I love your blog and I’m just getting into the kink side of tumblr! (I love it here!) Are there any blogs you love that you’d recommend?
I'm still rebuilding my Tumblr follows, even years after the Pornpocalypse, but here are some blogs I recommend:
@cybister015 : Thoughtful musings on submission and being in a relationship.
@amysubmits : Really goes into the day-to-day feelings of being a submissive.
@elisegravesbondageliberation : One of the absolute queens of bondage.
@pet-slut-chrissy : Somedays, you want an old school horny tumblr.
@conceptsformyowner : A submissive trying to make it through the day.
@shio-bari and @fetishhand : Gotta give a shoutout to some the bondage best artists still posting regularly here.
@4melwave : Up and coming femboy rubberdoll. One of the sources for original photos of shiny people.
Saturdays are for reblogging House of Gord! The L stand is one of Gord's tamer creations, which was later refined into incredibly difficult Bishop Stand.
I don't want to be a girl. I don't want to go back to being a boy either. Gender binaries are stupid, and I don't care as long as I get to be pretty.
Mistress isn't particularly sadistic to her sissies. Her goal is to be able to lounge in luxury while a staff of beautiful, devoted sissies take care of her every whim. She can't have that unless she takes the time to turn a trainee into a beautiful doll first.
I'm not a tiny, cute twink. I'm too tall and too old to fit that stereotype anymore.
Mistress does not like sissies in chastity. Why would she put so much effort into training sissy sex slaves if she wasn't a fan of sissy cock?
I don't get any thrill from being cuckolded, shameful or otherwise. All I want is for Mistress to be happy, and if she enjoys having a sidepiece, so be it.
Mistress does get jealous every time she loans a sissy out, and frets constantly about if they'll be back. She still does it because it's an extremely effective form of training.
Neither of us get instantly horny from wearing latex. We wear rubber constantly around the house, so we feel at home in rubber more than anything else.
Mistress does invite other femdoms over for parties where they're served by sissy maids. These very rarely end in any kind of orgy. Usually, the parties consist of a couch full of drunken dommes watching Disney+, while the maids handle snacks.
Saturdays are for Reblogging House of Gord! If you're at all interested in behind the scenes of the House of Gord, Authentically Kinky just did a two-hour interview with its current managers.
Originally, they were only planning for a one-hour show, but the whole story is so fascinating that Authentically Kinky is already considering doing a sequel to this episode.
There are advantages to being faceless. Your mistress can look up at any time and see you ready and at attention. You could be sobbing quietly as you desperately try not to choke on your gag under the mask, but as far as your owner is concerned, you're being a perfect servant.
A conversation that's being going around the House of Aspyce this week has been about the difference between the "Kink Community" and "Kink Fandoms." A lot of people who follow this blog may dream about being taken in by an experienced domme, like Mistress, to be transformed into one of her sissy maids, but they've never tried D/s or even crossdressing before. For anyone like that reading this, we consider you part of the Kink Fandom, and we still appreciate all your support.
I think that a lot of the trouble Mistress has been having with new subs lately has been because we've been mistaking Kink Fandoms for part of the Kink Community. No matter how much the fans may admire our lifestyle, they can't realize what it means to live it without some experience participating in the Kink Community.
Mistress, who has far more patience that I ever will, thinks this is a matter of education. Basic kink skills, like negotiation and knowing what you enjoy, part of the Kink Community, but not the fantasy that the Fandom is interested in. Without being taught the basics, people outside the Community don't even realize how fundamental they are to our lifestyle.
Either way, we're reconsidering how much we should expect from a newbie, no matter how enthusiastic they are.