If not wanting to work to survive 24/7/365 makes me lazy then I have no problem calling myself lazy. Better lazy than overworked and underpaid... waitaminute..
Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond—they patiently hold a safe space for you.