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I've started the process of documentation on the last labyrinth, which is...an undertaking.
#i'm in love with this project#thank you for sharing it!!#it's so poignant and has so much to offer everyone who views it#that's a marker of great art - the ability to be in conversation with a wide range of people
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need to do dishes and clean the kitchen and sweep the living room floor and wash the couch blankets and put away the hide-a-bed and fold my clean laundry from yesterday and put my bedding in the wash and then put it back on the bed (awful) and feed myself and clean up whatever the dog has chewed this morning but instead i'm sitting in my car finding peace in the sound of airplanes overhead and the occasional car passing by
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Up The Wolves by The Mountain Goats // Minotauro by Jordi Garriga Mora
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that one friend who is insanely smart, but also the most oblivious person on earth
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One dog has ear medicine she needs and the other one also thinks he needs it too
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I am looking neither respectfully nor disrespectfully. I gaze without recognition of your form, and without understanding.
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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)
I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important
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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around
When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry
I had to change that in order to keep those friendships
When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.
So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship
It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.
That's called "living in a society"
People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you
You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises
I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes
There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"
And that's a recipe for disaster
Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do
However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational
We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing
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now that I’ve been back a while I’m getting the age old “is this okay to reblog” questions on my posts, and I would like to say what I have always said which is that 1. Yes. 2. You should never
Ever
post a single thing on this site that would make you uncomfortable or cause trouble for you if someone shared it elsewhere. Yes, even if you disable reblogs on the post.
It’s not nice, but you have absolutely zero expectation of privacy or containment regarding anything you post to any social media. Even if it’s social media that only your friends can view. It’s still up and out there.
If it would be upsetting or dangerous or just plain awkward for something you post here to show up elsewhere—I cannot stress this enough—Do Not Post It.
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banging my head on my desk, typing with teeth-gritted politeness: yes we can patch the holes in your fucking disastrous record-keeping from over 10 years ago before you were our client, O Valued And Demanding One
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I need people to stop blaming the death of movies on “quips”. A quip is just a funny line of dialogue. That’s all. Like I just saw a post talking about quips and the death of movies and brought up Pirates of the Caribbean as an example of a better movie and yes it is but also that movie is FULL OF QUIPS. I just rewatched The Princess Bride. It’s all quips. Every single line. And it’s a masterpiece.
Movies suck when people don’t care about the art they’re making. That includes them not caring about their quips. Which is why a lot of comic relief dialogue ALSO sucks now. But the problem isn’t that funny dialogue exists.
#so true#i'm rereading an older fantasy series rn#(its the wheel of time im not afraid to name and shame)#and dear old boy robert jordan#he got the spirit but he a little confused#he tried his best to make his women characters vibrant and important#and they are integral to the plot! they have agency! they make their own choices and mistakes and triumphs and losses#but rj old boy. my good fellow#they are all ONE WOMAN#they all have this impatient snappy fiery banter and they all spend a lot of time geberalizing abt men being stupid and monolithic
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@for-the-love-of-angst soon.............
we should be getting iced coffee and going to creepy and musty antique stores together why must we be separated by our screens…
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the beautiful original post by @garaks-padded-bra can be found here, with additions from @acrowbyanyothername, @starfleetshrimps, @imhaley, @ronzyponyo, @funnywormz, @deepestturtlepielover, @willowandthesagaofgayyearning, @summer-azure, and @spacetronomyfan
(as always, omagpies stuff drops on Patreon @/magpiecrown one month in advance, and there’s already a hefty backlog awaiting everyone 💗)
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