so my bank decided to bill me a 15 dollar fee for being poor ( I was a dollar below what I needed for my account fee)

could really use a donation to get out of debt!

https://streamelements.com/electroslimeen/tip

me seeing a mutual's happy post: "hell yeah buddy :)" *hits like*

me seeing a mutual's sad/vent post: "aww no buddy :(" *hits like*

Kink has become more accessible world wide so I implore you to look up classes and if you have a local sexual health and wellness kink centre'd program. Don't blindly trust some douchebag on fetlife to "teach you" kink if they insist on it. Find online courses or go to local walk in 101 events to get information from trained professionals

real BDSM vs abusers in the kink community:

Real enthusiasts understand that doms are here to fulfill the desires of their subs. even if it seems like the other way. by fulfilling your subs desires you're fulfilling yours. yes you can like being in power and like control and yes your partner could love being submissive and fulfilling their need to be dominated. but it is NOT a one way avenue. The importance of knowing the intention behind the person is crucial. So often there are BAD PEOPLE with ill intent flocking to the community. people who only want to control and abuse others and there are dozen of victims new to kink who get abused because they have a misunderstanding of what a healthy D/s relationship looks like.

In a healthy D/s relationship it quite literally IS all about your sub and nurturing that relationship. You are actively listening to what your sub wants to do, what they like and don't like (and obviously their interests align with yours.) You as the dom are setting up every scene and orchestrating every aspect to reach a mutually satisfied Discussed Beforehand Conclusion. You perform aftercare with your sub, you take care of your partner to make sure everything is safe and that they're well after every scene and play.

Enthusiasts and long time kinksters will know as a dom you arent just in it to get your one pump and dump in. A healthy dom/domme will know theyre creating a space thats 1) safe and 2) controlled where you both can explore your kinks together no matter how debauched your play is.

Active abusers on the otherhand will always have the same rhetoric of "me, me, me" They'll push you around, they'll put all the focus on themselves and most importantly: They'll often try to convince you that you need to listen to them even if the situation makes you uncomfortable or they ask you to do things you dont want to do.

too many times ive seen young people fall victim to people abusing the curtain of BDSM to victimize people and I think more information needs to be out there so it doesn't happen to others. even if you enjoy being submissive in the most extreme ways the major difference is that a good dom will still respect and care for you and an abuser will try to convince you they dont need to

real BDSM vs abusers in the kink community:

Real enthusiasts understand that doms are here to fulfill the desires of their subs. even if it seems like the other way. by fulfilling your subs desires you're fulfilling yours. yes you can like being in power and like control and yes your partner could love being submissive and fulfilling their need to be dominated. but it is NOT a one way avenue. The importance of knowing the intention behind the person is crucial. So often there are BAD PEOPLE with ill intent flocking to the community. people who only want to control and abuse others and there are dozen of victims new to kink who get abused because they have a misunderstanding of what a healthy D/s relationship looks like.

In a healthy D/s relationship it quite literally IS all about your sub and nurturing that relationship. You are actively listening to what your sub wants to do, what they like and don't like (and obviously their interests align with yours.) You as the dom are setting up every scene and orchestrating every aspect to reach a mutually satisfied Discussed Beforehand Conclusion. You perform aftercare with your sub, you take care of your partner to make sure everything is safe and that they're well after every scene and play.

Enthusiasts and long time kinksters will know as a dom you arent just in it to get your one pump and dump in. A healthy dom/domme will know theyre creating a space thats 1) safe and 2) controlled where you both can explore your kinks together no matter how debauched your play is.

Active abusers on the otherhand will always have the same rhetoric of "me, me, me" They'll push you around, they'll put all the focus on themselves and most importantly: They'll often try to convince you that you need to listen to them even if the situation makes you uncomfortable or they ask you to do things you dont want to do.

too many times ive seen young people fall victim to people abusing the curtain of BDSM to victimize people and I think more information needs to be out there so it doesn't happen to others. even if you enjoy being submissive in the most extreme ways the major difference is that a good dom will still respect and care for you and an abuser will try to convince you they dont need to

always remember what they took from us

fuck it. post 2008 deviantart

fuck it. post 2008 deviantart

good lord man. let it breath man.

And they said blonde men can't pee a little while jerking it two-handed style

Marcille and Falin || Dungeon Meshi 1x12

its ironic that the downfall of surveillance state countries will b bc nothing you see online can be trusted anymore due to a///i capitalistic greed. I could make an 8 guy gang bang video of the us senate members and people are stupid enough to believe it.

Porn gets banned on major internet space -> porn moves to new space -> new space gets surge of popularity usage and investors -> investors want porn gone because you can't advertise Better Help next to hq art of the scout from team fortress 2 getting backshots -> porn gets banned there -> porn moves to new space -> new space gets surge of popularity usage and-

when you try to get into the png nightclub but you see the dotted rectangle surrounding the bouncer stretch him wider to block the entrance cus ur not on his clipboard

tumblr's "support all artists" crowd gets real fuckin quiet as soon as they're asked to do it financially and not just reblog their favorite blorbos

you're a natural born tumblr user, you know that

god don't say that

What do you even look like?

ugly. next question