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unstablelesbian · 5 years
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I feel so much safer whenever gnc folks are around. butches, effeminate gay men, androgynous nonbinary folks, unapologetic visibly trans folks, thank all of you for just existing and walking around and making public spaces feel more like home
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unstablelesbian · 5 years
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assigned [ REDACTED ] at birth
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unstablelesbian · 6 years
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someone: *completes basic tasks and functions normally*
me, elbowing the person beside me and laughing heartily: i’ll have whatever that guy’s having
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unstablelesbian · 6 years
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im not something people love for long
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unstablelesbian · 6 years
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someone: my mom/dad supported me through some traumas that happened
me: parents do that?
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unstablelesbian · 6 years
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I survived my traumatic childhood and all I got was this lousy personality disorder, some ptsd, depression, anxiety - 
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unstablelesbian · 6 years
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new person: hi!
me: my personality for you will arrive in 5-7 business days once I figure out what makes you happy and how I feel around you
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unstablelesbian · 6 years
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me: [is crying]
me: am I angry or sad
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unstablelesbian · 6 years
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Dedicated Recovery
Resource Masterpost Vol. 1
Skills and Coping Strategies
Dear Borderlines…
Building A Healthy Mindset
Asset Building
Managing Expectations Through The Lens Of BPD
Privacy, Secrecy, and Healthy Intimacy
How To Build A Personality
Impulse Management Strategies
BPD and Self-Sabotage
How To “Handle” Someone With BPD
Rejection and Acceptance
BPD and How To Handle Rejection
The Five Stages Of Accepting That You Have A Personality Disorder
Emotion Management
Exploring The Emotional Dysregulation Of BPD
6 Ways To Feel Euphoric
Developing Healthy Emotional Attachments 
Comparing + Contrasting BPD with Anxiety + Depression
Marriage and BPD
BPD + Belonging
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unstablelesbian · 6 years
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anyway im using this blog again bc priv twitter isn't cutting it any more
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unstablelesbian · 7 years
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“You didn’t think you had to cook noodles”
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unstablelesbian · 7 years
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good afternoon butch and femme dont mean masculine and feminine and the futch scale was just a joke between lesbians it really wasnt real
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unstablelesbian · 7 years
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lesbian does not mean attracted to vagina
lesbian means attracted to women and only women, and thats it.
stop reducing women to their genitals, and stop invalidating trans lesbians and their girlfriends.
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unstablelesbian · 7 years
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straight women LOVE stealing lesbian things!
the bedchel test? originally a lesbian thing. straight women found it, and now it’s a feminist thing.
during the jewish holiday of pesach (or passover), there’s a meal called the seder. during the seder, there is an explanation of all of the foods on the seder plate. some people, but not all, put an orange on the plate. this orange is from a story. the story says that, once, a lesbian asked her rabbi if there was a space in Judaism for LGBT people. her rabbi said “there is as much space for LGBT people in Judaism as there is for an orange on the seder plate.” thats why it’s there. and to me, a Jewish lesbian, that story has so much meaning and hope. however, straight women took that story. they turned it into this: a woman asked if she could be a rabbi. she was told “there is as much room for female rabbis as there is for an orange on the seder plate.” now, instead of a lesbian thing, it’s a feminist thing.
“femme” is a lesbian term. straight women have turned it into a term that can apply to anyone.
one can be a feminist and still let lesbians have things!
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unstablelesbian · 7 years
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god i just <b>love</b> how i always default to anger after literally <i>anything</i> happens
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unstablelesbian · 7 years
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BPD feels.
Me: so yeah I have borderline personality disorder. I struggle with rational thought and emotional regulation so sometimes I may seem a little moody. I'm just all up in my head, yanno?
Person: ahh that's cool, I'm here for you!
Me: *gets comfortable enough to display symptoms*
Person: jeez you're so moody wtf is up with you?
Me: 🙃🙃🙃
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