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searching for "enhypen/txt/bts fics" and most things being smuts (not implying that writing and enjoying smut is wrong) with clear women objectification and violence is honestly so weird to me considering that most writters of that genre are women or people with female presenting bodies

masking misogyny with the label of "kinks" does not change the fact that dumbification, pain/spanking, age play, slut shaming or name calling during sex is clearly rooted in pedophilia, patriarcal stereotypes/costumes and a depraved enjoyment of hurting women

a man who rapes and beats a woman does it either because he can or because he likes it, even both, and what are the reasons of a man who does rape play and spanking? Thats right, he enjoys it, and finds security on the idea of safe words, the sadistic side of BDSM and false consent

now ladies and ppl of tumblr, this is in no way trying to shame you for what turns you on, as I am also someone who faces daily discontent with myself because of the automatic romanticization of toxic behaviours, but most kinks really do come from childhood trauma or responses to media you have been exposed to, even if you do not think so

and while yes, reading fanfic on your phone is not a big deal, this things reflect actual behaviours and violent actions that happen multiple times a day, on multiple places, if not everywhere, and can distort your perception of real intimacy/pleasure

so please, even though its nice to pretend that your enjoyment of this type of content is harmless, it is not, not for people around you and neither for you, especially not you, this is not something inoffensive and should be treated the way you treat least sexual manifesting traumas, with therapy

why are degradation, getting dominated by force (and other sexual preferences like this) acceptable? is it because its in a sexual context? is sex perhaps an experience completely isolated from the rest of life? is sex consequence-free and independent from any type of opression faced in our current world?

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