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im-boredd-and-tired · 21 hours
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made more ceramic charms btw if u even cares
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im-boredd-and-tired · 21 hours
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saw a tiktok of a mother taking her very tiny daughter to an art museum and she’s just walking around going “whoooa” “woooaah” to everything but then they got to a marble statue of a nude woman lying on her back and the girl points and goes “mommy🫵” and i just immediately welled up with tears and all the comments are just laughing about it and of course it’s funny but how are you not insanely moved by the way art connects everyone on earth from a centuries-old sculptor to a toddler in 2023
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im-boredd-and-tired · 21 hours
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semiaquatic secret agent
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im-boredd-and-tired · 22 hours
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Sometimes I want to shood each and every person who has ever known me (probably going to start my period soon)
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(reposted to avoid backlash on the OP)
nobody's unlovable and loneliness isn't new, this just what happens when the first generation of men and boys allowed to say "I desire kindness" emerge at at same time as women and girls allowed to say "I don't owe men anything".
And they're both right, they're both correct- Masculine figures are allowed to ask to be treated gently and Feminine figures are allowed to decide who they share intimacy with.
The PROBLEM is men thinking "I deserve gentleness" is the same as "someone owes me intimacy".
Men need to start GIVING what they ask for.
If men were kinder and gentler, if we raised our boys with emotional literacy and taught them compassion and self-care and generosity, personal responsibility and concern for others, they wouldn't see WOMEN as a united monolith marching out to deny them their "right"- they'd have support networks and friendships of their own to rely on, not just a mom or a wife to dump all their needs onto.
Men being lonely isn't new. They're just allowed to talk about it now. And, coincidentally, the socially-conditioned second-class-citizen support role is rapidly vanishing.
We've yet to stabilize: its that instability that has people chewing at the rope.
It's a rough transition, but that's all it is. A step to something better.
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im-boredd-and-tired · 10 days
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Taking care of yourself is productive
#<3
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im-boredd-and-tired · 14 days
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reading in bed
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im-boredd-and-tired · 14 days
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#<3
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im-boredd-and-tired · 14 days
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As much as I have unfortunately played 'daylist' because I'm to lazy to figure out what I want to listen to (it's the same songs from 5 years ago over md over), the data Spotify must require to do something like this....
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im-boredd-and-tired · 14 days
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snoopy of the day
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im-boredd-and-tired · 14 days
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Bothering the beast
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im-boredd-and-tired · 14 days
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This is for the people who didn’t party in their teens and twenties. For the people who didn’t have that “coming of age” movie experience with shenanigans and revelations. This is for the people who mostly keep to themselves. Who maybe prefer things to be quieter and gentler. This is for the people who don’t feel like they belong in a culture that values loud parties and flashing lights. I see you. And you are valid.
#<3
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im-boredd-and-tired · 16 days
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Omg Suzy you’re so crazy
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#oh
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