sunny. sunny hi. its me OMORI :3 i've sent in an ask before to your blog I think. anyway hows it going?

Hi hi !! Sorry this is so late, I wanted to answer another ask before yours but I'm giving up I think. I'm doing okay ! Had an exam today and will have. So Many midterm exams next week. But I'm alright for now, how are you? :))

This is meant to be informational, all of this is /info

I'm not sure if you know this but hyper-empathic people with autism aren't ableist for not liking people with narcissistic personality disorder. Yet, a lot of people who do have that type of autism (which is rare yet more common in the biologically female genome side of it), can spot people with narcissistic personality disorder very easily. This is because of common phrases which in turn make them feel unsafe. This may impact the autistic person negatively, and MAY cause long-term PTSD (C-PTSD for Complex PTSD), but that does NOT make the person with NPD an abuser. Its common for those with hyper-empathy to feel unsafe around people with NPD because they are two polar opposites of intentions on the spectrum and often get mistaken for each other by strangers. Like its common for you to immediately tell if someone is homophobic or not, its also common for people with NPD and people with HE autism to recognize each other even if those without it can't tell them apart easily. Its a common fear response and nothing more. The best thing you can do if someone seems to think that Narcissistic abuse is real and has HE autism is to tell them to talk or see a therapist, or at the very least to look up information online from credible sources. (Of course, its also good to deliver this gently as they will be defensive.) TLDR; HE autism and NPD recognize each other and don't get along well but that doesn't make it abuse or ableism. /info

This is ! a lot of great info that... does not contradict any of what I have ever said, so I'm not sure why you felt like you needed to say it (or even less why you felt like you needed to put big ol' info tone tags all around it as if it was going to be offensive)

(Guessing you're referring to that post where I said "narcissistic abuse isn't a thing and not every single person with autism is hyper-empathic")

It does sound, uh, strange to me that someone just existing would cause PTSD in another person, but I've never claimed to be an expert. Also seeing the points you're making I do think ASPD could be grouped with NPD in this as well (yknow, because of the low empathy and all) — but when I say "narcissistic abuse" doesn't exist I'm strictly talking about the term. Of course people with NPD can be abusers. People with ASD can also be abusers, but we don't call that "autistic abuse" because it'd be stupid.

I get the point with the fact that they can recognize each other more easily, but uh, no, I can't identify whether someone's homophobic or not without asking them. People have been wrong. Like, it happens a lot. You can't... say that it's a reliable way to identify someone with NPD/HE autism. Literally yesterday I had a friend at my house who has HE autism and we ended up talking about this exact topic because they called themselves a "victim of narcissistic abuse" and I nearly had a fucking stroke. When I told them I had low empathy, which happened years ago to be fair, they were surprised.

I'm very easily triggered by what you call "common NPD phrases" (if I understood that right, and if did then I'm assuming you mean something that sounds manipulative, which.... moving on) to the point that it's something I have to discuss with pretty much everyone I know because it always comes up at some point and I get triggered by something completely innocent. It's a really big problem for me. But I am far from being uncomfortable around people with NPD (or people who just have low empathy for that matter), usually because they tend to be very honest with me the moment I open up about having low empathy (usually in a "oh thank God I don't have to keep masking around you" way). I tend to feel more unsafe around hyper-empathic people, not because of "common phrases" or anything, but because I've heard them say so much shit about people like me that it's become automatic to feel wary of them (see: my best IRL friend telling me they're a "victim of narcissistic abuse" after I've already opened up to them about my own empathy issues; trying to listen to a podcast my friend is in and getting hit with a "yeah I'm a decent human being, I've got fucking empathy"; trying to explain to someone that people with ASPD aren't all serial killers and being met with "some things deserve to be demonized ❤"; etc etc.).

For these reasons I do not believe that HE autistic people feeling unsafe around people with low empathy or NPD isn't at least partially for ableist reasons, whether conscious or not. Feel free to prove me wrong, it'd be great.

I have been trying to stop saying "I'm going to kill myself" at every small inconvenience and like, fully stop and go "No. I don't want to kill myself I just want to go home. And maybe take a nap."

And then I go home and I spend the entire day in bed doing nothing and then that mood be swingin and

Gay people idk

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if you’re at a low point:

If you were a fictional man right now, there would be *at least* ten people if not a large portion of the fanbase that would call you their wet beast poor little meow meow

Please talk about him?

Do you mean Basil OMORI? If you mean Basil OMORI you're in for a brilliant time anon let's get this essay going

Basil OMORI is perhaps the most perfect and cool and cute and amazing boy out there. The "perhaps" is debatable. I have vowed to dedicate four straight years of my life thinking about him every single day and I only have two more years to go, after which I will not only keep thinking about him but also draw, write, and sculpt him every occasion I get as I have been doing this entire time. The gay little sunflower doodle that I made, like, over a year ago on the whiteboard in my kitchen is still there and undamaged. There is nothing I would change about him. I love his qualities as I love his flaws. He had the fluffiest, prettiest, most beautiful hair that the human brain will ever be able to conceive; he has the cutest face with the purest smile and brightest eyes and sweetest smile; he has a kind heart that deserves so much more than humanity could ever give him. Just thinking about him brings me joy. Seeing him and drawing him and reading about him and anything about him makes me so happy. Sometimes I'm scared of seeing other people's opinions on him because they might only recognize him for only his bad, or only his good sides. He is a deeply a complex boy who always made me feel understood, human, and never judged. He always wanted the best for me. He wasn't as I made him out to be in Headspace; and what we see of him in the Real World isn't all he was either. But he was always so good, and so kind, and so cute, and gentle and so pretty and nicea dn cool anxvslbbm that I just want to see him and save him from danger because then he'd be like my princess and if i save the princess then i'll marry the princess and and

(Less deranged and over-the-top version of this post: I love Basil so much you cannot even IMAGINE I don't think I've ever been so partial to anyone or anything for as long as I have been for this boy. I am deeply homosexual for him but mostly I just want to see him happy. I was never as a good a friend to him as I should've been and seeing him happy is just. cool and good. He deserves it. I'matinylittlebitobsessedwithhim but I just. think he's great and I want him to be happy real bad. I want to take care of him. I want to make him happy. I want to see him thrive and love himself and healthy and as positive as he always wanted to be. I want to see him become the sunflower he cherished the idea of.)

(Also I really want to run my hand through his hair. And kiss him . j just a little bit .)

Basil OMORI,

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i dont feel so good

daily reminder that people with low/no empathy are not evil, "psychopath" and "sociopath" aren't valid medical terms, narcissistic abuse isn't real and not every autistic person is hyperempathetic

Average "rare" fictionkin experience: assuming that even though your kin is niche, it'll have content on Tumblr, and either being very right (The Hunter from Hollow Knight), or VERY wrong (Mewo from OMORI)

@ any fellow Mewo kins, I see y'all :3

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@theflowergardensys

Confiding in my plural friends, call that my security system

Confiding in my plural friends, call that my security system

:)

hello Sunny! i'm the Omori from that fictionkinfessions post you reblogged where I said it's annoying when people think I kin Sunny. So hi there!

Oh hello !! I didn't think you were actually going to see this sdhksj. Hello hi I hope you're doing well :)

happy birthday!! [throws some basil plushies at you]

(opens my arms wide and lets myself get hit by the plushies)

Saw a post going around that said "use this picrew to make you now + you as a kid" and I thought it was fun :)

sends in a wave bc seeing you around made me smile :] - an OMORI (so so so sorry if this makes you uncomfortable,, I just saw you reblog another OMORI's kinfession so wanted to say hi)

Hi hello hi !! Hi this doesn't make me uncomfortable at all I'm. I don't know how to say it any other way but I love OMORIs and seeing OMORIs around makes me so very happy and zmrhldhsb. Hello !! (waves back)