hi. non penetrative sex is often more intimate. more on this later

When femmes hit you with the “poor baby”

anons are back on!! 😙

I want you to hunt me SO bad you have no idea, I want to be your prey

oh? that sounds fun 🤭

but you should know i’m a persistence hunter… i won’t outrun you or physically overpower you. i don’t need to do any of that. i’ll use your weaknesses to my advantage, manipulate you, seduce you, until you're completely in my thrall

I've been having a really really overwhelming time of it this week, and scrolling through your blog and fantasising has really helped me relax.

Just... Being free to put down my overflowing responsibilities and just *obey*, without thought or expectation...

Ghhhhh. Where do I sign up? 😵

oof i’m sorry you had a rough week, it makes me so happy to hear my blog has helped you feel better 😚💓

mmm love the thought of soothing a sub into a calm state, just with my soft voice and gentle touches

your post about lady and the tramp 2 reminds me of the spring scene in bambi. bambi and his friends being seduced by their female versions? THE BUNNY ONE? butchfemme peak

YESSS agreed omg that scene is so cute!! 😭

im the anon who asked about the stone question earlier. thank you so much for your answer and reassurance, you are so kind ☹️🩷 and i would thoroughly appreciate the blog rec that you were referring to!

additionally, as someone who previously id'd as a lesbian before, but then id'd with another label for years due to internalized lesbophobia, i feel more inclined to connect with my lesbianism now, and im so happy that it's through tumblr that I've seen so many lesbian blogs, including yours, who are putting out their heart and soul to making sure that other lesbians feel confident with their identity 🩷🩷

- 🩷 (can you tell i love the pink heart emoji)

hi lovely, sorry this is such a late reply, i was waiting to see if i might hear back from that blog (i always like to ask before tagging folks) but i haven’t yet!!

oh goodness it warms my heart to hear that my and other lesbian blogs have helped you connect with your lesbianism, that’s so beautiful 🥰💕 i’ve also found so much comfort and learned so much from other amazing lesbian blogs on here, both in the past and currently. thanks for your sweet message ☺️ sending sm love!!

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Daydreaming of my butch coming to me whenever they feel needy and subby.

I'm sat by the couch watching TV and they simply push my shirt out of the way, or put their head under the fabric enough to stretch it over my stomach, rolling up to show the underside of my breast and just a tease of my nipple, which they go after, nuzzling and kissing upward, before wrapping their lips around it and suckling away.

I'm softly scratching their nape and brushing my fingers through their hair, before kissing the top of their head, thumb swiping back and forth over their cheek, while their tongue swirls and their mouth tugs on my hardening nub, again and again.

Content sounds filling the room as I look down and praise them, again and again.

covering my chest with lesbian stickers for lesbian visibility week! 🧡🤍🩷 he/they minors dni

Femme nails: spring fairy edition! I’m so happy with these ✨🤍💜🌸✨

Choking Safety

I've been seeing some kind of scare-mongering type posts going around about choking during sex, so I wanted to address how to approach choking in a safe way. Choking is not a 0 risk activity, but it is also not so dangerous that you will just randomly die either. Anyone who does martial arts will confirm that thousands of teenagers are being successfully trained to choke each other safely (for self defense) every day! There's no reason you can't learn to do it too.

First you should be familiar with some basic anatomy of the neck and throat:

The carotid veins on both sides of the neck and the trachea/windpipe in the center are the most important things to be aware of. If you want to enjoy the psychological element of having someone's hands around your neck with relatively little risk, you can do "choking" play that avoids putting any pressure on those arteries or the trachea. As with all choking play, safety is highest when both parties are fully sober. I'm not actually sure if there are people out there who are into having the windpipe or trachea blocked. This tends to hurt like fuck and cause an autonomic choking response. You'll know if you went too far center because generally the bottom will be like "WTH". I don't know if there is a way to do this play safely or not as I don't have experience with it. It probably carries some risk of the trachea collapsing which would be a hospital trip for sure. Most choking play is done with the intention of cutting off the blood supply to the brain by applying pressure to both the left and right carotid arteries. This type of choking is not really "breath play" because of the way it works (though many people refer to it that way.) This creates a pleasant light headed feeling, but is also where the higher risk comes in. It often doesn't take long for a person to lose consciousness once these arteries are blocked, often less than 10 seconds. Sometimes getting completely choked out is the goal, sometimes not. Either way, the top has to pay very very careful attention to every aspect of their bottom's body language. Once you realize that a person has lost consciousness, the choking must stop immediately. Because of this: the most dangerous way to do this kind of play is alone. (hence all the auto-erotic asphyxiation deaths you hear about) It goes without saying that intoxication also dramatically increases the risks. It's not recommended to lose consciousness this way on a regular basis. It's just not good for your brain to repeatedly go through, especially in rapid succession. Generally, the more time spaced out between this type of play: the better. Though some people may have medical conditions that make the risk higher, as long as you stop choking when you reach the desired headspace, this play is approachable. Anyone who's REALLY into the idea but feels unsure or scared, I highly recommend taking a few martial arts classes. MMA guys do this to each other all the time! For sports! The key is just stopping at the right time. There are two main ways to go about blocking the carotid arteries. The main one used in martial arts and self defense is the rear naked choke.

This type of choke is incredible effective at choking someone out quickly and easily. The forearm and the bicep are squeezing each artery until the desired effect is achieved. The risk here is how quickly it works in combination with not being able to have a visual on your bottom's facial response. When someone loses consciousness they will go limp and begin twitching somewhat. This is normal, and you should stop immediately if you notice those signs. The more common method of choking play during sex is what looks more like typical choking. Facing your partner, using both hands.

You want to find the arteries with both hands, and use the meat at the base of your thumbs to apply gradually increasing pressure upwards towards your partner's head. You can keep the thumbs tucked to avoid accidental pressure on the windpipe. (Though this is not required so long as you remember not to apply pressure to the windpipe.) This type of play has a few safety benefits. First, you can see your partner's face so it's more obvious when you can see they've hit a headspace that is desirable. Additionally, it's just a little more difficult to find the arteries and push up on them correctly. If your goal is to get a little light headed without losing consciousness, this is more easily accomplished with this type of choke. However, losing consciousness is still a risk and both partners being fully alert will ensure the lowest risk environment. I know choking play is incredibly popular, even 'vanilla' people participate in this type of play on a regular basis without really knowing the technical details. Most of them don't get seriously hurt...but knowing what you're actually doing with risky play is a base component of risk aware consensual kink. Anyway I hope people find this helpful! Happy choking!!

i think its cute when girls are perverts

what if i was fully naked except for my heels and jewelry and i stepped on you 🤭

Did I ever post this pic lmfao fighting for my life to hold these boys.

[they/he/she femme]

Concept: We're out, and I have been teasing you all night. Grinding my ass into you, bending over in front of you, touching your thighs, kissing your neck.

Until you are so feral for me that you just can't take it.

You grab my wrist and drag us to the bathroom.

You are so riled up you can't wait any longer and rip a hole in my tights and rip my panties off completely.

Immediately sinking your fingers into me, feeling me drip down your forearm and moan for you, not caring who hears how much pleasure you give me.