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cutthroatkindness · 4 hours
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a soft reminder that coping looks different for everybaby.
some of us color. some of us watch shows from our childhood. some of us buy ourselves toys & run our own bubble baths. some of us let someone else do it for us.
some of us don’t regress or age dream at all to cope. some of us hide under the covers & cry. some of us dissociate into childhood. some of us isolate with our stuffies.
coping doesn’t have to be pretty or aesthetic to be valid.
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cutthroatkindness · 5 hours
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You are not defined by the bad days.
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inner child healing for the spring :] 💛🌻
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cutthroatkindness · 5 hours
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Aging is hot. Gray hairs are hot. Smile lines are hot. Get with it.
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cutthroatkindness · 8 hours
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I'm sorry you feel like this, though it is an understandable feeling. Humans are social creatures, it's natural for us to want approval from others and to feel self-conscious. Even other creatures like dogs can feel like this. But I'm not calling you a dog, I'm saying if we give dogs a break for it then we should give ourselves a break too. I hope you go easy on yourself for your feelings, they will pass. Take care! Have a great day!🌼🌼
Thank you so much for your kind words! It's nice to have a gentle soul remind you be gentle with your own soul. 🌻
I hope you have a wonderful day too! 🌱🌟
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cutthroatkindness · 9 hours
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Today has been really bad. I feel like the world hates me and am scared I stand out in public in any way especially negative. I'm so self conscious in public and I hate it. I hope I like how I look one day and I hope I stop letting how others view me matter someday.
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cutthroatkindness · 9 hours
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i think the way tiktok and tumblr (yes i am unifying these two sites together for this, for shame!) talk about autism and adhd (n honestly ocd too) as this quirky party trick has really damaged The Youths, at least in america (n they enact that damage on the rest of us, per usual)
like you guys will CONTINUE as usual to mock n harass anyone who is slightly "weird" or "offputting" bc well YOURE autistic and YOU dont do that, so it must be a them problem. well, YOU live on your own and YOU have a job and YOU have tons of friends and YOU go to uni and YOU go to the club and YOU arent weird. its not an "autism thing", this persons just weird. weird for being a picky eater, for using scripts in conversations, for avoiding crowded places n having meltdowns while in them, for living w their parents or in assisted living, for going on about their special interests, for missing social ques, for speaking "weird", for stimming, for having little or no friends, for being unemployed, for having motor issues, for being nonverbal, for not being able to handle the school/academy system, for being autistic.
THEYRE clearly just weird, THEYRE wrong for exhibiting signs and symptoms of autism. their autism is WRONG and WEIRD and OFFPUTTING. YOURE autistic and YOU dont do that, so its clearly "not about autism".
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cutthroatkindness · 12 hours
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Had a random thought on the bus and like, what if we did start to figure out time travel and we learn how to stop time a lil but technology and research hasn't advanced quite enough to figure out the rest. SO we humans decide to use it for really mundane, practical reasons like forget smart fridges, now you can buy a brand new overpriced Time Slowing Fridge! Slow or even stop time and stop your food from spoiling!
And photo studios now offer time reversing retakes for a higher price than a regular retake.
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cutthroatkindness · 12 hours
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✨💛✨ You're gonna get through this. You will. It's gonna be okay. ✨💛✨
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cutthroatkindness · 2 days
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Self love is not always easy. It can be challenging and not fun at the time, but your future self will thank you!
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cutthroatkindness · 2 days
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Local PSA: invisible disability does NOT mean you can live your life like a "normal person" invisible disability meant that if a stranger looks at you in public they wouldn't know what's going on.
Like if a wheelchair user were to decide to run into a corner store to grab a candy bar because they know that their legs can last that long without, the cashier wouldn't know.
Or someone with "mild" scoliosis walking upright through their shoulder leans slightly to the left. Maybe they just have bad posture. The lady in the next isle thinks to herself.
The person with EDS or POTS or whatever sort of condition wearing compression gloves out and about. Perhaps it's a fashion statement?
Or what about the people with intestinal issues? They can look like "normal people" too.
You never know what someone is going through.
You never know what they might need to survive or if they're on the edge of a flare up or even if they are currently going through one just by one look.
I think both disabled and non disabled need to realize this. You're not "no longer disabled" because you can "live without" disability aids. They're there to help you. To make your life easier. If living without a cane is going to make it more likely you'll fall over and hurt yourself, use the cane.
If you need to sit down to do dishes or cut vegetables because you need to save your legs for taking out the trash, sit down.
If you need a shower chair because you don't know if you'll pass out, use the shower chair.
People are going to judge you regardless for multiple reasons out of your control.
I'd rather they judge you while you're being safe.
You don't need to struggle to be "normal."
You can just be you.
However that looks for you.
Use your disability aids.
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cutthroatkindness · 2 days
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I live my life in a constant state of grief of what I did, what I didn’t do, and what I can never do.
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You’ll get there.
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