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When Aquarius man breaks up with you and hurt you in the process does he have any remorse or does he just simply move on like nothing happened

Men in general can be cruel, Aquarius men are no different. They can be cold, calculating, and ruthless. If he’s been hurt previously in the relationship without any reason, he will feel no remorse doing so. In his mind, he’s just repaying the favor. If it was unprovoked then he is capable of remorse, unless he’s a complete narcissist, he can come back randomly in the future asking for an apology. 

The biggest misconception about Aquarius is that we appear to be cold, detached, and unmoved when the contrary can be the actual case. We will act like we don’t care but on the inside, we can be hurting and the other person will never know.

I'm an aqua female (heyyyy 👋🏽) and I had this aqua guy. We were together for two whole years where we did this cute aqua thing where we were both like "we don't want to date each other" and it was all good and it had its ups and downs until I grew tired and I was like can't we make this official ... AND THEN HE CUT ME OFF!!! And he cut off all our mutual friends and got a whole new squad and he changed over night and became like a whole new person... What did I do wrong ?

You did nothing wrong. The issue here is him, not you. But, it’s quite simple. He liked the free lifestyle you were providing him with: free sex, relationship type of arrangement without any ‘rules’. The moment you put your foot down he ran. Why? Because he’s afraid to commit and/or possibly never had any intention of committing to you. Aquarius men are content with living a relationship type of arrangement without the actual commitment, so they can have the freedom to screw around with other females. The moment you took that away from him, he bailed. Just know that this has more to do with him than you. Move on to someone who will not run away the moment you have the ‘talk’.

I talked to an aqua male for about a month with intentions of being friends w benefits, (I’m a Libra sun, aqua moon)... I stopped talking to him because of a mishap between me and one of his friends that had feelings for him. I finally confronted him about the mishap we moved on and agreed to stay friends, but now he ignores me whenever I say hi to him in person(we don’t text anymore) I would still like to be friends but now I am afraid he no longer likes me, any advice??

It sounds to me like you are emotionally attached to this man. First rule of thumb, never subject yourself to a friends with benefits situation with a man you have feelings for. Never settle for less. You will not get a man to commit to you that way…well at least an Aquarius man. It (almost) never works. Aquarius men are picky and they are fixed thought. So if you agree to a FWB situation, then that is what he will always see you as. He might have distanced himself because he knows you are emotionally attached when you guys agreed to a no strings attached situation. Now, he’s creating the distance hoping you take the hint to move on. It’s a passive aggressive move and it sucks, but at least he’s not leading you on to believe there could be something else. I’m sorry. But the best course of action for you would be to move on from him and come back when you truly have no more feelings.

I am a Pisces guy who has been on & off with an Aquarius woman for a year, between the relationship she started fooling around with a Sag & ever since then our sexual relationship hasn’t been the same, she’s reluctant & she has way more complaints, claiming she just isn’t in the mood. What can I change? I honestly feel like her & the Sag just have a super strong sexual connection or maybe they understand each other in that way better & I feel like I can’t match that.

I’m sorry to hear about your relationship with this Aquarius. From my personal experience, fire and air signs seem to work better than water and air. But this is more of my personal preference as I’m an airy Aqua with little fire in my chart. In other words, I’m fire void. There are other Aquarius that are water void and seem to work well with water signs. But I’m going to go on a limb here and assume that this Aquarius is like me and say that this Aquarius might have found that passion she deeply craves in a fire sign. Sagittarius share a familiarity with Aquarius that brings out a passionate side to the Aqua. There are positives in a Pisces and Aqua relationship as well. Pisces can bring out the emotional and dreamy side of an Aquarius. But if the Aquarius isn’t used to drowning in emotions, then she will feel suffocated and bored, especially if there is little to no variance in the boudoir. Given your situation, it seems like this Aquarius might not have had that sexual chemistry that she had with the Sag. 

To an Aquarius, sexual chemistry is excruciatingly important. It’s difficult to find that true connection with that person and when we find it, we can be quite stubborn to let go. It’s such a buzzkill when someone you’re with can’t offer variety, fun, and pillow talk in the bedroom. If you wish to keep her interested you will need to offer her mental stimulation. Try teasing her a bit, leaving emotions to the side, and start treating her as more of a FWB. I know it sounds strange but when you remove emotion, you will leave nothing but carnal desires and this is what the Aquarius wants. The reason fire and air work so well in the bedroom is because they are instinctual (not emotional) and have a way of combining passion, beastly desires, with hint of emotion (sometimes). They’re not afraid to turn their partner inside out, pound them from behind, turn them over like a rag doll, and take control. They will make you feel like a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. 

To understand further, Aquarius are quite closed off from the outside world. Perceiving and receiving their surroundings. Graceful creatures who keep to themselves and hold reservations for all emotions. The bedroom to them is a release of all emotions and carnal desires that cannot be expressed out in public. So it’s crucial to make her feel like she has something to look forward too. Her disinterest in the physical is a tell-tale sign that she’s losing her passion within your relationship. She has no excitement. Like a child who’s grown bored and is sitting in the corner wondering when the next adventure, if that, will begin. Repetitiveness is not for an Aquarius. Unpredictability and variance is what she needs to stay interested. 

I am confused. I dated an aqua for 6 months. everything went well even on our last date then all of the sudden he turns distant and been busy with work. he mentioned he wants his space. I'm not clingy and I respect his space...however, it has been a month since we last met and I'M CONFUSED AF. I did asked him if everything is okay and he said "everything is ok between us babe".

Sorry to hear about this Aquarius. It could be a number of things but it seems like he moved on to someone else. Aquarius men, or men in general, will date numerous women at once. Aqua men are experts in juggling multiple women, so I wouldn’t be surprised he dropped things with you because he’s interested in someone else or moving things forward with someone who he’s more attracted to. I’d say, move on. An Aqua will make excuses to avoid seeing someone without being forward about why they’re doing it.

There’s an Aquarius girl that really liked me but I could never tell because she was never very direct with her feelings towards me, I am attracted to her as well but now she’s kind of distanced herself from me because I started pursuing another girl. How can I make her more attracted to me? Also what kind of things do Aquarius girls do to show they like you so I don’t miss it next time?

Aquarius women aren’t as direct as other signs. We can be very subtle and timid with our interest. Our disinterest can seem like interest and our interest can seem like disinterest. This is why Aquarius are labeled enigmas. No one can really pin point what goes on in our minds or what we feel. Some clues can be very telling if you were to pay close attention though. 

When an Aquarius likes someone they can go into their shell so the object of their affection doesn’t let up that she has interest. This is a defense mechanism to avoid rejection. If you’re direct with her and show your interest and she’s interested, she will reciprocate. She might have trouble expressing her interest verbally, but her actions will prove to you that she likes you. If she’s consistent in her interest then it’s a definite sign she likes you. 

You can’t however make her more interested or attracted to you. If she likes you, chances are you already checked out and she likes what she sees. What you can do is keep things interesting as many signs fail to keep her. Make her laugh, be humble, kind, passionate, ambitious. Have an end game. Aquarius women love a man who is striving to be better and make those around him live’s better. She will be attracted to a gentleman who’s strong, isn’t afraid to get down and dirty, and treats her with grace and sensitivity. 

Finally, if an Aquarius sees you pursue another person, they will completely back off and move on. The trust in their eyes can be easily shattered and disappointment can set in. You’d have to repair the damage by not letting her know of this other woman and making her feel safe. If she sees or senses so much that you are entertaining other women, she will bail only to never look back.

Good luck!

I'm a Scorpio girl who just went through a break up with my now Aquarius ex. We reestablished being friends but I want to win him back. How do I do it?

Scorpio and Aquarius relationships are quite interesting. They’re both so similar yet so different. They’re karmic and soulmate pairings. The major issue with these two is C O N T R O L. Scorpio is notorious for being in control of relationships and if they’re not? They’ll try and force it. Very dogmatic and passionate people with quick tempers and venomous words. Aquarius on the other hand, likes to be in control of their own lives. They hate being told what to do and likes to remain calm like a steady stream. They’re quiet, observant, and calculating when hurt. Scorpio has a tendency to hurt the Aquarius with their words which Aquarius only resents. Bu unlike Scorpios, Aquarius will keep their emotions and opinions to themselves until they finally blow up. While Scorpios will feel like they made a breakthrough with the Aquarius, Aquarius will see it as the beginning to the end. 

My personal issue in the past with Scorpios has been that they can be very stubborn with how they view things. Everything has to be done their way and because of that, they lack the empathy needed to see our point of view. Scorpios get a kick out of inciting emotional reactions from us. But when they don’t get that, they hit low below the belt to get that reaction. To an Aquarius, this only pushes us away because we don’t employ such tactics. We see this as emotional manipulation which is a huge No-No to us. 

If you want this to work out long term, you both will have to learn to compromise. But since you contacted me and I have no way of knowing from him his stance, I will say that you can definitely win him back if you change for the better. You should have no issue with this as Scorpios are all about transformation and rebirth. So you will need to begin with yourself before you can expect anything from him. You need to address the issues that he had with you before you can have an opportunity to go back together. He needs to see a positive change in you so that he can feel safe again.

How can you tell why an Aquarius drifts away, and how can you help bring them back?

When an Aquarius drifts away, you will notice that the time spent together drifts further and further apart. They’ll begin to ‘ghost’ by making excuses as to why they’re disappearing, cancelling dates, and being absent. Now, Aquarius can be aloof and indifferent, but they’ll snap back into reality once they realize they’ve been too far gone from their loved ones. If days turn to weeks and weeks turn into months…chances are the Aquarius is disassociating from the relationship. And most is the case, that they’re not even aware that they’re doing it. In their minds, their thinking “not today”… “I’m not in the mood to talk”… but then the days get longer and longer and their partner ends up hurt and confused. Why the Aquarius would do such a thing? They reach out only to get an “It’s ok. I’m just busy/tired. We’ll see each other soon”. 

Months pass and the Aquarius is still MIA. At this point, move on. An Aquarius in love will not want to spend time away from their partners. In fact, they can be quite clingy and possessive when in love. In your case, if he’s drifting away then that means there’s something wrong in the relationship. Aquarius give a lot in relationships without asking anything in return, but they’ll only do so if their interest is still there. When an Aquarius begins to lose interest in their partner, they’ll become cold, distant, indifferent and at times cruel. Their behavior in a relationship is a reflection of their partners, so the Aquarius will bail once things become stale and boring. The best way to get to him is through action. If you demand, he will rebel and give you nothing. If you nag, he will only see you as a drag. If you get emotional, he will think you have no control over your emotions.

Best course of action is to ‘move on’. You do you. Don’t sit around and wait for him. Go out and have fun. Ignore him. Aquarius men can be quite masochistic. If you act like he doesn’t exist, he’ll come back around. Why? Because Aquarius men like to ignore but HATE being ignored. Act nonchalant if he confronts you. At the same time, begin to move on from the relationship. Keep your options open without telling him. DO NOT TRY TO PROVOKE JEALOUSY this will only backfire. Once he comes back, set your terms and if he’s ok with that then communicate your needs. Place him in a probation period, if he fails then completely move on. No one has time to be sitting around and waiting on someone who’s gone half the time.

Why do Aquarius still care about me after break up, texted to check am I okay. Am I feeling better. Does this means we have chance to get back ?

Your question lacks context, what was the reason for the break up? Who initiated it? 

In these cases, it’s hard to know what happened but I’m going to assume the worst case scenario and say it was him that broke up with you. When an Aquarius breaks up with someone they can feel really horrible about doing it, and might want to check up on you to see if you’re doing ok. It doesn’t mean that they’re trying to get back with you. It’s a way to show that they’re there for you and that just because you two are no longer together, it doesn’t mean they stopped caring. It’s a way to ease your pain but by doing so an Aquarius doesn’t realize that they’re giving you false hope. 

On the positive side though, it could be he has a soft spot for you and cares for you enough to check up on you. Which is a good thing looking at the bigger picture. It means that the reasons for the breakup weren’t that severe that he’d ghost you or cut you cold turkey style but more so because of circumstances. In this case, there could be a possible reconciliation but if the issues are not addressed, then the Aquarius will take a more blunt and harsh approach to break up.

Just wondering, is there any way to get a Leo back if you've both been talking for almost a year and they suggest a break? Thanks in advance!

It’s difficult to say. Leo’s are notorious for appearing to move on quickly. As soon as the shoe drops, they find a new pair to show off to the world. The real way to know is the emotional attachment the Leo had towards their ex and the reasons for a breakup. In this case, if the Leo suggested the break it could mean that he was trying to let you down easy because he lost interest or he suggested a break to keep you on the shelf (just in case) so he can go ahead and date other people. In both cases, neither is a positive outlook as a man who drops a current relationship to date around, doesn’t see you as long term potential. I’d suggest you move on from him and find someone who would love and appreciate you.

I’m an Aquarius sun with Capricorn Venus & Ascendant, and a Taurus Moon, I’m currently friends with a Capricorn Sun man but I️ read that Aquarius and Capricorn don’t really mix well, will my other signs be able to help that?

Never believe what astrologers say about mismatches. Other parts come into play and it’s a lot more complex than just sun signs alone. As far as your question goes, yes they do well together. To put it into perspective, the zodiac wheel is a wheel of energies that transmits or moves onto the next. The energy transferring from one sign to another doesn’t disappear and it doesn’t change. All it does is manifests differently or other characteristics that are more dormant in some signs might be prevalent in others. 

That being said, Aquarius and Capricorn are actually very much alike. They’re neighbors so pre-existing energy will come into play. Also remember that Aquarius is co-ruled by Saturn which is Capricorn’s dominion. So there will be some familiarity between these two signs. It’s only augmented by other planets being shared between these two, primarily venus/mercury. So even if you have two completely different sun signs, you might have planets in Capricorn (as you mentioned) and the Capricorn might have planets in Aquarius. So you can have a varied Capricorn and Aquarius. One being an airy Capricorn and the other being an earthy Aquarius. 

In regards to you, you have a lot of placements in earth signs. So this will make for a very stable and practical relationship for you. The issue would be if the Capricorn can find you too aloof or ‘friendly’ with the opposite sex and you might find the Capricorn too possessive or boring. But, if you two are comfortable and accepting with these issues, then you can actually have a very stable and loving relationship. Aquarius can find refuge in a Capricorn man’s stability and financial security and a Capricorn can find an Aquarius’ mind interesting and exciting. 

This is a promising match.

Aquarius males vs females

I hear people often ask what the difference between males and females are. There are inherent differences between the two sexes and it mostly comes from a place of ego. Physically speaking, a Class-A Aquarian looks a bit weird while his female counterpart comes off Alien looking. Not particularly ugly, but just…different. There’s an inheriting ugly yet beautiful physical characteristic that Aquarius females have. Her Aquarius brother though, can and often looks and acts like a weirdo. An intelligent weirdo nonetheless. He can be a genius with extensive background knowledge in anything he researches. But that very knowledge is what makes an Aquarius male arrogant and unbearable.

An Aquarius male has a God-like complex. A scientific mind with huge egos that are hard to break. Adamant and stubborn in their knowledge. They’re complete know-it-alls. And in there mind, they have a right to be. They’ve researched all extensive data and information to back up what they say, and if they don’t, they will stick by it through thick and thin. Never admitting to any wrong or misinformation. His very pride and likelihood depends on what he knows. He can be a skeptic and cynical, rigid and dogmatic. His scientific mind won’t allow that which is out of the ordinary unless he believes it himself. He’s so quick to shut down any ideas that doesn’t come from his own mind, filling you up with statistics and facts. Never letting his opponent gain the upper hand. 

An Aquarius female is almost completely opposite than her brother. She is humble and kind. Open to suggestions and will listen to others point of view, even if she made up her mind. She’s not filled with ego like her brother and hardly shows off her intelligence. To her, she doesn’t need to prove a point, unless she has too. Then that’s where you’ll see that side of her. She can be just as dogmatic but rare is the occasion where she needs to belittle someone unless she needs to bring him down to terra firme. She’s just as intelligent as her brother but she decides to use this very intelligence for good and ventures out to other worlds other than her own, to make it a better place. She’s empathetic to other people’s plights. Almost to the point of being a doormat to those closest to her. She hates confrontation and would rather ignore a person than to argue.

They both can be stuck and stubborn in their thoughts and ideas. Confrontational, calculating, and cruel when upset. But the main difference between these two? Aquarius male seeks to show the world his brilliant mind. He lives to gain followers and feed his ever growing ego. His sister, the Aquarian female, seeks to show the world that even the ugly can be beautiful. How everyone is unique and uses her brilliant mind to help others. Always there to bring down those who feel superior to those who are deemed weak. Which is often the case between an Aquarius female vs an Aquarian male.

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silly scorpio bastard...

All those dark, brooding, monosyllabic types, who fill the pages of cheap romantic novels with their strong jaws and piercing eyes, are Scorpios. You know the story: boy meets girl. Boy tortures girl because of a series of very silly misunderstandings and because he enjoys it. Girl becomes a psychological wreck. Boy sweeps girl into his arms and mumbles something about undying love. (He has to sweep her into his arms because by this stage the poor woman has completely fallen apart.). This is where the book ends. There is a very good reason for this. Mills & Boon know what is to come is far too awful to be published. Yet, this paperback ideal of love still manages to override the common sense of most women. We find the strong, silent, manipulative type irresistible. And we sit prettily on our hope chests with our long auburn curls in charming disarray, waiting breathlessly with much fluttering of eyelashes for Scorpio to stride into our lives. (NB: Romantic heroes never walk, they always stride – manfully and purposefully. Its dreadfully tiring for them, and its one of the reasons why they are so moody and irritable.) And once a Scorpio bastard arrives? Well, there’s nothing like a spot of good-old-fashioned-bodice-ripping to get things started. Just swoon gracefully into his arms and let him have his wicked way with you. Then have your head examined. The strong, silent type is what you should look for when purchasing white goods. Whilst these are desirable attributes in a washing machine, you won’t enjoy them in Scorpio. He is strong. Much stronger than you. Which means when there’s a fight, you’ll lose. And he is silent. Which means communication within the relationship is going to be a little one-sided. Holding back information is actually one of his favourite pastimes. Mostly because it upsets you. Well, what did you expect? Anyone described as “dark” and “brooding” is not going to be a naturally open, caring, sharing person. And Scorpio has a dark side that makes Darth Vader look like Mr. Whippy. As for brooding ability, he leaves Heathcliffe out on the moors: he’ll hold a grudge against you until the day you die. And your death will only appease him a little. However, you’ll never even know he has a grudge against you. A Scorpio bastard won’t confront you openly. That would be too much like fair play. He’s more likely to watch and wait – decades if necessary – for the chance to launch an attack when you’re not paying attention. And when it finally hits, it’ll make a stealth bomber look weak and clumsy. Unfortunately, because of the amount of literature (if books featuring Fabio on the cover, count as literature) you’ve absorbed, you’ll class all his behavior as normal. You’ll revel in all the angst. Being miserable all the time must mean it’s true love. This is all so romantic. You’ll even be flattered by his possessiveness (despite the fact that you’re not allowed to go anywhere of see anyone). It means he can’t bear to be without you. Of course, he can’t bear to be with you either – not when there are still so many things wrong with you. He’ll manipulate you until you become exactly what he wants you to be. Then he’ll lose respect for you, as you’re so easily manipulated. Then he’ll start looking around for someone else to manipulate. This is when you start looking around too. For reputable psychiatric help. Because, in the midst of torturing you, Scorpio will suddenly turn into a model of gentleness and consideration. He’ll even be kind to animals (standard behavior for all romantic hero types – designed to suck you into believing they have a soft, sensitive side). Don’t be fooled. Its just part if the callous game he’s playing with your mental and emotional health. His objective is to annihilate you. But if he can make you believe he is capable of such an act, it makes it all so much more fun when he actually does destroy you. And destroy you he will. This is what Scorpio does best. And besides, its how he likes to spend his spare time. Once you are a broken mess on the floor he’ll pick you up and glue the pieces, so you are whole once more, and he can start all over again. He takes his hobby very seriously. It brings him hours of enjoyment and allows him to explore his destructive talents. And you’ll get something out of it too. A hobby of your own: a lifelong obsession with him. Which allows you to spend your spare time in expensive 12-step programs undergoing extensive counselling. Check into group therapy when you find yourself getting upset just because he is sleeping with other women. It’s really none of your business. You are only his girlfriend / wife / mother of his children. And anyway, you’ll meet his mistress soon enough when she joins the group after she discovers he is doing the same thing to her. Then you can console each other about your mutual stupidity. You’ll both be introduced to a nationwide Unhealthily Obsessed Co-dependant Support Network for Women who have dated Scorpio. It comes with a 24-hour hotline, which you’ll put to very good use. (This is a free-of-charge service, one of many sponsored by the Aspiring Romantic Novelists Association who use it for research purposes.) The reason Scorpio inspires such obsessive behavior is because he is so obsessive himself – about sex. He thinks about it twice as much as other men, which basically means it’s on his mind all the time. Which makes him the blueprint for the complete and utter bastard. Which in turn, makes women think he’s sexy. Which therefore means he really can’t help but catch one or two of the airborne little-black-dress-clad oestrogen packages continually heading his way. (Warning: Don’t be tempted to have an affair yourself to get back at your Scorpio bastard. Right now, you’re in no emotional state to witness a jealous streak the size of the San Andreas Fault. This is probably unnecessary advice, as you won’t have time between those ever-increasing therapy sessions and that compulsive shopping habit you recently developed. And, lets face it, the nervous twitch and chronic alcoholism aren’t exactly going to be attracting men in droves.) If it helps your sanity, blame the other poor, obsessed women. Or their therapists. Or the government. Or, better yet, blame yourself. No one forced you to read all those ridiculous love stories. You wanted a club-wielding, hair-dragging, heroic bastard. You’ve got him. Now you have to live with him. So, just throw yourself into his arms or under the next passing truck. Either way, the ending will be the same. HOW TO SPOT ONE When a Scorpio bastard looks at you, you will feel a strong urge to shed your underwear. He will have this baffling effect upon you, even if you’re in a very public place and you find him most unattractive. WHERE TO FIND ONE Follow the trail of emotional wrecks to his door. Or, better still, let him find you. Because then, at least, you won’t be the one who started the relationship which ruined your life. HOW TO INTRIGUE ONE Be sunny and happy and full of life. He won’t be able to resist the challenge of luring you into the pits of hell. Once there, just be whatever he wants you to be. Holding onto your personality will only cause you a lot of unnecessary pain. THE FIRST DATE Scorpio will charm you into submission. Or else he’ll worm his way into your life and affections without you noticing – like cancer or some other terminal disease. And after just one date, he’ll know everything there is to know about you, and you’ll know absolutely nothing about him. This sets the tone for the entire relationship. WHEN TO DO THE DEED Because Scorpio has so many hidden agendas, you’ll never be able to pick the right time. So go to bed when he wants to, generally just after you’ve been introduced. (Tip: When you do it, make like a porn star, but somehow give the impression you’ve never done it before.) WHEN TO POP THE QUESTION When you feel the inclination to do this, have yourself committed. IF HE DROPS YOU Trying to exact revenge will only serve to amuse Scorpio, as your attempts will seem so amateur. Besides, he’ll be flattered he still has total control over your emotions and your life. On the other hand, running after him, doing your best impersonation of a doormat will only invite him to clean his boots on you. Don’t waste your energy. You’ll need it over the next few years, just to get through therapy. IF YOU DROP HIM He’ll get over it. If, however, he thinks you’ve slighted him, its best to watch out for yourself and take extra precautions for the next ten or 20 years – at least.

Scorpio & Aquarius relationship dynamics

When it goes great, it's great. Aquarius can always relate on some level to Scorpios as they there's a familiarity that seems homey. They can express our emotions without feeling awkward because they will not cuckold an Aqua. They will not act motherly like a Cancer (and make us more emotional) or cry with us like a Pisces (totally awkward). They will empathize and offer logical advise or insight. It's a perfect balance to an Aquas prideful yet sensitive nature. The downside is, that it can go very wrong and usually does so after the Scorpio explodes. Scorpios tend to suppress their annoyance and even though Aquarius senses it, can and will easily brush it off. While Aquarius tends to sweep things under the rug, Scorpio will hold on to it and wait for the 'perfect' opportunity to strike. I say 'perfect' because in their mind, they're jumping on that opportunity, while an Aquarius will just see it as a pathetic attempt at trying to break them. However, if an Aquarius truly loves the Scorpio, then it will sting. Not because of the cruel and calculating words a Scorpio uses or because what they said hurt, but because an Aqua will be baffled as to why a Scorpio feels the need to dip so low as to purposely hurt them. Aquarius always backs down from an argument to AVOID hurting the Scorpio, as an Aqua knows a Scorpios true sensitivities. And this is the major issue in Aquarius/Scorpio relationships. Perception. While it might seem like the Aquarius is ignoring or giving the Scorpio the cold shoulder on purpose, it's actually to AVOID a confrontation. Scorpio being Pluto and Mars ruled will see this as a slight and will dig even more to hurt the Aquarius, to incite a reaction. Scorpio gets tunnel vision (much like their opposite Taurus) and will go in for the kill to win. But unless an Aquarius has had enough, they will continue to ice the Scorpio until the situation loses steam, but this only makes matters worse as the Scorpio only becomes more dogmatic. Scorpio hates people icing/ignoring them and Aquarius hates people trying to provoke them. So it's a battle of egos where two strong individuals go head to head. Together they will go through many positive transformations but also negative ones. As every time Scorpio hurts their loved one, Aquarius' heart will turn to ice until they completely stomp on the Scorpio. And once that door is opened, it's never closed. Deep down they're both sadists. Which honestly isn't surprising, given that they're both co-ruled by dark planets. Death, destruction, and time. Saturnian and Plutonian energy at play when it's bad and Mars and Uranian energy when it's good.

Do Aquarius play Games?

The answer is no. Of course, it always boils down to each individual person but overall the consensus is Aquarius do not like to play games. Too much energy is involved in game playing that Aquarius don’t see the need to toy with people’s emotional states. Now, Aquarius will subconsciously push people’s buttons but to purposely sit there and play this game of cat and mouse is out of the question.

A better question would be, why would people assume that an Aquarius plays games? Well, it’s the Aquarius’ fault actually. Their odd and unpredictable behavior makes them come off as a mystery, that the most acceptable answer would be that the Aquarius is playing this elusive grand-scheme game to toy with the object of their affections’ mind. Essentially, that’s not the case. 

See, Aquarius go through odd mood swings. At times they can be extremely sociable, alive, and happy and the next they can be moody, anti-social, and elusive. Because Aquarius do not communicate their feelings, and quite frankly don’t feel the need to, people will assume that the Aqua is toying with them. 

What Mr. and Mrs. Aqua is actually doing is creating a mental space for them to wind down and go into their safe haven. Their mind. They love delving into their minds uninterrupted and undistracted from out the outside world. You being part of the outside world is included in this alienation party. They will not answer calls and reply back to messages, but they will check up on you one way or the other (if they care). As soon as this unexpected episodes occurs, they come back as if nothing happened, hoping you won’t bother asking, “Where the hell have you been?” Only for them to vaguely answer, “Nowhere”.

Why is it that so many people hate or dislike Aquarius?

Romantically speaking, Aquarius are hated because they are unattainable. So many people are mesmerized by an Aquarius at the offset and become so emotionally invested, that they end up resenting the Aqua when things do not work out. Of course, this can be said about any other sign, person, and gender, but the unique thing about Aquarius’ prospects is that they never actually were able to convince, coerce, manipulate or pin down the Aquarian.

Aquarius are Fixed thought, so when they make up their minds about something or someone, things will not progress beyond that. It’s only until the Aquarian decides that it should lead to something more. This is why women and men, resent the fact that they were lead on. When in fact the Aquarian was never truly interested in the individual.

It always begins this way: - the interest - the chase - the push to commit, but it fails…

So the games begin… - mind games - manipulation - the blow ups - the jealousy trip - the coercion - the confrontation

This is right about the time they give up... - the breakup (last ditch effort to emotionally manipulate an Aqua to commit)

Aquarius doesn't chase...

- the hate

The hate is basically fueled by the misunderstanding that many people have towards Aquarius and are left heartbroken because they didn’t know how to make them commit. So they end up resenting that they couldn’t pin down the Aqua.

On the other side of the spectrum though, Aquarius can be brutal. Verbally blunt and straightforward to the point of new level douche-baggery, these creatures can purposely push people away. They are the cause of this discord and they know it as well. It’s a projection of their past hurts that has never been dealt with. Thus this creates a self-fulfilling prophecy of this hate. But, because they are the rebels and fixed thought, they do not care nor do they wish to empathize with anyone, including themselves.