an incomplete list of dating red flags
*note* these are a list of my PERSONAL red flags, if they donât apply to you cool, but I donât need to hear about it mmkay? :D
rude to waitstaff, ushers, bartenders, etc./ âitâs their job, they get paid toâŚâ
doesnât tip/makes fun of you for trying to tip
calls all exes âcrazyâ or âbitchesâ
refers to women as âfemalesâ
only talks about self/no questions about you
âwomen never go for ânice guys,â women only want jerksâ
âi need a traditional woman/woman who will cook for meâ
orders for you without asking what you want
comments negatively about your appetite (âare you sure you donât want a salad?,â âwow, you sure eat a lotâ)
says âblacksâ instead of Black people
says âgaysâ instead of gay people
uses âgayâ as an insult/replacement for âstupidâ or âuncoolâ
describes EVERYONE in their stories by their race (regardless of context)
is non-Black and says N word
âALL lives matterâ
corrects you on everything, even when they donât know what theyâre talking about
turns everything into sexual innuendo
puts down other women, even to compliment you (âyou arenât like OTHER women,â etc.)
canât take ânoâ for an answer (not limited to sex)
no (real, platonic) female friends/claims women & men canât be friends
refers to any women as sluts
rape jokes
*preaches* about personal lifestyle (vegan, going green, working out, etc.)
negging
general statements about women - âi hate when women [blank],â âall women like [blank],â âall women are [blank]â
negative opinions on people with mental illness
mentions (brags) where they went to school more than once
casually uses slurs like tr*nny, d*ke, q*eer, f*g, g*psy, etc. (ridicules you if you try to tell them why using these slurs are wrong)
fave book is âCatcher in the Rye,â âLolita,â or anything by Ayn Rand
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g*psy is a racial slur
g*psy is not a synonym for boho, hippie, fashionable, interesting, wanderlust, or anything else in that vein.Â
It is a RACIAL. SLUR. If you are not Rromani, do NOT use it. Itâs really that simple. We travel because we are forced to. Not because we want to. Many live in forced poverty. If you are not a member of our race, STOP USING A SLUR THAT IS DIRECTED AT US.
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Guest Article:Â 7 Foods you can Eat to Lose Weight
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When trying to sleep, but see a cross burning outside yo window
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For example Frederick Douglasâ wife did so much for his ungrateful ass. She helped him get on his feet, gave him her last name, and supported him financially and took care of house and home. And in return was does this nigga do? He lets white abolitionists tear her down and treat her like a slave in HER HOUSE. Moved two bitches into HER HOUSE over a span of 20 years. Belittles her for being illiterate while using HER MONEY. Not even in death does she get the respect she deserves. His last wife is more recognized as being apart of his life than she was. Just trash. And y'all still normalize that shit as if itâs a black womanâs job to struggle. Fuck that.
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i've started writing letters to myself in my phone
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The sound of me crying if you were in another room.mp3
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a man shooting a nerf gun at his light switch from the bed, missing every shot, and going to sleep with the lights on
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me when iâm horny: mmm nut all over my face daddy ;p
me after i cum first and he tries to cum on my face:
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i dont think american filmmakers realise how huge london is, because sure you have the london eye and houses of parliament but when you say âlondon has fallenâ what??? so the nandos in catford is in flames? the tesco in peckham has descended into chaos? wtf??
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