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"The Serpent King is stirring within me,
awakening, his fine and force growing.
The raving one awakes, who is spendthrift with his power,
breaking through, breaking down, breaking apart what is outworn.
Do what you must, thunder and lightning,
but leave behind a newly ordered creation,
an oak growing from the wet ground."
A Book of Pagan Prayer by Ceisiwr Serith, pg. 94
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hair? oiled. meals? prepped. bed? made. skin? clear.
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Satisfaction comes from self-exploration. Tap into your deepest desires, aspirations, and temptations. Once you make peace with your authentic values, virtues, and inner wounds, you unleash your limitless potential. Set high standards and strong boundaries to actualize the woman you're meant to be. Your magnetism, allure, and confidence will attract every facet of your dream life with pleasure, fulfillment, and ease.
The secret to seducing the masses is becoming your own muse.
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my goals for social developement
staying unbothered
not engaging in triggering situations
standing up for myself
standing up for others
not participating in gossip
not oversharing
quitting people-pleasing
maintaining boundaries
thinking before i speak
i know that all of these are co-related, but each of them are added to the list keeping in mind various situations that have already occurred, and i would like to respond to them differently, if, in the future, i find myself in such situations again.
tip: if you want to create a similar list for yourself, try to think of various scenarios, or like i did, various situations that have already happened, and how you responded versus how you would like to respond. it would also help to research on each topic separately, understand why you react in certain ways, identify patters in your interactions, etc. this will differ from person to person, so one person's experience might not give you insight you need, deep thinking and reflection is necessary to understand yourself better ୨୧
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Getting your life back in 2024 (leveling up to the max)
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In 2024, leveling up your life involves a holistic approach to personal growth. Start by setting clear, achievable goals in various aspects of your life—career, relationships, health, and personal development. Cultivate a growth mindset, embracing challenges as opportunities to learn and improve.
1. **Define Your Goals:** Clearly outline what you want to achieve in different areas of your life. Break down larger goals into smaller, actionable steps.
2. **Continuous Learning:** Invest time in expanding your knowledge and skills. Read books, take courses, attend workshops, and stay curious about the world around you.
3. **Health and Wellness:** Prioritize your physical and mental well-being. Incorporate regular exercise, balanced nutrition, and sufficient sleep into your routine.
4. **Mindfulness and Self-Care:** Practice mindfulness to stay present and reduce stress. Incorporate self-care rituals into your routine, ensuring you take time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation.
5. **Build Strong Relationships:** Cultivate meaningful connections with friends, family, and colleagues. Invest time in building positive and supportive relationships.
6. **Financial Literacy:** Improve your financial knowledge and habits. Set a budget, save, and invest wisely to secure your financial future.
7. **Career Development:** Set professional goals, seek opportunities for growth, and stay adaptable in the ever-changing job market. Network and build a strong professional support system.
8. **Embrace Change:** Be open to change and view it as a chance for growth. Adaptability is a key skill in navigating life's uncertainties.
9. **Time Management:** Organize your time efficiently. Prioritize tasks, minimize distractions, and create a schedule that allows for both productivity and relaxation.
10. **Gratitude Practice:** Cultivate gratitude by reflecting on the positive aspects of your life. This mindset shift can enhance your overall well-being.
Remember, the journey of leveling up is ongoing. Regularly reassess your goals, celebrate your achievements, and stay committed to continuous improvement. As you evolve and grow, you'll find that your life becomes more fulfilling and aligned with your aspirations.
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You Need A Resting Season
What is a resting season?
As women, we pour so much into others (family, friends, siblings, pets) forgetting about ourselves. We work ourselves into overdrive feeling empty like life is passing us by and we don't know who we are or what we want. And if you feel this way you need a resting season, a resting season is like going into hibernation pulling away from the world and all of the unnecessary stress that we put on ourselves. While in your resting season, you are going to be quitting a lot of the things you used to do. A lot of high-stress activities that aren’t a priority such as school and work. This is the time for you to rest and pour into yourself. Work on the issues you have with yourself maybe you lack self-love, self-esteem, self-worth, or confidence maybe you want to lose weight and better your skin. It is time for you to invest in yourself and fix the things you can change and not worry about the things you can’t change. For every woman a resting season is different so it is important to know your priorities, the improvements you want to make, and what your resting season is for.
Signs you may need a resting season
♡ You are burned out. Even though are getting a full night of sleep you have this never-ending feeling of being tired of life, your daily cycle, your environment, and so on.
♡ Life isn’t fun anymore. You feel like you are in a never-ending cycle going from school/work to home. You could be giving too much of yourself to others, leaving no room for enjoyment, hobbies, and self-care.
♡ You're always worried. You may be feeling overwhelmed by all the tasks and obligations you have in life. You constantly have too many thoughts circling in your head never giving you the time to think.
♡ You don’t know what path you're going down. Maybe the dream career you thought wanted you do not want anymore, you have switched your major a bunch of times and still don't feel connected to it.
♡ Social media Is taking over your life. You spend hours on end on social media watching and reading toxic content and you need to step away and reconnect with yourself and the real world.
♡ You want to level up. You lack self-love and confidence you don’t like the person you see in the mirror anymore. She is tired, overworked, unhealthy, and doesn’t take time for herself.
These are just a few but there can be so many more reasons why you need a resting season.
I am currently in my resting season
Some of the reasons above resonated with me a lot I woke up one day and realized I was burned out I was stressing myself out with so many requirements to be perfect, rich, and live a certain lifestyle by a certain age. I switched my major in college a bunch of times I plan on graduating in 2025 with a bachelor in science of psychology but after I'm going to accelerated nursing school. I felt like a failure for a little while thinking I wasted 4+ years of my life chasing a degree that I don't even want now. I didn't like what I saw in the mirror and I had a lot of negative self-talk. But then it clicked to me I needed to check out from life for a little while and focus on myself and work on me. I wrote out my goals, what I needed to fix about myself, and the women I wanted to be coming out of this resting season. And I started that day working on myself I have changed a lot. I'm still in my resting season working on myself, investing in myself daily to become that woman of my dreams this is why I made this blog<3.
You can work on yourself without being in a resting season but I recommend resting seasons because they are better for focusing with no distractions other than things you must. If you feel a connection to this post maybe it is time for you to get into your resting season
I'm open to any comments or private messages if you can relate and please let me know any further topics you want me to cover
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"normality is a paved road: its comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow." - VINCENT VAN GOGH
how to start planning for 2024 so you can make it your best year yet.
make a new years resolution and as cliché as that is and as much as i hate them, setting a new years resolution is the best thing you'll every do for yourself. (if youre going to stick to it of course!!!) a new years resolution helps you figure out what your top priority of the year ans helps you organise what you need to focus on.
start a reading list. reading is such a fun, easy and productive way to stay happy and creative so its obviously one of the best ways to start your year off right. choosing to make a pact with yourself to finish 5 books by the end of the year can really make a difference in your productiveness and imagination.
make a vision board and revisit it regularly. i think vision boards can really help you understand where you want to be by the end of the year and its an easy way to track your progress throughout the months. if youre not revisiting these boards consistently and checking in to make sure youre staying on track though, theres a higher chance youll be less productive and less motivated to better yourself.
start saving your money now. money is a hard thing for people to keep on track with so start saving it now. or atleast start planning how youre going to cut down on expenses. instead of heading down to the shop to spend that pound, put it away in a money box and keep collecting until you really need it for something important and meaningful.
find your people. choose what people youre going to care about the most this year. or, if you dont yet have any people, then find some. youre going to make an effort with these people. take the people you care about most and forget about everyone else. these people are the people you want to last in your life, so make those lasting memories with them. and, forgetting everyone else doesnt mean being cruel to people you dont care for, it just means that you wont be checking up on them or prioritising them as much as the others.
find a new hobby or join a club. your choice. you dont even have to stick to it for the whole year. just make sure youre giving yourself enough time to constantly always be evolving and learning something new. its better to be a jack of trades, master of none than pnly being able to perfect one skill.
☆ theres so many ways for you to prepare for a new year but these are my favourite ways to prepare myself and help me deal with the change and new expectations of the new year.
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goals ❣️
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Creating a well rounded lifestyle between work life & personal life going into 2024 is at the top of the priority list.
Monthly Self-Care Days,
Pilates Classes,
Morning & Evening Meditation,
Church on Sunday's,
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