Pro tip for what may be a very niche audience of systems with mid level internal communication: if you can only internally communicate when trying to do so and you rarely or never hear surprising, random comments from other headmates that some other systems talk about, that is in fact normal. Internal communication is something that almost always takes time and practice to get better at, so it's not unusual for a system to have difficulty hearing each other and need to actively try to talk to each other to achieve internal communication. Hell, there's a reason that learning internal communication is a part of treatment for systems seeking medical support – because it can be difficult and it's unlikely that you've mastered it right off the bat!

Not hearing your headmates most of the time is okay. Needing to focus on talking to a headmate to internally communicate is okay. If you rarely or never get surprised by someone internally talking to you, that probably just means your internal communication has some barriers, difficulties, or quirks that other systems do not have. That does not mean you're faking; that does not mean you're less of a system. Don't fool yourself otherwise just because you see other systems getting caught off-guard by their headmates talking to them, or overhear each other talking while they're focused on something else, or anything else. They are not you, and your system is going to be different from their system. It's okay if your internal communication is different from other systems.

Tl;dr: Don't trap yourself in self-doubt if your system doesn't have perfect internal communication (including if you have internal communication that's "good enough" for your system but lacks in some areas). Internal communication (and communication skill) varies from system to system, and you don't have to have flawless communication to be a real system.

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Basic system info and blog info below the cut. Last updated 2023/04/03

We're on the smaller side of a system. We have above 5 but below 10 system members. Traumagenic. We're also monconscious. That's all we'll say publicly.

We'll only give very basic details about the host*, because we're not out. Host is an adult, he/it pronouns, aroacespec. To refer to us as a system, please use either they/them OR it/its.

(*We're not sure if it's the host or not anymore)

Different alters might rb/make some posts on here. (Though honestly we always get too scared.) Alter tags will be emojis. Frequent ones will be include "🌠" and "🎵". Host uses "⭐". We're not comfortable giving any more information than that.

This blog isn't intended to be one to get many followers or anything. This is just for our own personal (for us and others we trust) documenting, and occasional sys-related reblogs. No DNI list, we'll probably block anyone who tries to follow that we don't already know.