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On A High Fantasy
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may 2020 bring healing. may 2020 bring peace. may 2020 bring kindness.
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date a boy who gives you lots of hugs and forehead kisses when you're feeling down
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For those who are scared to cut their hair
I’m posting this because I remember that there was a time when I would’ve really needed a post like this but I couldn’t find any so here it is if someone needs it
So you’ve been thinking about cutting your hair. Great do it. Don’t let your doubts win.
Almost a year ago I chopped my butt-crack-long hair into a barely-touching-my-shoulders length…honestly probably one of the best decisions of my life. You guys know how long I thought about doing?(no you guys don’t) Around 3-3.5 years…yeah a long time.
For 3 years I let my doubts win each time. “What were those doubts?” you might ask.
Well let me tell you:-The only thing I ever got compliments on was my hair nothing else, really nothing else. I felt like the only pretty thing about me was my hair, I was scared that if I get rid of most of it people would think that I’m the ugliest thing in the entire world…
-My mom always told me to cut it for like 6 years before I eventually did…after a while it became a “I’m not going to cut it just because you’re telling me to do so” so like after a while even tho’ I wanted to do it I didn’t because my mom kept telling me to do it and I didn’t want to do what she said
-I also have kind of a problem expressing things I want…I’m really bad at telling my mom that I want some nailpolish, or idk anything let alone that I want to chop my hair (although this most likely doesn’t apply to a lot of people)
-I felt like my hair was ME, the thing people knew me for
-And the last…I always ALWAYS tried to hide behind my hair…I always hated the way my stomach, or arms, or shoulders looked, I always felt like I was fat, I hated how my face looked and I always tried to hide these things anyway I possibly could
Y’all I hated myself so much…
But almost a year ago I hit my all-time low…I cried every single day, I couldn’t do my best in school and I wasn’t the friend I should’ve been, I wanted to let go of things. Things that reminded me about all the shitty things. I felt like if I try to channel everything bad to the end of my hair mentally and get rid of it (as ridiculous as it sounds)
And that’ what I did and it kind of worked (again, as ridiculous as it sounds) and guess what, it turned out the complete opposite of what I thought:
-I got showered in compliments
-A lot of people told me that they didn’t even notice because it looked so natural, like my hair has always been that length
-I feel more mature (and I kind of look more mature too)
-I became somewhat confident…for the first time in god knows how long (probably the first time in around 10-11 years)
-I became so much happier, and more upbeat
-also at that time I went to a therapist once a week because of things and even he told me that this made a difference, that he see so much improvement (he is also a teacher of mine in school so he saw me quite a lot)
-the weirdest of all I kind of started to feel like my true self for the first time in my life
-even weirder, for the first time ever I started to find things I could love about myself, I started to have self-love…something I’ve been struggling with for I don’t even know how long…
I’m sorry I rambled a lot but now you see what a simple chop-chop can do…
And if you’re scared that you might not suit it…listen, hair really does grow back, just don’t worry about it, I believe that everybody can make every hairstyle work…(but if you have already cut your hair and you still don’t believe it I can compliment the heck out of you if you want me to (I can give compliments to anybody who needs it tho’ you don’t need to cut your hair to receive a compliment so if you want it I’m here))
So in conclusion, do it if you want to, it’s worth it, don’t let fear or doubt win
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reblog if ur bi, ur not biphobic, or ur best friend is a beautiful valid bisexual
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Reblog if you’re reading KOTLC as a teen or older
And you’ll keep reading it till the end of the series
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Reblog if you're in the kotlc fandom
I wanna see how many of us there are
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Every girl has had the experience where a creepy guy asks for our number and we don’t want to give it to him, but we also don’t want to get gutted in a back alley. “Give him a fake number!” I hear you call, okay and then he says “okay let me call you real quick!” Because they are learning. “Give them your number and then block them!” Okay and then they can plug it into something like Spokeo, pay $10 and know everything about you. So what do you do?
First pick a fake name, I use Jessica, then download the Google Voice app, hook it up to your email, pick a number, and set up a fake greeting with your fake name. You can set it to ring your actual phone like a normal call or text but they don’t have real info on you.
Go forth and don’t get murdered, ladies!
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so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god
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The feeling of not belonging
I don't think I have ever felt like I belong to anywhere in my life. And I don't mean like 'friend group' vise.
I have never felt like I belong to the place I was born at. The very first time I said I wanted to live abroad was when I was a little girl (so like 4-5 years old). I probably didn't even fully know what "abroad" ment but I wanted to be there.
I never wanted to live in my home country. This place has never felt like home to me. I never saw a future for myself in here...I still don't.
My "dream home location" changed a lot over the years. I am at a point in my life where I would be anywhere else but here.
But here I am wanting this but having no idea how to make it happen. It seems like there is no way out of here. I hate this feeling.
I just want out.
I have no idea where I belong but I know this isn't that place.
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why would i fuck a demon? simple, the status. imagine rolling up into hell already havin had ur back blown out by one of their own. imagine you and a gang of other losers standin at the gates of hell, they’re all crying, scared to death about having a pitchfork up their ass for eternity and you just walk into the arms of your sugar demon? legendary.
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Dear friends of Tumblr,
Today at my school we had an assembly about internet predators and when I had said that most of my true friends are over the internet and they gave me a lecture about how “I don’t know who I’m talking to” blah blah. So please, if you aren’t a predator in any way, please reblog so i can prove a point.
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I want to chill but I also want to learn 5 languages
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reblog if u stan
- moon taeil
- johnny suh
- lee taeyong
- nakamoto yuta
- qian kun
- kim doyoung
- ten chittaphon leechaiyapornkul
- jung jaehyun
- dong sicheng
- kim jungwoo
- wong yukhei
- mark lee
- huang renjun
- lee jeno
- lee donghyuck
- na jaemin
- zhong chenle
- park jisung
- nct
- nct 2018
- nct 127
- nct dream
- nct u
- nct china
- neo culture technology
so i can follow u
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are there any hyuck stans left 🥺 it feels like some left after he showed up a lil chubby 🥺 pls rb this if ur still a hyuck stan 😔
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REBLOG IF
Your ask box is 24/7 available for those who feel sad or need a friendly advice
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