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an incomplete list of dating red flags
*note* these are a list of my PERSONAL red flags, if they don’t apply to you cool, but I don’t need to hear about it mmkay? :D
rude to waitstaff, ushers, bartenders, etc./ “it’s their job, they get paid to…”
doesn’t tip/makes fun of you for trying to tip
calls all exes “crazy” or “bitches”
refers to women as “females”
only talks about self/no questions about you
“women never go for ‘nice guys,’ women only want jerks”
“i need a traditional woman/woman who will cook for me”
orders for you without asking what you want
comments negatively about your appetite (“are you sure you don’t want a salad?,” “wow, you sure eat a lot”)
says “blacks” instead of Black people
says “gays” instead of gay people
uses “gay” as an insult/replacement for “stupid” or “uncool”
describes EVERYONE in their stories by their race (regardless of context)
is non-Black and says N word
“ALL lives matter”
corrects you on everything, even when they don’t know what they’re talking about
turns everything into sexual innuendo
puts down other women, even to compliment you (“you aren’t like OTHER women,” etc.)
can’t take “no” for an answer (not limited to sex)
no (real, platonic) female friends/claims women & men can’t be friends
refers to any women as sluts
rape jokes
*preaches* about personal lifestyle (vegan, going green, working out, etc.)
negging
general statements about women - “i hate when women [blank],” “all women like [blank],” “all women are [blank]”
negative opinions on people with mental illness
mentions (brags) where they went to school more than once
casually uses slurs like tr*nny, d*ke, q*eer, f*g, g*psy, etc. (ridicules you if you try to tell them why using these slurs are wrong)
fave book is “Catcher in the Rye,” “Lolita,” or anything by Ayn Rand
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g*psy is a racial slur
g*psy is not a synonym for boho, hippie, fashionable, interesting, wanderlust, or anything else in that vein. 
It is a RACIAL. SLUR. If you are not Rromani, do NOT use it. It’s really that simple. We travel because we are forced to. Not because we want to. Many live in forced poverty. If you are not a member of our race, STOP USING A SLUR THAT IS DIRECTED AT US.
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Guest Article: 7 Foods you can Eat to Lose Weight
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Kinda seems like a one sided conversation, doesn’t it? I’m tired of “conversations on race” whenever another innocent, unarmed black person is executed by the police. They’re as perfunctory as they are repetitive.
We need justice, not another hollow conversation that doesn’t change anything and does nothing to prevent the next shooting.
(original image credit: Clay Bennett)
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This speaks volumes.
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When trying to sleep, but see a cross burning outside yo window
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Ezra with Echo Kellum
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For example Frederick Douglas’ wife did so much for his ungrateful ass. She helped him get on his feet, gave him her last name, and supported him financially and took care of house and home. And in return was does this nigga do? He lets white abolitionists tear her down and treat her like a slave in HER HOUSE. Moved two bitches into HER HOUSE over a span of 20 years. Belittles her for being illiterate while using HER MONEY. Not even in death does she get the respect she deserves. His last wife is more recognized as being apart of his life than she was. Just trash. And y'all still normalize that shit as if it’s a black woman’s job to struggle. Fuck that.
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i've started writing letters to myself in my phone
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The sound of me crying if you were in another room.mp3
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a man shooting a nerf gun at his light switch from the bed, missing every shot, and going to sleep with the lights on
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me when i’m horny: mmm nut all over my face daddy ;p
me after i cum first and he tries to cum on my face:
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i dont think american filmmakers realise how huge london is, because sure you have the london eye and houses of parliament but when you say ‘london has fallen’ what??? so the nandos in catford is in flames? the tesco in peckham has descended into chaos? wtf??
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