Okay so uhm I was now years old when I realised that “Santa” in “Santa Claus” is a short version of “sankta” (or possibly just “saint”?)

Make sure people feel comfortable saying no to you. Make sure to create a space where there is room for limits and boundaries. It's okay and normal to get upset about conflicts and disagreements, but if it escalates to a point where you turn the tables or throw a fit every time someone tries to establish a boundary, you need to work on that. Because that's not a good foundation for any relationship

blorbo wrapped you thought about the same fucking symbolism and story the whole year you goddamn whore

I think i met an angel on the train

i hate to say it but. the healthy eating people are kinda onto something. if you can figure out a way to get all your greens and proteins and fiber in ways that taste good to you you start to prefer the healthy option over junk food 7/10 times

Just saw a post from Biden saying that he’s a capitalist and I was like “why would he admit to that???” and then remembered that there’s people who actually think it’s a good thing

good

hbo max blocks screenshots even when I use the snipping tool AND firefox AND ublock which is a fucking first. i will never understand streaming services blocking the ability to take screenshots thats literally free advertising for your show right there. HOW THE HELL IS SOMEBODY GONNA PIRATE YOUR SHOW THROUGH SCREENSHOTS. JACKASS

Now I just have to figure out how to do it while also feeling ugly

Seeing other queer fem afab people has been so healing to me tbh

I think I’ve been scared because I could never perform femininity the way the cishet world has demanded of me, and then felt like I couldn’t or shouldn’t be feminine at all because I wouldn’t be able to do it correctly and it would just mean that I played into the hands of gender norms and somehow took away part of my queerness

And idk just seeing afab nonbinary people define what femininity and gender means to them has helped me realise I could do the same

Jessie Mei Li has given me a gender crisis lmao

Seeing other queer fem afab people has been so healing to me tbh

I think I’ve been scared because I could never perform femininity the way the cishet world has demanded of me, and then felt like I couldn’t or shouldn’t be feminine at all because I wouldn’t be able to do it correctly and it would just mean that I played into the hands of gender norms and somehow took away part of my queerness

And idk just seeing afab nonbinary people define what femininity and gender means to them has helped me realise I could do the same

Do I wish I was a man because I feel masc or because I’ve never felt pretty enough as a girl?

It’s weird trying to figure out if I feel uncomfortable in my body because I’m trans or because of my other bodily insecurities