button and then a button to cycle through the ten orgasmic vibration settings. The Aquarious Frog Vibrator charges with a USB cable that's included with the toy, that's because this toy doesn't run off batteries. The Aquarious Frog Vibrator is a rechargeable toy. Now you can take this one of two ways; a blessing or a curse. The blessing is that you never have to buy batteries for this vibrator while the curse is that you need a USB port to plug it into. I wound up charging it on the wall outlet with an iPod adapter. You will also have to charge this little guy up before using him. Once he is all charged you'll be sent rocketing right into mind blowing orgasms.

The Aquarious Frog Vibrator has ten different vibration settings. None of which are loud, this is a really quiet vibrator. The first three settings are really just different intensities of constant vibration. The first setting is the mildest and the third is the strongest. Settings four to six are similar too. These settings are bursts of vibration with pauses in between those bursts. As you go through settings four to six you'll see that the fourth setting has the shortest bursts and the longest pauses while setting six has the longest bursts with the shortest pauses. When you're sampling the different vibration settings you'll begin to see that once you go past setting six you'll discover really rhythmic settings. Setting seven is one short burst with three rapid fire bursts and one long pulse. Setting eight is a rapid fire series of short pulses. Setting nine is very long vibrations with a pause of maybe a second in between. By the way, all of these settings are incredibly powerful. You're going to feel the vibrations in your hand and wrist. This frog may be cute but he packs a punch, which is part of how he will improve your orgasms.

As I said before, the Aquarious Frog Vibrator is a made of silicone and this silicone is medical grade. It glides across the skin with the smoothness of silk, no lube needed. It does have a incredibly faint smell to it, but you'll only notice it if the toy is being held up to your nose. I did have it up to my nose to see what it smelt like; it reminds me of the smell of medical tubing (for IV bags). Which would make sense because I think they're made of the same thing... silicone. The Aquarious Frog Vibrator has an arch to it, it angles where the handle meets the cute frog head. This arch fits really comfortably into the curve of your pelvis. Making for a super comfy play time that will light up your day.

My Experience With The Toy

I'm the kind of girl that needs to set the mood for my vibrator sessions. I dimmed the lights in my bedroom, put on some really nice music (Metric – Help I'm Alive), and clicked on the hum of the Aquarious Frog Vibrator. I ran through the different settings sampling each one and looking for the best one for me. I sampled each setting twice before I began rotating between the seventh and eighth one. I really enjoyed those two, but the one I finished on was setting three... it was my favorite.

As I sampled all of the settings I gently moved the Aquarious Frog Vibrator all over my vagina and just let myself simmer in the hum. I held the Aquarious Frog pleasure toy face down on myself so that it followed the curve of my pelvis. As I felt my juices pumping and the energy building inside me I started focusing the vibrator on my clit. This is when I switched to settings seven and eight. I began to move the Aquarious Frog pleasure toy in a circular motion and the humming of the vibrator moved into my stomach and hips; it was like a fluttering sensation. My legs were writhing in the sheets. Soon, I started to grind my hips into the vibrator. Moans were escaping my lips as the building energy peaked inside me. To tip myself over the edge, I moved to setting three and my pussy exploded in pleasure. The blood rushed to my head, my vagina pulsated with enjoyment, and my knees went weak. But, I kept wiggling the head of the Aquarious Frog pleasure toy on myself. The orgasms came in waves followed by moaning and more weak knees. As the orgasmic waves ebbed away I clicked the Aquarious Frog vibrator off. The time I spent with this adorable frog left me with a racing heart, a sheen of sweat, and short of breath... I loved it.

My Conclusion About The Toy

The Aquarious Frog Vibrator is an amazing silent vibrator. It has intense power combined with a bunch of rhythmic vibrations. The Aquarious Frog pleasure toy is also made of incredibly high grade materials. It's silicone is really comfortable, super hygienic, and hypoallergenic. Not only that, but it has a novel design as the cherry on top of the sundae. This design doesn't shout to everyone, “Hey everybody, I'm a sex toy! She uses me to cum!” Which is a nice change for a vibrator. But, the Aquarious Frog's design still gives off the vibe of being cute and fun, which is always a bonus for sex. This amazing vibrator is sure to light up your day and improve your orgasms. The Aquarious Frog Vibrator's main draw back is that it needs a USB port to recharge. This means that you either need to plug it into your computer or find an adapter (remember, an iPod one will work). Luckily, if you plug it into your computer the design doesn't announce to everyone that it's a sex toy right away. The Aquarious Frog is a high quality and awesome sex toy.

-Megan Christian, Quality Control Officer