So I get that Ross Geller isn’t the most popular character of Friends on tumblr, and I’m pretty sure this is very strongly in part due to his behaviour on The One With The Male Nanny…

…but isn’t the whole point of this ep showing how the culture of hyper-masculinity makes otherwise normal guys act like berks? After all Rachel has it right - Ross isn’t exactly the manliest of manly men on friends; he tries on make-up, he likes long hot baths, ends up accidentally wearing women’s clothes; literally every other character takes the micky out of him for this - but Ross is the one to really freak out about guys in traditional female roles. And then we find out it’s because his dad foisted all of this nonsense onto him as a kid, and how that must have made him so insecure - to the point where he freaks out when a perfectly lovely guy wants to take care of his daughter, and behaves like a perfect jackass. That’s not ‘Ross is a moron and a dick’, that’s ‘Ross was messed around as a kid and needs looking after’.

And more to the point, Sandy the Awesome Male Nanny actually helps him see that it’s not a problem and encourages him to express emotions in a typically ‘unmanly’ way. So what we actually have in this ep is initially problematic man undergoing character development and personal growth. And isn’t that kind of what we all hope for from men caught up in this hyper-masculine nonsense?

Tumblr, you should be all over this episode.

please just unmute this vine

Not sure why this park thought the first two sign language words they needed to teach to kids were “Ghost” and “Run”

I do what I want Wednesday!

Tom with his pals… Enjoy! (not my gifs – thanks to those they belong to!)

The very first fucking card

whoops my hand slipped

You have been visited by the Chan of wealth, reblog this and you will have money come to you!

looking healthy does not mean:

 petite, curvy, small, large,muscular, slim, pretty, well dressed, sweating from the gym…etc

looking healthy means:

 eyes sparkling, real smiling and laughter, skin that glows, a functioning alert body and radiating contentment and positivity about yourself.

:-D lol.

(photo via bag2bas)

Chris on Doug Loves Movies

I mentioned that I listened to this book and that they're making it into a movie to my boss and a few weeks later he told me that he was fucking reading it. It's made for some interesting conversation around the water cooler...

Ladies…. I’ve just started

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