Like I'm growing a lot and tbh now I'm gonna find it sus af if a guy doesn't suggest like a planned date the first time we hang out like it really doesn't have to be this elaborate or expensive thing literally just let's go to this cafe I like or walk in this nice spot and we can take cool pictures and listen to music literally a n y t h i n g with fucking forethought because I deserve effort we all deserve effort.
And I'm not saying I'm not willing to make an effort yo if I invite you out trust me we finna do Something because I care about you and I want you to have a good time.
Why do straight dudes not take girls on dates anymore I mean I really hope it's just me with my shitty taste in men but why do I always just end up at some dudes house then a week later he asks me to be his gf???
Men love to talk about how much it sucks to be put in the friendzone but can we talk about how it feels to be a woman and realize that you didn’t have an actual friend? You just had somebody looming over you, waiting for you to agree to fuck them