are you the gay who can drive or the gay who can cook

I know the post is old but I just want to say I saw your old post about how queer spaces hate masculinity, which I agree with, but would also like to point out that they hate masculinity UNLESS it's a butch lesbian. Then suddenly it's "empowering" and "brave". (Nothing against butch lesbians tho just an example) It seems like the only people who are allowed to show any form of masculine traits are those who are already assigned femininity by default. It's as if people who identify as woman are seen as a sort of safe preset that can be altered and changed so long as they still call themselves woman. But as SOON as someone tries to distance themselves from wanting to be a woman there's a weird flip that makes people turn on us. As if NOT being any form of woman is somehow "wrong". Idk just my thoughts

I mean, not really. It's like that meme about 'this is the butchest woman twitter can handle' and it's just Taylor Swift in a flannel.

I've seen plenty of butch women talk about being ostracized from queer spaces for being too masculine or being masculine in the wrong way. Especially butch trans women and butch women of color.

Like, I get where you're coming from, and I've seen that too, but it's very much a situation where masculinity is tolerated as long as it's 'non-threatening' and what's considered 'non-threatening' can change at any moment. The exact same arguments about trans men being toxic for 'choosing masculinity' have been made against butch women, too.

I hate the “open floor plan” that everyone is obsessed with in houses now. I want nooks and crannies and bizarre floor plans. I don’t need to be able to see what someone is doing on the other side of the house. I want places to hide and lurk and dwell in the shadows. I am the beast who awaits in the labyrinth

Being a young adult is so strange. You enter a coffee shop. The 20 year old girl waiting behind you cried all night because she just came to a new city for university and she feels so alone. That 27 year old guy over there works a job he is overqualified for, he lives with his parents and wants to move out but doesn't know what to do about it. That one 24 year old dude already has a car, a house, and a job waiting for him once he graduates thanks to his dad's connections. The 26 year old barista couldn't complete his higher education because he has to work and take care of his family. The 28 year old girl sitting next to you has no friends to go out with so she is texting her mother. That couple (both 25 years old) are married and the girl is pregnant. The 29 year old writing something on her laptop has realized that she chose the wrong major so she is trying to start all over. We are not alone in this, but we are actually so alone. Do you feel me

i hate when i send someone a meme in another language and they're like "uhm... translate? 😒" fucker i sent you a meme where 90% of the words have an english cognate and/or you don't need to know what they're saying to find it funny. can you at least TRY

"He felt a knot in the pit of his stomach."

Damn, okay, the werewolf dick goes real deep then, huh

like literally how are you supposed to compliment people’s nudes. i end up saying shit like “glorious” and “marvelous” and “contender for one of the natural wonders of the world”

why don't you take a long suck off a short cock bud