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wombatassistant · 3 months
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Reblogging this especially for the part about partners with chronic illnesses. We are out there, we want this even if we have to modify it, and we are valid members of the kink community.
Hey, just for the general public.
There's like emotional aftercare right and most people who do aftercare- this is what they think about right?
Emotional aftercare is extremely important but you Need to make sure your partner is physically taken care of afterwards as well!
I see a lot of doms talking about aftercare but not mentioning anything more than a shower or bath as far as taking care of their partner physically afterwards.
You need to make sure they go pee right after a scene!
For impact play if they're bruising, inflamed, or raw afterwards put ointment on it Before you put lotion on it. If their skin's just a bit red it's okay to just put lotion on.
For bondage, you need to make sure you put ointment on rope burns and massage out the joints and muscles that have been trapped in place for the past hour.
Sometimes your partner is too drained for a shower in which it's Your job to clean them up! Get a damp warm wash cloth and make sure their all clean.
If your partner has a chronic illness you need to make sure their getting the right care for that afterwards!
The point is, take care of your partner after a scene
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wombatassistant · 5 months
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NICHOLAS GALITZINE as George Villiers Mary & George (2024)
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Being mean to @broztied is one of my favorite hobbies
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soulmates 🫶🏻
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FELLOW TRAVELERS Episode 1 "You're Wonderful"
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wombatassistant · 5 months
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Jealous Hawk is something else 🔥🥵
Tim wants to get a reaction from him and Hawk is obviously jealous but as he told his father he has now learned to stifle his feelings but when he is with Tim he loses control and is unable to stifle his jealousy. Matt Bomer is so intense and sexy in this scene 🔥🔥🔥
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wombatassistant · 5 months
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-Does he walk in to that fancy Georgetown party with my smell on him? -Yeah. -Does he want to chat with the Kennedys and the Grahams with the taste of me in his mouth?
FELLOW TRAVELERS Ep. 1 "You're Wonderful"
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FELLOW TRAVELERS Episode 1 "You're Wonderful"
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FELLOW TRAVELERS 1.03 "Hit Me"
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FELLOW TRAVELERS Ep.1 "You're Wonderful"
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NICHOLAS GALITZINE Mary & George (2024)
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red white & royal blue ± george villiers references I feel that James I, who fell madly in love with a very fit and exceptionally dim knight at a tilting match and immediately made him a gentleman of the bedchamber (a real title), would take mercy upon my particular plight.
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MARY & GEORGE | OFFICIAL TRAILER
If I were a man, and I looked like you, I'd rule the fucking planet.
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What Makes D/s Real
“You need to get your windshield wipers replaced.”
“Nah, they’re fine.”
“No. You aren’t listening. You will get your windshield wipers replaced. Order on Amazon by Monday or go buy them before Wednesday. I want new windshield wipers on your car by Wednesday.”
Whoa. This is different. She’s never taken control like this before. Are those heart bubbles flying out of my ears?
“Do you understand?”
“Yes, Ma’am.”
That night, she had bathed me, collared me, beaten me, dressed me, and done my makeup before we were headed to a party. “My little doll,” she called me. And still, this moment in my car was the most submissive I’d felt all night. In fact, it was the most submissive I’d felt in our relationship so far. 
Up to this point, she felt like my girlfriend who topped me, but not my Dominant. But this time, it wasn’t about play. It wasn’t an area where we’d discussed in advance and I’d explicitly given her control. It came out of her desire to protect me. It was the first time she took control because she felt responsible for me—not as part of a scene but in everyday life. 
Still, it was just a moment. I wasn’t sure whether she’d remember or follow through. But on Tuesday, she asked if I’d ordered the wipers. 
Shit. I’d meant to do it the day before, but Monday got busy, and I forgot. So I hurried up and ordered them.
“Yes, I ordered them.”
“When?”
Shit. “Today.”
“Was that what I said?”
“Well…”
“You had two options: order them online by Monday or buy them in person by Wednesday. You did neither of those things. So now you’re going to cancel that order. You’re going to leave for the auto parts store. You’re going to tell me when you leave to drive there, when you arrive, when you leave, and when you are home. You’re going to buy the wipers. And then you’re going to put your collar on and spend the rest of your night writing lines.”
She remembered. She noticed. She held me accountable. This is real. 
All at once, I felt that gut-wrenching feeling of having disappointed her and the warmth of being cared for and kept. I didn’t enjoy the punishment, but I appreciated it. She showed me that she saw me and that my needs mattered. By the end of the night, I had new wipers and 100 lines of, “I will care for my Dominant’s property however she sees fit.” And I meant it.  
It’s not formal rules and protocol that make D/s real. It’s not the kneeling or the spanking or the oral service. It’s the everyday moments where Dominants and submissives care for one another through power exchange—when one nurtures through leading and the other nurtures through following. This is when I feel loved in exactly the way I need most.
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