ok this pride i do really need white gays to step up and out of their comfort zone and learn more about pinkwashing and gay imperialism. i need you to really try to understand why we say lgbt issues are ALWAYS about race and acknowledge the ways you use your identity as an opt-out of examining how you can reproduce racism islamophobia antisemitism colorism ableism etc etc. every year you say « don’t forget the ‘‘poc gays’’ that made this possible !! » now im asking you guys to actually do that. please ive had enough.
the idea that you have to coordinate your interests your style your hobbies just to fit one specific "aesthetic" is so boring like try new things listen to all kinds of music dress up in all different kinds of clothes just let yourself enjoy stuff nothing ever has to be forever