"Heal The World"
Think about—am—the generations and they say we wanna make it a better place for our children, and our children's children, so that they they they know it's a better world for them, and think they can make it a better place
There's a place in your heart
And I know that it is love
And this place could be much brighter than tomorrow
And if you really try
You'll find there's no need to cry
In this place you'll feel there's no hurt or sorrow
There are ways to get there
If you care enough for the living
Make a little space
Make a better place
Heal the world
Make it a better place
For you and for me
And the entire human race
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me
If you want to know why
There's a love that cannot lie
Love is strong
It only cares for joyful giving
If we try we shall see
In this bliss we cannot feel
Fear or dread
We stop existing and start living
Then it feels that always
Love's enough for us growing
So make a better world
Make a better world
Heal the world
Make it a better place
For you and for me
And the entire human race
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me
And the dream we were conceived in
Will reveal a joyful face
And the world we once believed in
Will shine again in grace
Then why do we keep strangling life
Wound this earth, crucify its soul
Though it's plain to see
This world is heavenly
Be God's glow
We could fly so high
Let our spirits never die
In my heart I feel you are all my brothers
Create a world with no fear
Together we'll cry happy tears
See the nations turn their swords into plowshares
We could really get there
If you cared enough for the living
Make a little space
To make a better place
Heal the world
Make it a better place
For you and for me
And the entire human race
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me
Heal the world
Make it a better place
For you and for me
And the entire human race
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me
Heal the world
Make it a better place
For you and for me
And the entire human race
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me
Kalau ada masalah saat itu, lebih baik segera diselesaikan saat itu juga. Selesaikan dengan cara anggun. Jangan sampai menumpuk, mendendam. Dan ketika masalah baru datang, masalah lama diungkit-ungkit lagi, padahal sudah jelas-jelas tidak ada gunanya dibahas lagi (justru menyulut emosi menjadi besar) :)
Belajar tenang, sabar, memaafkan, dan mengikhlaskan.
Seperti biasanya, ada pasien kolonik yang datang dan kami menyambutnya dengan baik dan senyum ramah... Perempuan itu datang bersama suaminya.
Saya dan Iluh pernah tau pasien ini sebelumnya. Dan dengan ramahnya Iluh memeluk dan berkata "Hi, How are you?". Saya hanya memandang sambil tersenyum. Perempuan itu dengan ekspresi penasaran berkata "Do I know you?". Dari jauh, saya pun mengeryitkan dahi.
Suaminya yang bisa dibilang tampan dan manly-pun menjelaskan pada kami bahwa istrinya baru saja keluar dari rumah sakit setelah dirawat selama sebulan karena liver, dan mengalami sedikit masalah dengan ingatannya.
Setelah berdialog dan tindakan diselesaikan dengan Iluh - tamu sudah pulang, kami (saya & Iluh) sama-sama berfikir...
"Beruntung sekali perempuan itu mempunyai suami yang sangat mencintainya. Merawatnya bahkan hingga dia sudah tak berdaya seperti itu."
Saya pribadi sebenarnya sudah malas berbicara tentang drama , asmara, cinta atau apalah...
Tapi melihat itu didepan mata saya sendiri, flashback teringat ketika bapak dengan sabarnya merawat ibu setelah ibu operasi pengangkatan rahim, saya semakin berfikir dalam-dalam, bahwa kita tidak akan menemukan pasangan yang sempurna. Lebih baik mencari yang bisa menerima kita apa adanya, berkomitmen bersama untuk lebih baik, dan menjadi pasangan yang bermanfaat - menginspirasi untuk orang lain
Cinta itu sederhana... asal tidak ada kepalsuan didalamnya dan saling menerima kekurangan kelebihan masing-masing :)
People : anggit kamu keliatannya happy terus, nggak pernah keliatan susah atau sedih? Selalu senyum.
Me : susah, sedih, marah itu menular. Aku cuman bagi sama orang-orang yang paling dekat denganku, yang tau aku dan yang bisa kupercaya.
Ketika kita susah atau sedih, lalu kita tunjukkan ke umum/sosial. Tidak semua orang empati sama kita. Ada orang2 yang justru senang ketika kita jatuh. Semakin kita nunjukkan kita sedih/susah/perasaan galau. Orang melihat mental dan kestabilan emosi kita kurang oke.
The truth is : "Discouragement kicks me back in, and Praise indulges and raises me up. Which both makes me better know who I am, therefor helps me to become more Humble." - Anggit
I don't want to say today is bad day for me. But yet I was so busy at office and I had a lot of people complaining during my busy day even they have not really important issues.
I make my lip sealed and keep smile
On my way back home...
I met an old lady (around 70 years old) walk with a lot of plastic bottles in her back. I passed her. Then I turned back my motorbike. I asked her,
"Ibu mau kemana? berat ya?" (Where will you go,madam? is that heavy?)
"Mau pulang, nak habis cari botol (I am going back home after looking for plastic bottles)"
"Mari saya antar bu (Let me take you home,madam)"
Then she sat behind me. She couldn't speak Bahasa Indonesia well. After I reached her house, I opened my bag and my wallet and give some money
"Ini untuk makan malam ya bu.. maaf hanya sedikit mudah-mudahan bermanfaat" (this is for dinner, madam. I am so sorry not that much but I hope it helps)
She just smiled and hug me..She said "thank you"
She wanted me to come to her place to have tea... and I said "later madam. I am sorry, I must back home..." I saw her eyes...
She hug me again. So deep.
I left her -on my way, my tears fell down
Yes, Everything in life is temporary. We never know what will be happened. So, If things are going good, Enjoy it because it won't last forever. And If things are going bad, don't worry. It can't last forever either.
And I found this quote almost similiar with my life lesson today