let’s shift the conversation from love language to soul language.

People who are meant for you, hear you differently. Stop explaining yourself.

Something people do not realise when they choose a partner is this: where your partner is inadequate in meeting your needs, they will also be inadequate in meeting your children’s needs if you choose to have children with them. In other words, if they are emotionally unavailable with you, they will be emotionally unavailable to your children. If they demonstrate unkindness to you, they will be unkind to your children. If they hit you, they will hit your children. There are exceptions to this but more often than not, this is the case.

If you feel unwanted as a child, you will think yourself a monster unworthy of love and do anything, absolutely anything to prove to people that they should love you. Even a morsel of love is enough if you are unwanted. You’ll take the crumbs and say thank you.

I’ve reached the “I don’t have the energy to feed into that” era.

“december, close the chapters that don’t speak to my spirit and open up the pages that remind me of who i am. give me the courage to release myself from what i’ve outgrown so i can fit into shoes suited for where my journey is going. balm me in patience and soak my bones in love.”

— iambrillyant

“divine timing tastes sweeter than forcing something you’re not ready for into existence.”

— iambrillyant

“you can’t rush what is divinely being prepared for you because it is only for you. on a schedule that’s on time with your journey, in a language only your soul understands, in packaging big enough to fit your goals and ambitions. be patient as it finds its way to you.”

— iambrillyant

“currently existing somewhere in between: patient enough to wait for what’s mine but ready to harvest fruit from the seeds i’ve planted.”

— iambrillyant

“patience is the greatest gift anyone could ever give you during your healing, giving you as much time as you need to walk your own path without giving unsolicited shortcuts, letting you return back home to yourself as many times as you need until you feel like you again.”

— iambrillyant

every day

more sky.

the sun

sinks into

it.

- s.f.

compassion is a long lost thing, however if one cultivates compassion properly, it can become the illuminating path to a brighter and more harmonious world for all.

“Apologize to your body. Maybe that is where the healing begins.”

— Nayyirah Waheed

“If someone does not want me, it is not the end of the world. But if I do not want me, the world is nothing but endings.”

— Nayyirah Waheed