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2018: 20GAYTEEN // dubbed by hayley kiyoko
2019: 20BITEEN
2020: 20ENBY / 20TWENTY
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ohmygosh, if that’s not exactly something my little sister would say lol
I legit just said this to my mom “I’m really tired but I’m going to push through. *sighs* what I do for that man” and she proceeded to laugh at me. I mean same but also I standby my statement
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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Thank you to whoever made this :) I felt like posting some writing tips.
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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*after seeing the goldfinch*
my dad: theo should have just moved to london with pippa. he was in love with her
my lil sis: umm he was in love with borris
me: well i mean...
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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just bought tickets to go see the goldfinch with my lil sis and dad... i had to convince my dad that the first trailer wasn’t a good depiction of the movie. let’s hope i don’t regret this
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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man like. being lgbt kind of ruins time with relatives in a very specific way that cishets will never truly experience. like family time can be rough tm but theres a special brand of discomfort that lgbt people face and it’s kinda wild
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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If you see me looking zoned out it’s cuz im having a therapy session with myself in my head
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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Transmasculine Presentation Resources Masterpost
(For a transfem version of this post, click here)
Some of this could also be useful for other masc people and transneutral people who were cafab as well! And of course feel free to add to this post if you have more good links and/or info to share.
& the obligatory disclaimer: Transmasculine people can present however they want. There’s absolutely no obligation to do the stuff listed here.
Chest:
Binding is Not Safe
Binding 101
More safety info
“Is it Normal?” Binder Edition
Getting a binder without your parents knowing
How to Wash your Binder
Rashes and skin irritation from binding
Coping with chest dysphoria without binding
Swimming
Face:
Mascunilizing Makeup
Making a Beard with Makeup Video
Fake Beard with Real Hair Video
How To Apply A Fake Beard Video
Hair:
Body hair
Long hair
Androgynous hair
Getting Short Hair
Clothes:
How To Look Older as a Baby-Faced Guy
Discrete
Thrift Stores
Dressing to Flatter Your Body Type
Suits & Ties for Beginners
Tomboyx Underwear
Where to Get Men’s Clothes that Fit
Voice:
Voice Deepening for Transgender People
Voice Analyzer App
How to make your voice Deeper Video
Trans Voice Subreddit
Free Trans Voice Resources
Packing / STP:
Pee standing up without a STP
DIY fabric packer
How to Make a Realistic Sock Packer Video
How to make a Packer
How to Pack with a Sock
How to make your own Harness
Packing with an extra small Mr Limpy
Packing and Packers 101
Packers, STPs, and Dildos
Packing Info Post
Tips for Using an STP
A Guide to Stand to Pee (STP) Devices
Packing Wiki
WikiHow for Packing
Guide to Packers
Reviews
General passing tips:
How To Walk Like A Badass
Transmasculine Passing Tips
Passing Tips
WikiHow Passing Guide
How To Pass As Masculine For Trans Men
Tips For Passing Video
The Art of Transliness Guide to Being Read as Male
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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You’ve heard of the Gay Agenda but have you heard of:
The Queer Quest
The Pan Plan
The Sapphic Schedule
The Asexual Arrangement
The Bi Big Idea
The Closeted Course of Action
The Demisexual Disposition
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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If you’re thinking about coming out of the closet
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Coming Out: What I’d tell my teen self | Rose and Rosie 
 “We asked lesbian, bisexual, asexual, gay and trans people what they wished they could tell their younger teenage selves. Steffan Zachiyah, lesbian and bisexual YouTubers Rose and Rosie, Abi McIntosh, Yasmin Benoit, and Robert Greene share their message to their teen selves and #LGBT #comingout experiences. #RoseandRosie 
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Hayley Kiyoko’s Advice On Coming Out And Loving Yourself
“Hayley Kiyoko sat down with us to share her coming out story, her path to self-acceptance, and the mantra she repeats to herself every morning. ❤️”
Also:
8 Tips for Coming Out as Non-Binary
What To Do If A Parent Doesn’t Accept You Coming Out as Queer
Coming Out as Bi When You’re Muslim and Married
How to come out to your parents, from moms and dads who regret their initial reactions
How To Handle Thanksgiving With Your Family After Coming Out
How to support your child when they come out as LGBT+ (share with parents after coming out)
Proud lesbian teacher explains how she ‘comes out every year’ to students 
A beautiful coming out story from Jenny Boylan’s Facebook page
If you’re not ready, that’s OK too 
Disclosure is a Spectrum
Coming out is important. Coming out on your own terms and timing = even more important.
More posts on Coming Out
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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Just a reminder because apparently people don’t realize this, but the rainbow gay pride flag isn’t like…a gay male pride flag? it was literally meant as a pride flag for everyone in the community. not that there’s anything wrong with specific identities having their own flag, but i keep seeing ppl post flag sets as if the rainbow ride flag only represents gay men and saying that not including every single other flag known in existence means you’re excluding people when no it’s not the rainbow flag is for everyone
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Bi ppl: *exist*
My ace ass: 
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Make your pride events wheelchair accessible
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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My dad: *taking a framed photo of me out of the closet* It’s time for you to come out of the closet.
Me, not out to him yet: *stares my sister not saying a word*
Happy Pride everyone!!🌈
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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When your sibling becomes famous
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hatetoadmitbut · 5 years
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How To Write A Book Pitch
This is what you say when someone says ‘what’s the book about?’—a paralyzing question, and you need a compelling answer.
If you don’t know where to start,
A very basic formula for a book pitch can go something like this—
Character, conflict, setting, hook
Character
Most pitches start with character.
A charming cyborg…
A relentless assasin…
A battered detective…
(Try to keep it to one interesting character, too many characters at once can be confusing.)
Conflict
This is the problem your character faces. This is whatever your plot is.
…gets stranded on mars…
…falls in love with the man she’s supposed to kill…
…uncovers a dangerous secret…
Setting
…in a world ravaged by famine…
…lost in an unforgiving sea…
…at an elusive liberal arts college…
Hook
THIS is the part that is tricky, because there’s no easy formulaic way I can suggest you end your pitch—but you should have a hook, something snappy that pulls you in.
Example:
Under this formula, the pitch for my novel, ‘The Runaway’s Promise’ would look something like this…
Creative foster kid Beverly wants nothing more than to run away from her fatally dull small-town home. In trying to make an escape plan, she gets caught in a dangerous town secret that threatens to keep her there forever.
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